This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 91 short prayers for healing in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
FOR HEALING (120-211)
General Healing (120-145)
Medical Testing or Hospital Stay (146-153)
Transplant Recipient (154)
Thanksgiving for a Good Report (155-158)
After a Fall or Accident (159-162)
Before a Child’s Surgery (163)
Before Surgery (164-167)
After Surgery (165-174)
Intensive Care or Isolation (175-176)
Chemotherapy and Long Term Treatment (177-183)
When the Patient is Unable to Pray (184-185)
For the Mentally Ill (186-188)
After a Stroke or Major Disability (189-195)
Recovery from Eating Disorders (196)
Recovery from Addictions (197-199)
Recovery from Guilt (200)
Two Patients in One Family (201-207)
Family Caregivers (208-209)
Patients Away from Home (210)
Family Members Apart from Patient (211)
Miscellaneous (unnumbered)
General Healing (120-145)
Compassionate God,
You know our needs even before we ask, and you answer our prayers according to your good will and mercy. And so with confidence in your faithful love and care, we pray for your child _____ in her time of illness. Give her all she may need each day, and bless her with your abundant goodness. Let your healing Spirit imbue her fainting heart and weakened body with hope, and grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (120)
Great Hovering God,
Your shadow is our refuge and your steadfast love is our shield. How we bless you for the gift of faith that helps us trust your abiding presence with _____, who turns to you for refuge and healing. Keep your wings of healing outstretched, that she may find the strength and perseverance she needs to attain full recovery and mobility. And enfold her in the blessed peace of Christ now and always. In Him we pray. (121)
O Depth of Mercy,
We ask your tender, healing touch upon your precious daughter, _____, as she seeks a return to better health. Place your healing hand upon her that she may draw upon your strength and drink deeply of your empowering Spirit. And by the grace of our Lord Jesus, grant her comfort and peace beyond measure. In Christ we pray. (122)
Everlasting God,
We thank you for your Spirit that hovers over us, especially when we hunger for your healing, saving touch. We beseech your healing hand now upon _____ in this time of illness. Be with her in a powerful way, to bless her according to her need and your great mercy. And cause your face to shine upon her now and always. In Christ we pray. (123)
God of Grace,
You call us to seek your face whenever courage falters, despair nips at our heels, or hope is hidden in the tangle of our wills with yours. And so we call upon you now on behalf of our dear friend _____. Bless her, encourage her, and defeat her despair. Heal her body, mind, and spirit and turn her laments of pain and suffering into triumphant songs of praise. In Christ we pray. (124)
God of All Life,
When our journey takes us through the wilderness, we know that you are with us and will never abandon us. In your mercy, we ask you to anoint _____ with a keen awareness of your faithful presence in her life as you touch her with your Spirit that she may find the healing she seeks. And bless her with the courage, perseverance, and joy that is hers through the grace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (125)
God of Saving Grace,
As you faithfully keep covenant with us in love and compassion, we rely moment by moment on your abiding presence. Pour out your Spirit now upon your child _____, as she goes through this dark and harrowing time. Strengthen and sustain her as you extend the warmth of Christ’s presence through the touch of his healing hand. Give her courage to endure and grace to thrive in praise and peace. In Christ we pray. (126)
O Everlasting Arms,
As in a mother’s embrace, you nurture and sustain us. Continue to uphold and enfold your beloved child _____, and bless her according to her need and your great mercy. As she seeks your healing touch, may she find an overflowing measure of the radiant joy and the sweet peace of communion with you. In Christ we pray. (127)
Creating God,
You complete your creation in us each day: healing our bodies and spirits and redeeming our darkness with the light of Christ. In this time of darkness, pain and despair, we ask that your healing grace may fill _____ with health and vitality. Change her weeping into shouts of joy and her despair into wings of hope. And grant her a full measure of peace—pressed down and running over. In Christ we pray. (128)
Giver of All Life,
We are grateful for the gifts of life, faith, and hope that call us to rejoice in your amazing grace, no matter the chaos around us. Our friend, _____, seeks your healing hand upon her as she battles this chaotic disease. May your Spirit’s breath give her all she may need. And let the marvelous peace of Christ settle gently in the deepest parts of her soul. In Him we pray. (129)
Compassionate God,
According to your tender mercies and good will, restore _____'s energies and give her the ability to be out and about among others again, to share her love for you and your world. But even while in her confinement and disability, lead her into a deeper, richer experience of your saving grace. Let your face shine upon her that she may continue to ride a rainbow of joy now and always. In Christ we pray. (130)
O Great Refuge,
We know that you are near and sustain us in all the circumstances of our days. We pray for your strong eternal Spirit to be upon our dear, _____, whose circumstances cause her weakness and despair. Give her the health and strength she is awaiting according to your good will and mercy. Be her peace and comfort today and light a kaleidoscope of hope in her heart. In Christ we pray. (131)
O God of Grace,
In this time of pain, suffering, and disease, we ask the presence of Christ to be with _____ in ways she might recognize. Be with those who care for her and work daily toward her returning health. Send your Holy Spirit to touch her with your strength, comfort, and peace. Bless her with all she may need to surmount this crisis and keep her eyes fixed upon Jesus, her Savior and Friend. In Christ we pray. (132)
. . .those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:31
Eternal God,
To turn to you is to soar, to endure, and to triumph. And so we turn and wait upon your healing breath to lift our dear _____ with the touch of your Spirit, to bring her to wholeness according to your good will. Lead her gently in this dark time of unknowing and pain, and shine your light of grace and peace upon her that she may not just survive but soar. In Christ we pray. (133)
O God of Covenant Love,
In the midst of our helplessness, we praise you for your goodness. In the face of our fears, we praise you for the balm of your peace. And in the battle of bodies fighting for better health, we praise you for your strength. Bless our dear _____ with the vitality, healing, and grace of your Spirit’s touch. Give her all she needs this day and lead her ever onward into the light and joy of your abundant life. In Christ we pray. (134)
O Sovereign Ruler of the Universe,
You call us to trust that you are working out your good will in the midst of all of the challenges of life, and that your grace is sufficient for today. May your abiding Spirit continue to pour out all of the strength and perseverance that _____ needs for this day. Bring her to wholeness according to your good will and mercy and confer upon her your healing light and peace. In Christ we pray. (135)
Merciful God,
Through all of life we are upheld and sheltered by your everlasting arms. What, then, shall we fear? Bless _____ now in her discomfort and pain and give her good hope as she seeks your healing. Calm her fears and let the touch of those who surround her with care and concern be your gracious hands upon her. In Christ we pray. (136)
Great Sustainer of Our Days,
In your merciful care, you hear our prayers and are quick to respond according to your good will and mercy. Hear us as we pray for your tender mercies to flow upon _____ now and in the days ahead. Bless her with your healing presence as she seeks a return to full health and mobility. Diminish her pain, shatter her fears, mend her body, and help her to rest patiently in you. In Christ we pray. (137)
O Great Physician,
Trusting in your faithfulness, we pray for our dear sister, _____, who is in need of your consolation and healing touch. Be for her a light in darkness, a balm in anxiety, and a roadmap in uncertainty. Grant her strength and courage, rest and hope, and bathe her wounds in your refreshing joy and peace. We ask through Christ our Savior and Friend. (138)
O Canopy of Grace,
In steadfast love and mercy, you stretch a tent of compassionate care over us all our days. We pray on behalf of our sister, _____, whose needs are great at this time of illness and despair. Let your Spirit rest upon her as a warming blanket, and your peace embrace her as she awaits your healing. And may the hands that touch and tend her be the hands of Christ upon her. In Him we pray. (139)
Eternal Love,
You bestow upon us all that is needed for triumphant living, no matter the circumstances in which we find ourselves. We ask your grace-filled blessings to continue to pour out upon our dear sister _____, according to her need and your goodness and mercy. Fill her with your solace, energize her with your Spirit’s strength, and accord her the hope of your healing. In Christ we pray. (140)
Great Guiding Light,
We praise you for your goodness that gives hope and purpose to our lives, no matter our circumstances. We thank you for the healing that _____ has received and pray you will continue to bless her, granting her wisdom, peace, joy, and strength for the living of her days. And help her joyfully follow in the steps of Christ as he leads her ever onward. In Him we pray. (141)
O You Who Lifts our Heads,
We join our voices with the saints in every time and place to thank you for your greatness and mercy! And as we bless you, we ask your blessing upon _____, who is awaiting your healing touch. Help her spirit soar, even while her body is bound by pain and disability. Give her all she may need according to your merciful good will and grant to her the joy and peace of deep communion with you. In Christ we pray. (142)
God of the Sweet and the Bitter,
You know us far greater than we know ourselves and you bless us with your grace in every circumstance of our lives. And so we lift before you now the circumstances in _____’s life that keep her in deep need and lingering sorrow. In your mercy, grant her a sure certainty of your presence and an abundant portion of your healing grace. Give her all she needs each day and let your light shine on her. In the peace of Christ we pray. (143)
O God of Miracles,
We are grateful for all of your abundant mercies upon _____ throughout the years, but especially during this time of trauma and confinement. We see your Spirit's hand upon her as every day she grows stronger and closer to complete recovery. Your healing grace is the source of her thanksgiving and your comforting presence is the source of her joy. We rejoice in Christ with confidence and praise. Hallelujah! (
144)
Compassionate One,
Your steadfast love and mercy are the source of all healing and hope, and so we pray for your blessings upon _____ in her time of need. Send your Spirit's mighty power to make her whole and well, so she may once again have full use of her body without pain. Let those who tend her have the healing touch of Christ in their hands and infuse your deep, sweet peace in her heart. In Christ we pray. (145)
For Medical Testing or Hospital Stay (146-153)
Gracious God,
Throughout our lives you hold us tenderly within your heart, but especially in times of unknowing and fear you are our comfort, our strength, and our hope. We pray that you will help _____ find the cause of her distress and relief from her pain. Guide the doctors and technicians that she may quickly get back to her normal activities, and bless her with your grace and peace. In Jesus' name we pray. (146)
Merciful God,
We know that whatever our circumstances may be, we can find what we need because of your amazing grace. We ask that you will place your Spirit's healing hand upon _____, that whatever is causing her body such distress may be quickly diagnosed and remedied. Let her recovery be seeded by your faithful love and watered by your overflowing peace that she may flourish each day. In Christ we pray. (147)
God of All Blessing,
We know that there is nothing beyond your power to bless. And so we pray for our sister _____ as she lies in pain upon her hospital bed awaiting your healing grace. Give her assurance of your presence and help her to trust your good will and mercy. And may all who care for her convey your touch. In the light and peace of Christ we pray. (148)
Compassionate God,
Through all of life we are upheld by your never-failing love. It is your faithful care that makes us bold to call upon you for courage, strength, and healing. Bless our dear _____ now with courage and strength as she undergoes her testing and hears her diagnosis. Grant her healing according to your good will and mercy. Tune her heart to hear your voice as she clings in trust and hope to Jesus. In Him we pray. (149)
Healing God,
You walk with us through our troubles and work out your good purposes in all of the circumstances of our days. So we ask for your tender, healing touch upon _____ in this time of unknowing. May your saving grace sustain her through the pain, the dizziness, and the difficult testing she must undergo. And as she draws strength and hope from Jesus her Friend, enable her to pray, "Thy will be done." In Christ we pray. (150)
God Our Shepherd,
You lead us to still waters where you fill our cup of life to overflowing, even as you quiet our souls. Be now a source of courage, perseverance, and goodness for _____ as she battles yet another setback. May the touch of her caregivers bring healing balm upon her body and spirit. Bless her with all she may need for this difficult day, and fill her to overflowing with the light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (151)
God of All Creation,
The faith you give us calls us to lean on your grace that is sufficient for all our needs. You remind us to be confident that you are working out your good will. In this time of _____'s continuing struggle, bless her with all that she needs. May her medical team find the cause of her problems so she may find the mobility she seeks. And comfort her now and always with the light and peace of Christ. In your holy name we pray. (152)
God of the Here and Now,
We thank you for your Spirit that abides with us to comfort and to bless, especially during dark times of unknowing. We rejoice that _____ has made it safely thus far through her ordeal. Restore her to health and wholeness by the healing balm of your Spirit's breath. And hear the prayers of those who patiently wait by her bedside in love and hope. In Christ we pray. (153)
Transplant Recipient (154)
God of New Beginnings,
We thank you that _____ has now received her long-awaited _____(organ), and we ask your healing blessings as her body struggles to accept it as its own. We pray for the family whose great loss has brought this incredible miracle of new life, and we thank you for their willingness to give such a precious gift. Hear the voices of the members of both families who cry out to you now in sorrow and joy. In Christ we pray. (154)
Thanksgiving for a Good Report (155-158)
God of Hope,
We are so grateful for your merciful presence with us in times good and bad, and for your abundant goodness that fills us with your grace. Our hearts overflow with thanksgiving for the good report our sister-in-Christ, _____, has received from the doctors. Continue to bless her with growing health, good energy, and great hope for her journey. And lead her in the ways of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (155)
O Giver of All Goodness,
We do heartily thank you for your faithfulness to us and to this world you love so dearly. And we thank you especially for the good news that _____ has received from her medical team. Continue to meet her every need according to your good will and mercy. Bless her and her loved ones each day that they may know your Spirit’s blessings each day. In Christ we pray. (156)
O God of Good News,
How we thank you for your steadfast love and faithfulness in good times and in bad? You have provided encouraging results from _____’s test and we are most grateful.
We pray now for her and her family as they celebrate this new lease on life. Continue to wrap her in your Spirit’s tender care. And make your face to shine upon her as she joyfully follows in the steps of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (157)
Compassionate God,
Your care and peace are our hearts’ desire, for in your love and mercy we find meaning and hope for each day. With hearts full of thanksgiving, we bless you for the good report our sister-in-Christ _____ has received from her doctors. We are so grateful for her growing energy and for the hope with which she now journeys toward tomorrow. May your abiding presence guide her in peace each day. In Christ we pray. (158)
After a Fall or Accident (159-162)
Heavenly Rest,
Like a good shepherd, you tend us as your flock, caring for our needs and injuries.
We thank you for your Spirit's touch upon our friend, _____, a healing touch that causes broken bones to knit and injuries to mend. We ask that you will continue to bless her and restore her to full mobility, according to your good will and mercy. May she stand in hope and walk in the light and peace of Christ now and always. In Him we pray. (159)
God Our Strength,
We pray that your healing presence will be upon our dear friend, _____, as she recovers from her fall. Let your wondrous Spirit heal her bumps and bruises, her aches and pains, and especially her broken _____(body part). May your tender care and mercy mend her and make her mobile again. Grant her patience and hope, and guard her coming in and her going out throughout her days. In Christ we pray. (160)
God our Maker,
We thank you that we can never stray beyond your unblinking eye, nor fall by the wayside unnoticed. We bless you for your tight hold upon _____ during this time of trauma from her accident. We pray that you will continue to tend and bless her through these difficult [weeks/months] of recovery. Mend her body and favor her soul with all she may need to let hope and joy blossom along the way. In Christ we pray. (161)
O Hovering God,
You carry us when we are weak and heal us when we are wounded, helping us to remember the life-long blessings of your gracious love. We ask your Spirit’s healing touch upon our sister, _____, as she struggles with her wounded body and heart. Carry her over the rough spots and bless her according to her need and your compassionate goodness that she may abide in the grace and peace of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (162)
Before a Child’s Surgery (163)
God of Hope,
We are grateful for the faith you give us to believe that your good will and mercy prevail over all of life's challenges. Hear our prayers on behalf of little _____ as she undergoes her surgery. May your healing Spirit work through her surgeons, medications, and caregivers according to your gracious will and mercy. And tenderly comfort her parents and family as they hold her in their hearts. In the peace of Christ we pray. (163)
Before Surgery (164-167)
O Living God,
Your faithful care of us is from everlasting to everlasting. Extend that care now to _____ as she undergoes her surgery. Let your Spirit be with all the medical team who will tend and care for her, giving them clear minds and steady hands as she goes through these perilous times. And bring her to a swift and complete recovery according to your good will and mercy. In Christ we pray. (164)
O Healing God,
You know _____’s need at this time as she waits for her surgery in both anxiety and hope for good results. Speak to her heart and allay her fears, we pray. Guide the hands of all who will be caring for her. Give her strength to meet the challenges of recovery and rehabilitation with courage and trust in you. Attend to her needs according to your good will, and bless her through Jesus our Savior. In Christ we pray. (165)
Gracious God,
We are in awe of the ways you bless so abundantly, especially in the midst of dark and uncertain times. Bless our friend, _____, through the nurses, doctors, and technicians who seek her return to health and mobility. Let their hands be the hands of Christ upon her as you continue to fill her heart with love, her body with energy, and her soul with the peace of Christ. In the Spirit's power we pray. (166)
O Whispering Hope,
Even as we make our requests known, you prepare our hearts to receive your gifts of grace. Pour out your grace upon _____ in the coming time of surgery and recovery. Kindle within her the healing flames of your Spirit’s power. Rekindle the fires of faith, that where there is doubt, she may find trust, and where there is fear, she may remember the marvels of your amazing, faithful love. In the name of Jesus we pray. (167)
After Surgery (168-174)
God of Love,
In grace you remember the afflicted and whisper hope and life in our darkest hours. Whisper now to your daughter, _____. We thank you for her safe passage through the perils of surgery. Let your Spirit bring healing on its wings and bless her in her recovery and treatments. And may the care she receives be as the healing hands of Christ upon her, that she may find all that she needs. In Jesus we pray.
(168)
God of All Hope,
We thank you that by your faithful care and goodness _____ has made it safely through her surgery. We ask you to bring her into a full recovery of health as you continue to be a powerful source of comfort to her. May your healing touch be with her through her caregivers and through the love and prayers of all who wait by her bedside. And lead her always along your paths of peace. In Christ we pray. (169)
Loving God,
We offer to you our deep gratitude for the myriad ways you restore us by your grace, heal us in your mercy, and bless us with your faithful presence. Continue to rain down your blessings upon our sister, _____, as she recovers from her recent surgery. Send your healing Spirit to meet her every need and let the peace of Jesus be upon her like a shower of grace in a desert wilderness. In Christ we pray. (170)
Ever-watching God,
How grateful we are for your abundant mercies upon ____ throughout her life, but especially at this time of surgery. You have brought her safely through the operation into this time of recovery. We see the hands of Christ upon her in the excellent care of her medical team we thank you. May your Spirit enfold her even as your grace upholds her to heal and strengthen her in the days to come. In Christ we pray. (171)
Most Gracious God,
We bless you for the signs and wonders of your grace that are upon _____ through her caregivers, medicines, and rehabilitation. We rejoice at the healing that she has experienced and thank you for her returning strength. Continue to pour out your Spirit upon her to bless her with all she may need as you sprinkle her heart with hope as you keep her strong in faith and joy. In the peace of Christ we pray. (172)
Great God our Shepherd,
You go before us in the darkest valleys and bring us beside still waters of peace. Thank you for your guiding hand upon _____ during her time of surgery and for bringing her back among the living. Continue to bless her as she goes through this time of recovery toward a new beginning. Restore her vitality as you light up her nights with the Spirit's power and cradle her days within the peace of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (173)
Gracious God,
It is by your grace that we live and move and have our being. It is by your faith in us that we are able to see the world with your eyes and to rejoice. Thank you for your countless blessings upon our sister, _____, especially for the science and medical care that is enhancing her vision and increasing the quality of her life. Bless her during this time of recovery, according to your grace and good will. In Christ we pray. (174)
Intensive Care or Isolation (175-176)
Merciful God,
Because nothing escapes your ever-watching eyes, we rest confidently in your promises to keep and to bless. We pray for our sister, _____ at this traumatic time of intensive care/isolation. Blow your Breath gently upon her and touch her as we cannot. Dispense your healing goodness through her medications, machines, and the loving hands of those that tend to her needs. In Christ we pray. (175)
Our Maker from Whom Nothing is Hidden,
You give us love, give us faith, and give us the light of Christ, even when we are unable to respond to it. Shine that divine light now upon your daughter, _____, and supply her with all that she may need. May the healing power of your Holy Spirit be upon all who are tending to her, and the sweetness of the peace of Jesus be upon her family as they await her healing. In Christ we pray. (176)
For Chemotherapy or Long-Term Treatment (177-183)
God of Miracles,
We call on your dynamic, healing power through Jesus Christ our Savior, as we pray for our dear _____ who has need of your strength and healing touch. Bless her as she endures this time of chemotherapy/radiation and give her the inner resources to persevere in grace. Let all who care for her be the healing hands of Christ upon her now and in the days to come. And give her all good hope and faith. In Christ we pray. (177)
Our Heavenly Shield,
You defend us from the slings and arrows of life, especially when we are at our weakest. So, with confidence in your faithful care, we pray for our sister, ____, who is enduring the agony of chemo and radiation. Bless her with the perseverance, courage, and strength that she needs. Steady her steps and shine the healing light of Christ upon her, as you lead her to the still waters of peace. In Christ we pray. (178)
O God our Hope,
We bless you for the gentle ways you guide us through the confusing mazes of this life. When darkness falls upon us and we stumble without a sense of direction, you gently lead us toward the light. As your daughter, _____, must make her way through the maze of surgery and chemotherapy, be present in a strong and visible way. Pour out your Spirit and draw her ever closer to the healing light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (179)
God of All Blessing,
We are grateful for hospitals and treatment centers, scientists, technicians, for doctors who seek out better medicines and kinder cures, and for nurses whose hands convey the healing touch of Christ. Be with your child, _____, throughout her treatments, that the light of Christ may continue to shine through all who hover around her and deeply bless her with your healing grace. In Christ we pray. (180)
Blessed Savior,
In your grace we find your power to redeem every circumstance of our lives. We ask your grace now to pour out upon _____ as she looks to you for a full and complete recovery. Gird her with your power that she may flourish. Succor her with your touch that she may find comfort. Let your great mercy bless her according to her need and your good will, that she may triumph through your grace. In Christ we pray. (181)
We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and shield. In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name. May your unfailing love rest upon us, O LORD, even as we put our hope in you. Psalm 33:20-22
Gracious God,
You are faithful to all you have created, filling the earth with your steadfast love especially in the midst of all of the challenges and sorrows of life. Therefore we rejoice in your endless love and abiding care. Let your mercy continue to flow upon _____ as she seeks your healing touch through her treatments. Give her all she may need each day and be her help and her shield as she hopes in you. In Christ we pray. (182)
O God Who Lifts Our Heads,
When our load feels too heavy to bear, you raise us up. In times of unknowing and anxiety, you guide, strengthen, and comfort us. Have mercy upon our dear _____ in her dark time of battle with (cancer). Let your healing Spirit lift her head to receive the healing light of Christ. Help her to bear what must be borne with courage, patience, perseverance, and hope. And grant her the deep peace of Christ. Amen. (183)
When the Patient is Unable to Pray (184-185)
God of Life and Love,
What a blessing it is to know that when we are unable to, our loved ones plead for us through the Spirit of Christ our Savior. On behalf of our sister _____, we plead for your mercy. You are acquainted with her needs as we are not, and so we place them in your healing hands, knowing that your gracious will is for life abundant and your victory cry is “Peace”. In the name of the Victorious One we pray. (184)
Abiding God,
Even in the darkest times, when we consider your compassion we are made able to turn to you in hope and expectation. In trust in your amazing grace we pray for _____. As she battles for consciousness, we recognize your abiding presence and simply ask that you let it be with her according to your good will and mercy. Be with all those who wait helplessly at her side and grant them all the light of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (185)
For the Mentally Ill (186-188)
Faithful God,
You carry us when we are weak, lead us when the way is dark, and surprise us with your amazing grace all along the way. As _____ makes her way through this time of mental illness, we ask that you will carry her, lead her, and surprise her with your gifts of grace. Bless her with all she needs and give her all confidence and hope in you. In Jesus we pray. (186)
O God our Sanctuary,
We would be still to remember that no matter our circumstances, you are the source of all of our strength and hope. Send your healing strength upon _____ we pray. Bless her according to her needs and your kind heart, as you bestow perseverance and courage in the face of all that seeks to destroy her life. And write hope upon her heart as you lead her toward the light and peace of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (187)
God of the Unknown,
We thank you today for our sister, _____, and ask you to bless her with a full measure of your Spirit’s life that she may have a sense of your abiding presence in the midst of her confusion. We cannot know if a sound mind may be according to your will, but we do know that whatever her condition, the light of Christ will arise upon her so she may find the peace that passes all understanding. In Jesus’ precious name we pray. (188)
After a Stroke or Major Disability (189-195)
God of the Helpless,
We thank you for the grace that upholds our sister _____ in this harrowing time. You have brought her back to awareness and toward the hope of recovery. We pray you will continue to pour out your healing Spirit until she is able to return to the fullness of life. Meet her needs according to your good will and keep her in the sweetness of Jesus' peace forevermore. In Christ we pray. (189)
Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the LORD. . . your God. Isaiah 43:1c-3a
Anchor of Hope,
We thank you for your promises of old, and claim them now on behalf of our dear sister, _____, as she passes through these overwhelming waters of trauma. Be with her through the flames of recovery and give her the patience and strength to endure what each day brings. And grant her the peace of Christ that passes all understanding. In Jesus we pray. (190)
Gracious God,
We thank you for _____'s family and friends who gather around her each day to support and care for her, especially _____, as she/he surrounds her with love and compassion during this long ordeal. Bless them both as she recovers and give them the peace and light of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (191)
Our Maker and Redeemer,
We rejoice that you are at work in our lives, mending what is broken and bringing goodness out of those circumstances of our lives we would curse. We ask your abiding Spirit upon our dear friend, _____, in her search for better health. Bless her with what she requires each day, and be with _____ as s/he stays by her side. Give them courage in each day's struggle and renew them each night in the peace of Christ. Amen. (192)
Faithful God,
As our beloved friend, _____, regains her strength and health, she relies on you for that which she needs each day. Bless her with a complete recovery, according to your good will and mercy. Fully restore her energy and good health as you renew her faith and hope in you. Touch her gently with your healing hands and give her a full measure of the peace of Christ. In Jesus' name we pray. (193)
O God our Confidence,
Your Breath of life upholds us at all times, but especially when we are weak. We thank you that in our helplessness, your strength is made apparent and your grace gives us courage. Let your wings of hope come and lift up _____ at her time of great need. Have mercy upon this beloved child of yours as she waits for recovery, and give her the vision to see beyond the present moment. In our Savior Jesus we pray. (194)
Holy God,
We give you thanks that _____ is home from rehab and praise you for all of the healing that she has received from your hand. Grant her full recovery and restoration to mobility and speech according to your good will and mercy. Give her serenity to accept her new limitations yet to persevere in hope, and settle the peace of Christ upon her as manna from heaven. In Jesus our Savior we pray. (195)
For Recovery from an Eating Disorder (196)
O Hovering God,
Your grace is sufficient for each day, and your will for all is that we may flourish and thrive. And so we pray for _____, as she learns how to love herself and how to thrive. Let the aroma of Christ fill her body, mind, and soul with your abundant goodness, that she may see Jesus' light shining in her darkness and accept the healing touch of your Spirit’s mighty power. In Christ we pray. (196)
For Recovery from Addictions (197-199)
O God of all Life,
We affirm that you are in control of this world, this life, this day. And just for today we let go of the chaos and pain of our lives so we may cling to your abiding love and healing peace. Grant to _____ the wisdom to accept the things she cannot change and the courage to make the changes that are within her control. And help her to discern the difference as you lead her into a sober and joy-filled path. In Christ we pray. (197)
Ever-faithful God,
You call us to let the burdens of the past slip away as you challenge us to take up the cross of loving ourselves and learning to know ourselves as you know us. That is our prayer for your beloved child, ____, as you help her work her program with integrity and courage. Lead her to closer communion with you as she learns to live in the joy of your amazing grace one day, one hour at a time. In Christ we pray.
(198)
O God of New Beginnings,
We thank you for this day of life and all the possibilities it holds, praying for our dear friend, _____. As she clings to you through the steps of her recovery, woo her to a deeper spirituality, a wider trust, and a higher hope in you. Meet her needs each day according to your good will and mercy, and grant her the serenity in Christ she seeks. In your Spirit's power we pray. (199)
For Recovery From Guilt (200)
Forgiving God,
Your dear child, _____, needs the assurance of your pardon. She has heard your loving words of hope and renewal, but still cannot seem to make them her own. Help her to remember your grace, given so freely in Jesus. Grant her the strength to let go of the guilt and self-recrimination that she now harbors, so she may forgive herself as the beloved child of your heart. We ask in the name of Jesus, our Savior and Friend. (200)
For Two Patients in One Family (201-207)
O Eternity of Compassion,
You call us to pray so that others may be blessed in their bodies, their faith, and their hope. And so we pray for _____ and _____ as they both struggle with poor health. Be with each of them to bless and restore them according to their need and your good will and mercy. And touch them with your healing Spirit as you lead them in the light and peace of Jesus our Savior. In Christ we pray. (201)
O Refuge from the Storm,
Your amazing grace nurtures our bodies and spirits in the midst of difficult times, and so we lift up before you the special concerns of _____ and _____. Be a sanctuary of hope amidst of the storms of physical disability. Nurture them according to your good will and mercy. Bless them with all they may need, and settle the peace of Christ upon them as your daily benediction. In Christ we pray. (202)
Great God of all Blessing,
Your goodness triumphs even in dark and chaotic times and so we lift before you the needs and concerns of _____ and _____. Stranded in the midst of two stormy illnesses, their need is great. Guide them through this time and bless them with the wisdom, strength, and courage they need each day. Pour out your healing Spirit upon them and fill them with the peace of Christ. In your mercy we pray. (203)
Compassionate God,
You invite us to call upon your Spirit for guidance, strength, and courage in all circumstances. And so we pray for your children _____ and _____ in their hour of need. As they each must undergo a time of uncertainty and testing, let your face shine upon them, that their darkness may be filled with the light of Christ. And bless them with the peace that passes all understanding each day. In Jesus' name we pray. (204)
O God of All Mercy,
Your great canopy of love and mercy stretches from generation to generation. We seek your healing hand upon _____ and _____, now in need of the restoration of health and hope. Call forth new life from their ailing bodies and sagging spirits. Tent them with the joy of your salvation and let them rest secure wrapped within your abundant compassion. Through Jesus, the Beloved One, we pray. (205)
Ever-Listening God,
You hear the cries of our hearts’ desires and respond to our pleas with grace and mercy. Hear our prayers on behalf of our dear _____ and _____ as they go wade through the treacherous waters of illness. In your mercy, touch them with your Spirit’s healing breath and restore them according to your good will. And lead them to health and serenity as they follow in the steps of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (206)
God of Heaven and Earth,
Within your Reign of goodness and mercy, you bestow faith to see your unseen presence, you offer strength to endure what cannot be changed, and implant courage to begin again. You have given these gifts in abundance to _____ and _____ and for that we are most grateful. We ask that your healing grace will continue to overflow upon them now, so their spirits may abound in joy and hope. In Christ we pray. (207)
For Family Caregivers (208-209)
O God our Sanctuary,
Fugitives from lives of relentless giving, empty of resources, and longing for rest, we run to you. We lift before you, _____, who is finding it hard to keep on going today and call upon your endless well of mercy to fill her. Help her to better care for herself that she may better tend to the needs of _____. Let your Spirit’s power be upon them both to be their strength, their comfort, and their hope. In Jesus’ name we pray. (208)
Loving God,
Your faithfulness to us teaches us what covenant love means, and we see that love mirrored so clearly in the ties that bind the _____ family. They are torn asunder by _____’s [mental] disease, yet they find the grace to offer her dignity and care. Bless them all in this time of turmoil and struggle. Shield them from all that would cause them harm, and lead them in Jesus’ peace each day. In Christ we pray. (209)
For Patients Away from Home (210)
Gracious God,
We thank you for your Spirit’s breath that nurtures us through the love of family, friends and neighbors, and even the kindness of strangers. We are grateful for the care that comes from the gifts of their hands and hearts. Bless _____ now as she prepares to go to _____ to seek your healing. Blow hope upon her that she may endure what must be endured and find returning health. In the love of Jesus we pray. (210)
For Family Members Apart From Patient (211)
God of All Families,
We thank you for the _____ and for the eyes of faith that help them see your abiding presence bringing comfort, strength, and help in their helplessness. As they wait today for news about _____’s condition, let your mighty Spirit blow upon them. Heal their dear loved one according to your compassionate will. And fill them all with the peace of Christ. Amen. (211)
Miscellaneous (Unnumbered)
Holy ONE,
You are our Source and our Sanctuary, our Root and our Shade, our Beginning and our Ending. How we bless you for this day that you give us! How we rejoice in your steadfast love and faithfulness to each of us and all of us in every generation! May it be that the praise of our mouths and of our hearts resound in holy harmony with the music of the spheres that is an echo of your passion and boundless grace.
We pray this day for _____and _____ who find themselves flung back into the fray of treatments and protocols, of appointments and missed vacations, of testing and breathless waiting. We ask that you will bless them according to their need and your tender mercies, that even in the midst of the battle, they may find deeper insights, greater wisdom, and your peace that passes all understanding.
Let your healing Spirit touch each of them and all of us this day, until we want no more. In Christ we pray.
NEXT POST: PRAYERS FOR TROUBLED TIMES
Friday, December 3, 2010
2--Prayers for Family Life
PRAYERS FOR FAMILY LIFE (1-119)
There are 119 short prayers in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
A Note from the Author
This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
Birthday Prayers (1-40)
Birthday During Pregnancy (41-42)
Birthday in Challenging Times (43-54)
Birthday for the Dying (55-56)
For a Twelve Step Birthday (57)
Birthday Prayers and Letters for Children (58-62)
Engagement (63-65)
Wedding (66-69)
Anniversary (70-83)
Anniversary of a Marriage Restored (84-85)
Anniversary in Challenging Times (86-87)
News of Pregnancy (88)
Undergoing Fertility Treatments (89)
Arrival of an Adopted Child (90)
Birth of a Baby (91-93)
Birth to a Single Mother (94)
New Grandparents (95)
New Home (96-99)
House Blessing (100)
First Day of School (101)
Graduation (102-109)
Away at School (110-112)
For Parents (113)
Foster Parents and Children (114)
Coming Out (115)
When a Family Member Comes Out (116)
Unemployed (117)
New Job (118-119)
Birthday Prayers (1-40)
God of Our Hearts,
You have blessed us with the magnificent gift of life, and so we rejoice and are glad in this day, especially as we celebrate the life of our friend _____. In hope and expectation, we lift our prayers for your Spirit’s blessings upon her. Grace her with all she may need now and in the coming year. And continue to guard and strengthen her each day as you lead her into Christ’s paths of peace. In Christ we pray. (1)
Weaver of Life,
How blest we are to be alive, wondrously woven together with others in your beautiful plan of Creation. We lift our hearts to you in joy and thanksgiving for your great Design! And we thank you for the life of our dear sister, _____, whose bold faith and colorful spirit adds such vibrancy to our corner of the world. And let your blessings of grace and good will be upon her in the coming year, through Christ our Lord. (2)
Joy of the Earth,
We celebrate the life of our dear friend, _____, asking your holy touch upon her as she journeys into another year. We pray that you will keep her aware of your Spirit’s guiding presence with her always. Steady her feet in the path of Christ and let his light shine upon her and through her. Give her all she may need each day that she may find your abundant goodness and live each day in joy. In Christ we pray. (3)
God of Jubilation,
We celebrate your incredible goodness to us as we mark the_____ anniversary of our dear _____’s birth by thanking you most dearly for her presence with us. Bless her abundantly in the coming year we pray. Keep her growing strong in wisdom, broad in love, and deep in the joy of living. Give her with health in body, mind, and spirit, that she may travel the paths of your light and peace. In Christ we pray. (4)
Holy God of All,
We thank you for the life you have bestowed upon our dear _____. We are grateful for her contagious spirit and for the many ways she ignites our community with her compassion and concern. And how we bless you for her ____ (gifts: beautiful music; faithful service; great joy)! Keep her steady and true as she continues to flourish throughout the coming year that she may joyfully witness to your goodness and love. In Christ we seek these blessings. (5)
Gracious God,
We give you our great thanks and praise, especially as we thank you for the life of _____ in our midst. We are most grateful for the many ways she conveys your love, trust, and hope to us and to the world around her. Bless her today and in the year to come, as you guide, sustain, and encourage her. And grant her your wisdom and strength as she follows the steps of Jesus into the future you have planned for her. In Christ we pray. (6)
Creating God,
You give us life and care for us with tender mercies all of our days. You rejoice in our being and delight in our uniqueness, all the while shaping us into the likeness of Christ. How we thank you for the unique and charming _____, whose life we celebrate this day. Grant her your favor now and in the coming year, we pray. Continue to nurture her and sustain her with your joy through all her days. In Christ we pray. (7)
Gracious God,
It is our great joy to thank you for the good gift of life you have given to our friend, _____. We are grateful for the many ways she shares your grace and love with both strangers and friends alike. Pour out your Spirit upon her now and in the coming year, O Lord. Keep her alert to the surprises of joy that await her. Strengthen her for the challenges she may face, and refresh her in the deep pools of Christ's peace. In Him we pray. (8)
O Thou Who art Life and Grace,
As a mother cradles her newborn child, so you embrace us in your care, warming us with your constant love and feeding us with divine kindness. Your Spirit breaks upon our hearts like the morning sun and warms our hearts with hope. And so in hope and love, we celebrate in the life of your beloved child, _____. Grant her your blessings each morning, and give her your vision to see Christ's light when the nighttime comes. In the name of Jesus we pray. (9)
Light of All the Earth,
You fill our dark skies with the rays of your love and cause us to shine like the noontime sun. Wrapped in the warmth of your love, we blossom and flourish throughout our days. We thank you for the shining life of your dear child, _____, and we ask your blessings upon her each day. Give to her all that she may need to blossom in faith, flourish in love, and abound in hope now and always. In Christ we pray. (10)
O Sustaining God,
It is by your loving goodness that we are given life, named as your beloved children, and sustained by your power all our days. We thank you today for your beloved child, ____, and for her loving, energetic presence among us. We celebrate her faithful service to you in humility and good humor. Bless her now and in the year to come, we pray. And endow her with all she may need to continue her journey of life in deep wisdom, good health, and great joy. In Christ we pray. (11)
O Eternal Love,
How lovely is the day where Thy Spirit abides! We thank Thee for _____, whose life reflects Thy abiding presence each day. We praise Thee for the many ways Thou hast shaped her for love, compassion, courage, hope, and joy. And we seek Thy abundant blessings to continue to envelop her in all her tomorrows. Grant that Thy shaping Spirit may continue to nurture her in grace, lead her in justice, and enfold her in the peace of Christ. In Thy holy name we pray. (12)
God of Miracles,
The miracle of life with you overwhelms our senses and brings us to a listening silence where we hear whispers of your love. How we thank you for the faith that woos us into daily intimacy with you. And we thank you particularly for _____, whose life we celebrate today. Shower your blessings on her now and in the coming year, and continue to lead her in Christ’s paths of peace and joy. In Him we pray. (13)
O Source of All Goodness,
What a blessing we have in the gift of faith that helps us see your grace at work in our lives. What a joy to discover your miracles that abound in the world! And how clearly we see your providential and grace upholding the life of our dear friend, _____! Her words are kind and gracious; her deeds are just and merciful. We celebrate her presence and ask your blessings to continue to flow upon her and through her. Give her all she may need and keep her rejoicing in the path of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (14)
O Beloved One,
Our mortal thoughts fail to comprehend your greatness, yet we somehow recognize that we are upheld by your steadfast love and sustained by the abundant power of your Spirit. Today we celebrate the abundant life of our sister, _____. As she enters her middle years we ask your blessings of the trust and joy of childhood and the wisdom and courage of the aged. And let the peace of Christ be with her all her days as he leads her toward the full light of your glory. In Him we pray. (15)
O Source of All,
Each day your Spirit calls us into a journey of faith and hope, and calls us to rejoice in you with the energy of our bodies, the focus of our minds, and the dance of our spirits! Hallelujah! We pray for our friend, _____, as she steps into a new year of life. Bless her today and all her tomorrows. Be mindful of her needs and meet each of them according to your good will and mercy. And lead her in the Great Dance of our Lord Jesus, now and always. In Christ we pray. (16)
Grand and Glorious God,
We thank you that we are both challenged and fulfilled as we journey through life with you. We thank you particularly for your gift of life to _____ and for all the ways she reflects your love and hope in the midst of her challenges and trials. Let your light shine upon her today and in the coming year, we pray. Keep her open to the surprises of your grace and give her all she needs as she follows in the footsteps of Jesus our Savior. In Christ we pray. (17)
Most Loving God,
The magnificent gift of life is a gift of your grace to us. We delight in the life of _____, whose birthday we celebrate today. We seek your richest blessings upon her now and in the coming year. Grant to her your Spirit’s guidance each day and lead her in your mysterious ways of justice, peace, and love. In Christ we pray.
(18)
O Fount of Living Waters,
Your loves bathes us in blessings as it causes goodness, healing, and hope to pour out upon us, carrying us along the stream of life from cradle to grave. We ask your gracious outpouring of blessing upon _____, as we celebrate her life and ministry among us. Satisfy her needs of body, mind and sprit and keep her moored in faith, anchored in trust, and harbored in hope, now and always. In Christ we pray. (19)
Gracious God,
As we live within the sanctuary of your love, we glimpse your glory and taste the sweetness of your mercy. And in gratitude and joy, we lift before you our sister, _____, and we ask that you will be her sanctuary of rest and hope, now and in the year to come. Bestow upon her your richest blessings and lead her into the paths of joy and peace. In Christ we pray. (20)
O Infinite Love,
With a life steeped in the wonder of your love, your daughter, _____, brings the aroma of Christ’s joyful humility to those around her. We are deeply grateful for her life, and pray you will pour out your Spirit upon her today and all of her tomorrows. Help her according to her need and your mercy, that she may never find cause to stop counting and naming your bountiful gifts. In the sweet Holy Spirit we pray. (21)
O God of New Beginnings,
With a song of joy we greet the new beginning that each day offers, and we extol your great design of life that leads us to forgiveness and renewal in you. We thank you for the gift of your grace upon _____, as we celebrate her life and new beginnings. Keep her clinging to hope in you. Remind her now and in the coming year of your faithful love, and help her so to believe where her eyes cannot see that she finds each day to be a celebration of her birth and life with you. In Christ we pray. (22)
O God of Surprising Joy,
All along our way, you’ve been with us. Even now, your Spirit goes before us, guiding and guarding us each step of our journey. We rejoice in overflowing joy for such faithful love that will not let us go, nor ever turn us away. And we thank you especially for your dear child, _____, as seek your rich blessings upon her now and in the coming year. Keep her walking serenely behind Jesus, so that no matter what may unfold, she may find green pastures of joy and deep pools of peace. In our Shepherd we pray. (23)
O Cloak of All Goodness,
Your steadfast love wraps around us with the warmth of the sun as it mends our wounds, heals our diseases, and causes us to reflect your goodness and mercy. We give you all thanks for these abundant blessings of your grace. And we pray for your humble servant, _____, who today celebrates her birthday. Bless her with all she may need, according to your good will and mercy. Cause her to shine throughout the coming year and grant her the warmth and peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (24)
God Our Vision,
In the brilliant light of Christ, we see the pathway of goodness and hope you would have us walk, and we are blessed. Shed the brightness of your covenant love upon our dear ____today as she marks the anniversary of her birth. Bless her with everything she may need to live according to your gracious good will in the coming year. And continue to lead her in Christ’s pathways of peace. In Him we pray. (25)
O Love Without End,
How exquisite is the gift of life lived in communion with you! We rejoice that you tether us one to another and help us blossom and flourish all our days. We thank you today for our sister, _____, whose compassion, wit and wisdom, humility and hospitality blossom in our community. Be with her in the coming year that your joy and peace may flourish in her heart as she follows in the steps of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (26)
God of All Grace,
The world overflows with signs of your exuberant love and the earth is full of the amazing wonders of your grace and good will. Our dear friend, _____ is a sign to us of your love and grace. We rejoice in the ways that she shares her life, faith, and time with those around her. Bless her now and in the coming year with all she may need, as you settle the peace of our Friend Jesus in the depths of her soul. In Christ we pray. (27)
O Blessed Shepherd,
Evidences of your faithful care and love surround us like the wildflowers of spring. Dwelling in the midst of your fields of goodness, we respond with cries of praise and gratitude. We thank you now for one the sheep of your own flock, _____. We thank you for her dear presence among us that enriches our lives with her keen humor, piercing questions, and gifts of love. Bless her today and in the coming year that she might continue to follow Jesus to the Living Waters of abundant life. In Christ we pray. (28)
O Source of All,
We thank you for the beauty of nature and its good gift of life that sustains and delights all your creatures. We are especially grateful for the gift of ____’s life, who we celebrate today and thank you for all the ways she so great cherishes your Creation. Let your Spirit breathe upon her now and in the coming year that she may continue to be blessed, nurtured, and astounded by joy. In Christ we pray. (29)
Great Choreographer of Life,
With your love to design the steps and your Spirit to be our guide, we are made able to dance in joy, leap in faith, and exult in hope through all the circumstances of our days. We are grateful for those who follow the rhythms of your design in step with us, especially for, _____, as she celebrates her special day. Bless her now and in the coming year with all she may need to continue to exuberate with a leaping heart behind the Lord of the Dance. In Christ we pray. (30)
God of All Goodness,
Our souls overflow with thanksgiving for the precious gift of being alive. We thank you today for our dear friend, _____, and for the countless ways she shares her vitality and joy in being alive. May your abundant blessings continue to fill her days and nights with goodness and mercy, as you keep her on the path of peace. In Christ we pray. (31)
O Boundless One,
Confined neither by time nor space, your love upholds the universe while calling us into life and sustaining us all our days. In a profusion of grace, you meet all of our needs, fill us with courage, and grant us the perseverance to follow your vision of peace.
Bless your beloved daughter, _____, now and in the coming year, we pray. Continue to grant her wisdom, courage, and strength to live each day triumphantly. And lead her onward into your ways everlasting. In Christ we pray. (32)
O Ground of our Being,
You are a taproot of grace that anchors our lives in you. You send the Spirit that lifts our hearts on wings of joy and hope. And we are blessed. We ask your continued blessings of roots and wings upon our sister-in-Christ, _____, today and in the year to come. Ground her firmly in your wisdom, lift her gently by your mercy. And let her soar in the wake of the One who is the Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (33)
O Stronghold of the Universe,
Your steadfast love gives birth to all life and especially the life of your child, _____. We ask your magnificent blessings upon her today and in the coming year. As her days unfold within your care, continue to grant her all that she may need to serve and honor you and your Reign of Love. Give her a full measure of hope and joy, and lead her in the paths of the Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (34)
O Keeper of Promises,
We thank you for your Spirit’s faithful care that upholds us by your power, guides us by your wisdom, and renews us by your mercy. We ask your special favor upon our sister, _____, on this day of celebration for her life. Give her a day of joy and thanksgiving. Bring her a year of meaningful work, rest and play. And help her find an ever-deeper tranquility in your presence through the Promised Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (35)
O Faithful One,
You welcome, forgive, and heal us in never-ending love. And you help us find your good will and purposes within the matrix of our days. We joyfully thank you for all that you are to us and all people. And we ask your special blessing this day upon our sister, _____, as we celebrate her life of _____ years. Rest your hand upon her and grant her an overflowing measure of your Spirit. Meet her needs each day according to your good will and mercy, and lead her in the light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (36)
Inscrutable God,
We cannot know you completely, but we know your Spirit that abides with us to help us celebrate life abundant with you. We ask your great blessings now upon your beloved child, _____, as we honor her life. Let her journey with you continue in the joy, good health, integrity, courage and hope that she seeks. And lead her in the Way everlasting. In Christ we pray. (37)
O Sour of All Love,
You turn our hearts of stone into beating drums of thanksgiving and praise as you give us faith to know you, hearts to love you, and willing hands to serve you. We thank you for the blessing of _____’s presence in our lives, for the faith she shares, and the good news she spreads in all that she does. Continue to fill her lips with songs of your love each day, her hands with deeds of your mercy, and her life with your joy. In Jesus we pray. (38)
O Carpenter of Our Days,
Your measure is mercy; your brick is faithfulness, and your mortar is love.
With Jesus as our cornerstone, you build us up each day so we may be your people, strong and true. We ask you to bless and favor our dear sister, _____, as we celebrate her life today. Undergird her with a certainty of your presence and good will. And fortify her in faith and hope so she may continue to live according to the blueprint of your Reign of Love, now and forever. In Christ we pray. (39)
O Surprising One,
Each day we are astounded anew by the ways you make us recipients of your grace so we may find meaning and purpose in this day, and hope for tomorrow. We pray your grace anew upon our dear sister-in-Christ, _____, as we rejoice in her life with us. Shower her each day with blessings beyond counting as she continues to follow Jesus toward your eternal peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (40)
Birthday During Pregnancy (41-42)
O Womb of All Love,
We thank you today for the love we share with _____, whose birth we celebrate today. We ask you to be with her now and in the coming year. Keep her safe through the remaining stages of her journey to motherhood and bless the little one who is bound to her as we are bound to you. Be her midwife of health and her birthing stool of joy, that all may be well, according to your good will and Spirit's power. In Christ we pray. (41)
Fountain of Life,
You place us in families where we become the persons you intend us to be as we learn what it means to love, to forgive, and to persevere. And as we celebrate the birth of _____today, we seek your blessing as she co-creates with you the new life within her. Let your blessings abound on them both, and help her to feast on the wonders of your grace, now and always. In Christ we pray. (42)
Birthday In Challenging Times (43-57)
O Force of Life,
How we thank you for your care of all life through the generations, and thank you especially this day for the life you give to _____. Bless her in the coming year through all of the challenges set before her. Give her the ability to choose wisely and the strength to meet what is ahead in faith and trust. And grant her the peace that passes understanding. In Christ we pray. (43)
O God of the Universe,
You plot the course of the sun and moon and you guide the stars in their appointed places. Through blissful times of calm and through tragic times of turbulence, you gently lead us in the course you have appointed. We ask your special birthday blessings upon _____, especially in this time of tragedy in her family. Uphold and guide her in the darkness by your light and grace. In Christ we pray. (44)
Keeper of Our Days,
We are grateful for your faithful care, especially in painful times of loss and sorrow. But even in the midst of our darkest days, you speak to us of life and never-ending love. We are grateful for the love we have for our dear _____, and we celebrate her life today. Let your Spirit hover over her, that she may enjoy your blessings even in the midst of grief. Sustain her by your strength, lead her by your wisdom, and console her in the peace of our Lord Jesus. In Christ we pray. (45)
O Guardian of Each Moment,
Under your watchful care we find meaning and hope for our days even in times of loss and despair. By the power of your Spirit, we are strengthened to be your faithful, joyful people, and so with joy we honor our friend, _____. Be the shade at her right hand, the light in her darkness, and the hope of her tomorrows. With a shepherd’s tender care keep her steady and secure, and help her remember your blessings with thanksgiving and joy. In Christ we pray. (46)
O Hovering God,
Like an eagle protecting her young, your watchful eyes are always upon us. You nurture us with your faithful love and hide us in the shadow of your wings in times of trouble. We pray your birthday blessings upon, _____, and seek your healing grace upon her at this time of illness. Give her all she may need each day so that her spirit may soar on the wings of your joy and her body rest content in the tender hands of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (47)
O God our Refuge,
Like an eagle teaching her young to fly, catching them safely in her spreading wings, you buffer our falls and give us hope. You carry us when we’re too shaky to walk, and you cause us to soar on the wings of your love. We ask blessings deep and wide upon _____ today as we celebrate her birth. Catch her in your spreading wings, we pray. Renew her strength and help her to soar. Bathe her in the light of Christ and fill her with his peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (48)
O Transforming God,
How dependent we are on your amazing grace for all things. . . for hearts that beat and lungs that fill and fill again. . .for the ability to receive care from those who are the hands of Christ to us. . .and for the gift of a life full of wonders and signs of your abiding Spirit. We celebrate the life of our dear _____, and lift her up to you during her prolonged illness. Lead her to better health and energy. Grant her strength and help her find the still waters of peace each day. In Jesus we pray. (49)
Holy God,
We offer our heartfelt gratitude for the special happiness that we find in the people you place in our lives. We thank you especially today for our wonderful friend, _____. You know her needs and are acquainted with all her sorrows. Bless her now and in the coming year according to your good will and mercy. Be her strength, courage, wisdom, and let the peace of Jesus be a bridge over the troubled waters before her. In Christ we pray. (50)
God of Abiding Mercy,
We thank you for the precious gift of life that you have given to _____. We honor her today and thank you for all the ways we have been blessed by her presence, friendship, and compassionate heart. Continue to pour out your Spirit upon her, giving her strength and peace for her soul as she lies quietly on her sickbed. May she find your grace to be sufficient for all her needs and your love to be the source of all healing. In Jesus our Savior we pray. (51)
God of All Our Days,
How we thank Thee for all Thy blessings bestowed upon us throughout our earthly journey in such abundance! We ask Thy gracious blessings upon _____ as we celebrate the completion of another year of her journey. In love and mercy, continue to heal, strengthen, and lift her toward better health. And grant her Thy power to persevere that she may bear all things with courage, patience, and joy. In Christ we pray. (52)
Hope of the Ages,
We celebrate the life we share together with your dear daughter, _____. We ask your Spirit’s transforming power to bless and keep her in the coming year as she faces an unknown and frightening future. Give her what she may need to rise to the challenge with courage and trust. And bless her always with the grace and the great shalom of our Teacher and Friend. In Jesus we pray. (53)
Great Sower of Life,
As Creation springs forth at your command and sings your glories, we would add our hymns of joy to its anthem. And today we sing in thanksgiving for the life you have given to _____. We celebrate her life even as we lay before you her particular concerns. You know them well and are acquainted with all her suffering. Bless her with your Spirit’s touch now and in the coming time so she may always remember that your grace is sufficient for all her needs. In Christ we pray. (54)
Birthday For the Dying (55-56)
O Heart of our Hearts,
Your gift for each of us is a grace-filled life sustained by your Spirit. We experience this goodness most profoundly when you place others in our lives that gladden our hearts with love and joy. That is why we clap our hands in thanksgiving for the gift of _____’s life whose birthday we celebrate today. Shower her with your deep, rich blessings now and in the short time she has left on this earth. And grant that each day she may drink from the still waters of your peace until she wants no more. In Christ we pray. (55)
Eternal God,
Ageless and mighty, you are a tower of strength for us throughout the span of our years. Even as our bodies grow weaker and our faculties dim, you call us to thanksgiving and praise for each day. Especially today, we lift to you our gratitude for our dear and precious friend _____. Bless her now as you have throughout her long life. Help her to remember how dearly she is loved. And give her strength, courage, and wisdom as you lead her gently home to her final rest and comfort. In Christ we pray. (56)
Twelve Step Birthday (57)
God of New Beginnings,
Our spirits soar at the vision you hold up for us as persons healed and sober. We bless you for _____ this day, who marks the completion of ____ years of sobriety. Continue to sustain and strengthen her as you demonstrate your power through her weakness. Grant her serenity, courage, and wisdom, and lead her onward in the road of recovery with a new beginning each day. In Christ we pray. (57)
Birthday Prayers and Letters for Children (58-62)
Dear God,
Thank you for families that love and care for us. We pray for _____ on her ____ birthday and for her mommy and daddy, too. Help her to grow strong in body, mind, and spirit. Help her to remember that you are crazy about her! And help everyone who cares for her to teach her your ways, so she will know and love you all the days of her life. In Jesus’ name we pray. (58)
Dear God,
We thank you for _____ on her special birthday. We thank you for her family and friends, and all the ways they show her your love and care. Help them to raise her up in goodness and peace. Give her a great day, and keep her safe and healthy in the coming year. In Christ we pray. (59)
Dear God,
We thank you for the wonderful first year of life you have given to _____. We are blessed to know her and joyfully pray for her and her parents. Meet her every need according to your good will and loving heart. Keep her safe, strong and healthy. Give _____ and _____ all that they will need to help her to blossom one day into a woman of love, faith, and hope. In Christ we pray. (60)
Dear _____,
You are _____ years old today! Happy, happy birthday! Your friends are praying for you on your special day. We pray that God will bless you BIG TIME in the coming year to help you grow strong in body, mind, and spirit. May you know God’s comfort when you are afraid, God’s wisdom when you have choices to make, and God’s joy when you help others. Just remember, God is crazy about you! Much love, (61)
Dear _____,
Happy birthday a little late! I’m sorry we missed your special day. I’m writing to let you know that your friends are (church family is) praying for you and asking God to bless you REAL GOOD! We pray you will keep on growing strong and healthy in body, true and wise in mind, and kind and loving in spirit. We love you! (62)
Engagement (63-65)
O Binding One,
You have called _____ and _____ into a life-giving relationship, and now they desire to bind themselves to one another with holy promises. We seek the strength of your bounteous Spirit in this time of preparation for marriage. Give them all they may need to support each other in mutual respect and love. And bless them as they journey hand in hand into the future you have planned. In Christ we pray. (63)
God of Jubilation,
We rejoice with _____ and _____ at this time of engagement and ask your blessings as they prepare to make their covenant vows to each other. Thank you for this special relationship that nurtures them so richly and shines the light of love upon their families and friends. Let the roots of their love be watered by laughter, forgiveness, and joy. Gird them with wisdom and peace and bless them for all of their days. In Christ we pray. (64)
God of Covenant Promise,
We lift before you _____ and _____, asking your blessings upon them as they prepare themselves to make their public vows of love and commitment. Keep them tethered to your Spirit and to one another, so when the storms arise and the dark times come they will not just survive, but may triumph in grace and hope. Let the glow of their love be a blessing to others and help them sojourn in the peace and joy of Christ all their days. In your holy name we pray. (65)
Wedding (66-69)
God of All Love,
We celebrate the relationship of _____ and _____ as they bind their lives together in holy matrimony. Pour your goodness out upon them that this marriage may be a tree of life to them. Give them deep roots to hold fast to you and each other in stormy times. May the tree of their love bring blossoms of blessings and fruits of your Spirit now and always. In the joy and hope of Christ we pray. (66)
Gracious and Loving God,
We extol you for the beauty and mystery of covenant love that teaches us to reach out beyond ourselves in humility and mutual respect. As _____ and _____ make their sacred vows to become as one, bless their life together. And let the bonds of commitment, friendship, and forgiveness keep them vibrant with an ever-growing love, that they may be a source of blessings to all who know them throughout their days. In Christ we pray. (67)
Binding God,
We celebrate with _____ and _____ the covenant relationship to which you have called them. We pray for their marriage and for the family that they have formed through their vows. Anchor them in your faithful love, so that no power on earth can tear them asunder. And give them all that they will need to be a lighthouse of hope to each other and the world. In Christ we pray. (68)
Loving God,
You have called _____ and _____ into a life-sustaining, life-changing covenant of marriage. May they find their truest selves and deepest meaning for life within its bonds. And as we celebrate this sacred act of love, we ask you to breathe your Spirit upon them and bless them with all they will need through the years. Feed them with the bread of angels and grant them the joy of abundant life now and always. In Christ we pray. (69)
Anniversary (70-83)
Eternal Love,
We thank you for these precious gifts of life, love and marriage that wrap us in your amazing grace! And we are grateful for the precious gifts you have bestowed upon _____ and _____ through their years together. Let your grace-filled blessings continue to abound in them, with them, and through them. And keep them always rejoicing as they follow in the steps of Jesus along your paths of love. In Christ we pray. (70)
Great Singer of Love,
You place a song in our hearts and tune it to the Symphony of the Spheres. Thank you for the beautiful harmony of _____ and ______ whose song of love has sounded for _____ years and whose life together resounds with your goodness and joy. Bless them now and in the coming year with the light and peace of Christ. In Christ we pray.
(71)
God of the Ages,
We thank you today for the covenant love of _____ and _____ who together have shared an overflowing measure of your goodness through the last _____ years. Continue to pour out your Spirit upon them now and in the coming year, we pray. Bless them with good times, good health, and good hope, so their spirits may soar on the wings of your joy and their hearts may rest in Jesus' holy arms. In Christ we pray. (72)
Kind and Loving God,
How we thank you for the mystery of covenant love that makes us one through the gift of marriage. As _____ and ____ celebrate the mysteries and wonders of grace that their marriage has brought them, we pray they may continue to find blessing and joy each day of the coming year. Bless their family and help them all to continue to rejoice in the goodness and peace of our Lord Jesus now and always. In Christ we pray. (73)
Blessing God,
We thank you for friendships that bind us together in mutual respect and joy and for the friendship of marriage that deepens our ability to love and persevere. We are grateful for the lasting friendship and strong marriage of _____ and _____ that you have nurtured to grow deep and wide through their years together. As they celebrate their life, their family, their friends, and their joy in you, bless them with all they may need to flourish in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (74)
Giver of All Good Things,
You bestow treasures from heaven. We thank you for _____ and _____ whose marriage is a treasure that blesses them, their family, and friends. We celebrate all of the ways they share your joy and good will with those around them. Continue to pour out your heavenly Spirit upon them in the coming year as you lead them in the paths of peace. In Christ we pray. (75)
God of Grace,
We thank you for the countless ways you bless _____ and _____ and their family with your goodness, and thank you for the strong bonds of faith, love, and hope that tethers them to each other and to you. Bless them in the coming year, we pray. And continue to guide them in your path and bask in your blessings throughout the coming year. In Christ we pray. (76)
Glorious God,
In your loving goodness, we are led into life-giving relationships that help shape us into our becoming. We ask your good blessings on _____ and _____ as they live into their becoming. Continue to strew their path with wisdom, hospitality, and joy. And lead them beside the still waters of your peace each day. In Christ we pray. (77)
God of Love,
How grateful we are for the gift of marriage and for all the ways it helps us become more fully ourselves, more fully alive! We are blessed by days and years lived in covenant love, and are grateful for the many years of covenant love between _____ and _____ . Bless them now and in the coming year and continue to guide them into your paths of peace and joy-filled life. In Christ we pray. (78)
Gracious God,
Your grace transforms us into joyful witnesses of your love, that we may cherish all of life. We thank you for the deep love you have given to _____ and _____ through the years. We seek continued blessings upon them as they share their love, faith, and joy with those around them. And may the wonders of your grace abound in them throughout the coming year. In Christ we pray. (79)
God of Soaring Hope,
You nurture us through relationships that give wings to our souls. We thank you especially for the blessing of marriage that helps us become our truest selves as we learn what it means to live in covenant commitment. We celebrate the years of soaring love for _____ and _____ and pray for your deep blessings. Nurture their hearts, strengthen their wings, and lead them in joy everlasting. In Christ we pray. (80)
Ever-Giving God,
The gift of marriage brings us into the fullness of earthly joy as it helps us become persons of kindness, forgiveness, and humility. We celebrate your gift to _____ and _____ and ask that they may continue to blossom and flourish. Grant them all they may need in the coming year as you lead them ever closer to each other and to you. In Christ we pray. (81)
Heavenly Father,
You call us to pursue righteousness, justice, and peace in all of our relationships as you help us discover life abundant. We celebrate the relationship of _____ and _____ today and the goodness and blessing it brings to them, their family, and this community. May your Spirit continue to chart their course in the coming year and bring them a full measure of joy and hope each day. In Christ we pray. (82)
Eternal Love,
We lift our hearts in gratitude for your great gift of love. We thank you for the wonderful relationship that you have called _____ and _____ into, and for all the ways it nurtures their hospitality of heart and contagious joy. Bless them as they continue to journey along together, and give them all they may need to live in grace following in the light of Christ. In Christ we pray. (83)
Anniversary of a Marriage Restored (84-85)
God our Redeemer,
We thank you for your saving grace that has been working through the challenges that _____ and _____ have faced in their marriage. We are grateful for the mending that they have undergone and for the forgiveness they have offered and received. We celebrate your redeeming love that surprises us with joy. Continue to deepen their love and cause them to sing your praise now and in the coming years. In Christ we pray. (84)
Loving God,
We thank you for the countless ways you teach us what it means to love, to forgive, to hold on to what is good, and to let go of those things that do not allow life to flourish. We thank you for_____ and _____ and for holding them together and bringing them to a new beginning. Guide them into ever deeper understandings of love and give them joy to delight in and peace to share. In Christ we pray. (85)
Anniversary in Challenging Times (86-87)
O God of Celebrations,
We thank you for anniversaries that call us to celebrate the astonishing ways love can deepen and widen our hearts to overflowing even in the midst of challenging times.
We give you thanks for the love you have given to _____ and _____ and for the ways it blesses others. In this time of darkness, let your blessings spill out on each of them as you lead them by your light everlasting. Through Christ we pray. (86)
God of All Goodness,
We are grateful for your power to save and redeem our tattered lives and shattered hopes, and for your grace that is sufficient for all of our needs. We ask your grace upon on ______ and _____ as they celebrate the completion of another year together. And especially in these challenging times sow seeds of blessing along their path, that they may reap a great harvest of your bountiful goodness. In Christ we pray. (87)
News of Pregnancy (88)
God of All Life,
We rejoice at the miracle of life now being shaped within _____. We thank you for the promise of blessing this child represents and pray the gift health and strength as _____ (the mother), _____ (the father) and baby journey together towards the birthing day. May all be well and in accordance with your good will and mercy. And let the light of Christ shine upon this family all their days. In Him we pray. (88)
While Undergoing Fertility Treatments (89)
God of Hopeful Hearts,
Especially in times of personal struggle, your tender mercies restore our souls. Bless now _____ and _____ who are seeking a child through the medical procedures before them. If the conception of a baby is in accordance with your good will, then send it on its way into this couple’s yearning arms. If you have other plans, then help them to find your will as they wait patiently for your guidance. In Jesus we pray. (89)
Arrival of an Adopted Child (90)
Creating God,
In awe at the magnificence of life, we thank you for the child, _____,whom you have now brought into the _____family. Thank for her new parents who will help teach her what it means to be loved and cared for in life-giving ways. Give them the wisdom to help her blossom and flourish and bring them all together into the grace-filled future you have planned for this newly enlarged family. In Christ we pray. (90)
Birth of a Baby (91-93)
Gracious God,
How grateful we are for the gift of life with all its wonders and mysteries! We celebrate the new life of little _____ and ask your special blessings upon her throughout her years. Grant her parents your Spirit’s wisdom and guidance that they may raise her to be a woman who soars on the wings of joy. And give them all they will need each day, now and evermore. In Christ we pray. (91)
Creator God,
How we praise you for the new life of ______! Thank you for placing her in a family where she will learn what it means to love and be loved. Bless her as her parents nurture and guide this sweet and wonderful gift from you. May they teach her to see you more clearly, love you more dearly, and follow you more nearly, day by day. In Christ we pray. (92)
O Fountain of Life,
You are our Father and our Mother, the Head of all families. We thank you for the new life you have given to the _____ family in their daughter ______. Give her a life brim-full of health and joy and let her grow into a woman who will find courage to pursue justice and peace. May your grace that guards her heart and mind bless her now and always. In Christ we pray. (93)
Birth to a Single Mother (94)
Holy God,
New life, new love, and new hope are your gifts to _____ this day as she celebrates her new son/daughter, ______. Bless them in their needs, we pray. They need your wisdom and guidance; Lord, we ask it. They need your strength and courage; Lord, we pray it. They need your vision and hope; Lord, we seek it for them and for us all. And make your face to shine upon them now and always. In Christ we pray. (94)
For New Grandparents (95)
Hallelujah!
You have brought forth new life and we are most grateful. Richly bless the new baby and her family, especially _____and _____ as they chart the new course of grandparenthood. Let their love convey the touch of Christ in every hug and kiss. As they seek to support and sustain the busy new parents, inspire them to claim your blessings through their prayers, their love, and their hope. In Christ we pray.
(95)
For a New Home (96-99
God our Dwelling Place,
We thank you for your providential care that has led _____ and _____ to their new home, and we pray your blessing upon it. May your Spirit refresh them body, mind, and soul as they put down roots and branch out into their new community. And may their love and joy shine upon their new neighbors as you continue to lead them in the light and peace of our Lord Jesus. In Christ we pray. (96)
God of Tents and Palaces,
How grateful we are for new beginnings throughout our lives, especially for the hope and promise they bring. We ask your special blessings upon _____ and _____ and their family as they settle into their new home, new community, and new routines. Guide their days, guard their nights, and let your light shine through them so that your peace may fill their home and bring a sense of joy to all who enter its doors. In Christ we pray. (97)
Guardian of Our Days,
Seeking your guidance, _____ has heard your call to another position. And so we pray for her and her family as they move to _____. Bless their new home and give them joy in their daily lives, integrity in their service to your people, and an ever-deepening hunger for your abiding presence. And let the peace of Christ be their sure companion now and in the years to come. In Christ we pray. (98)
Precious Lord,
We pray for your blessings upon _____ as she leaves the house that has sheltered her and her family all these years. Let the echoes of their laughter, tears, and joy accompany her as she makes a new home. As she settles into her new apartment, may it quickly fill with the vibrations of good times, gracious hospitality, and whispering hope. And may she always find her True Home in you. In Christ we pray. (99)
For a House Blessing (100)
Eternal God,
May the soul of this new home for the _____ family be a wellspring of joy. Help them blossom and flourish as they share their lives together in ardent love and deep compassion. Let the breath of your Spirit inscribe this home with the echoes of their laughter and tears. And let your great name be praised through the kindness and mercy shown to and received by those who shelter within its walls. In Christ we pray. (100)
For First Day of School (101)
Good and Gracious Teacher,
The first day of school is an event a-jumble with hope and fear, a mixed blessing of new beginnings and new stresses. We seek your favor upon parents and children who await your guidance in the year to come. Keep them safe in their separate pursuits, gird them in wisdom, and surprise them with joy. And at the end of each day may they together rejoice in your love and celebrate your gracious ways. In Christ we pray. (101)
For Graduation (102-109)
O God of All Knowledge,
We thank you for the blessing that education has been in _____’s life. We are grateful for the experience and skills she has gained and for wisdom won in the process. Bless her now as she seeks to use her knowledge in ways that will promote goodness in this world. Help her use her gifts and abilities with integrity and courage and grant her all she may need each day and lead her always in peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (102)
God of Living Water,
We ask that your gracious blessings may overflow upon _____ as she leaves her girlhood behind and journeys into adulthood. Guide and keep her each step of the way. Give her wisdom, courage, and vision to follow the path marked by Jesus. Bestow joy in your Spirit’s presence and bless her with all she may need, now and always. In Christ we pray. (103)
Eternal God,
We pray for your child, ____, who seeks your blessing as she leaves her home nest and flies into the unknown future. In your mercy, offer her a clear vision of the way you would have her to go. Grant her confidence in the gifts and abilities you bestow upon her and give her wisdom to use them well. Let her serve your Reign with joyful integrity, and bless her throughout her days. In Christ we pray. (104)
Everlasting Lord,
With joy at this important transition, we pray for your dear child, _____ as she leaves school and begins to make her way in the adult world. We ask that you will give her the ability to live in the “now,” releasing the mistakes of the past and trusting the questions of the future to your loving care. Bless her with all that she may need each day, and guide her always in Christ’s paths of truth and peace. In Him we pray. (105)
Gracious God,
As your beloved daughter, _____, leaves behind the sanctuary of home and childhood and makes her way into the future, we ask your richest blessings. Guide her steps and keep her safe as she journeys into full adulthood. Grant her wisdom, faithfulness to the ways of Christ, and give her all she may need each day. In the joy and hope of Christ we pray. (106)
Eternal Stream of Love,
At this time of transition, as _____ assumes the mantle and burdens of adulthood, we pray for your grace to flow in abundance upon her. Help her to remember to live one day at a time so she will make room in her busy days for rest, for joy, and for your refreshing goodness. Be her vision, her help and her hope as she lives into the future you have planned for her. In Christ we pray. (107)
O God Our Way,
We thank you for your guiding hand upon _____ throughout her life, and we especially thank you for the challenges of college that have helped her to bloom into a mature woman of integrity and courage. We ask your Spirit’s blessings upon her now as she graduates and enters a new stage of her journey. Guide and strengthen her now and forevermore. In Christ we pray. (108)
Deep Well of Grace,
How we thank you for the gift of spiritual waters that refresh and renew us. Pour out your blessings now upon _____ as she graduates from high school and makes her way into the work force and the responsibilities of adulthood. Grant her joy in the companionship of your Spirit as she follows the path of Christ to the still waters of peace that passes all understanding. In your holy name we pray. (109)
For Those Away at School (110-112)
Gracious God,
We ask your blessing upon _____ while she is away from her family, friends, and home. Guide her steps so she may make wise decisions. May this experience prove to be a wonderful passage as she finds joy in her new friendships and satisfaction in her studies. Grant her faith to leap toward things she cannot see, strength to hold dearly onto your good will, and love to spread Christ’s light and life to those around her. In your Spirit we pray. (110)
O Loving God,
You give us all we need each day as you challenge and woo us into becoming the persons you intend us to be. How we thank you for _____’s beautiful becoming! We are grateful for your blessings of ability, health, and intellect upon her. And we thank you for the gentled heart and searching spirit that keeps her questing after you. Continue to guide and bless her in her studies and activities, in her rest and play. In the peace of Christ we pray. (111)
God of All the Ages,
We thank you for the ability to live in the present moment that gently offers us time to reflect on your goodness and to remember your greatness. Bless your dear child, ____, now and each moment of her academic career. Give her the wisdom and courage to find the true meaning behind the knowledge that she acquires, so she may always meet life boldly. Let her cup overflow with joy and let the light of Jesus lead her on. In Christ we pray. (112)
For Parents (113)
God of the Journey,
We pray for your abundant blessings upon our dear children. Grant us the grace to love them patiently and well. Let us be a calm presence for each one whom you entrust in our care through all of the ups and downs of the days and years. Give us the wisdom to know when to hold on tightly and when to let them soar. And with a sure sense of our hands in yours, lead us as a family abiding together in the light and peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (113)
For Foster Families (114)
Heavenly Father,
You create many shapes and forms of families, all unique, all blessed by your providential care. We thank you for the new family you have formed in calling _____ and _____ into the challenge and blessing of foster parenting _____( and _____). Bind them all together with bonds of love and respect so that each may thrive and that their life together may be a portrait of your gracious Rule on earth. In Christ we pray. (114)
For Someone Who Comes Out (115)
God of Grace,
Calling us to seek to be true to who you intend us to be, you lead us to the truth that sets us free. Your beloved child, _____, feels your hand leading her to come out as a gay/bisexual/transgendered woman. We ask your mighty Spirit upon her, especially when others are quick to judge and quicker to condemn. Give her patience and good will that she may bless the world with a life of integrity and peace. In Christ we pray. (115)
For When a Family Member Comes Out (116)
Guiding God,
Believing that you bring abundant life and goodness from all circumstances, we seek your blessing upon _____ and _____ whose beloved child has given them the gift of her truest self in coming out. As they begin to readjust their thinking, their memories and their dreams for her, let the truth set them free to see more clearly, love more dearly, and follow Jesus more nearly day by day. In Christ we pray. (116)
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God of Salvation,
You know what we need each day and have plans for our future--plans of abundant blessing, pressed down and running over. We pray for _____, as she seeks to find the way you would have her to go. Help her to trust in your good will and guiding hand that she may wait patiently for the right door to open. And help her rest confidently in your care and rejoice always in your grace. In Christ we pray. (117)
For a New Job (118-119)
Guiding God,
What a blessing it is to have meaningful work to do that both challenges and fulfills us. We ask your blessings now upon _____ as she takes up the new job that you have guided her to. Give her all she needs to adjust to the increased demands and pressures and still find the balance she will need to rest and play and stay closely attuned to your goodness and peace. In Christ we pray. (118)
God of New Beginnings,
We ask your abiding presence with _____ as she assumes the responsibilities of her new job. Give her all she may need each day to accomplish her tasks with good will and patience. Help her to fulfill this new calling with courage, enthusiasm, integrity, and joy. And empower her by your Spirit to follow in the steps of Jesus each and every day. In Christ we pray. (119)
NEXT POST: PRAYERS FOR HEALING
There are 119 short prayers in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
A Note from the Author
This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
Birthday Prayers (1-40)
Birthday During Pregnancy (41-42)
Birthday in Challenging Times (43-54)
Birthday for the Dying (55-56)
For a Twelve Step Birthday (57)
Birthday Prayers and Letters for Children (58-62)
Engagement (63-65)
Wedding (66-69)
Anniversary (70-83)
Anniversary of a Marriage Restored (84-85)
Anniversary in Challenging Times (86-87)
News of Pregnancy (88)
Undergoing Fertility Treatments (89)
Arrival of an Adopted Child (90)
Birth of a Baby (91-93)
Birth to a Single Mother (94)
New Grandparents (95)
New Home (96-99)
House Blessing (100)
First Day of School (101)
Graduation (102-109)
Away at School (110-112)
For Parents (113)
Foster Parents and Children (114)
Coming Out (115)
When a Family Member Comes Out (116)
Unemployed (117)
New Job (118-119)
Birthday Prayers (1-40)
God of Our Hearts,
You have blessed us with the magnificent gift of life, and so we rejoice and are glad in this day, especially as we celebrate the life of our friend _____. In hope and expectation, we lift our prayers for your Spirit’s blessings upon her. Grace her with all she may need now and in the coming year. And continue to guard and strengthen her each day as you lead her into Christ’s paths of peace. In Christ we pray. (1)
Weaver of Life,
How blest we are to be alive, wondrously woven together with others in your beautiful plan of Creation. We lift our hearts to you in joy and thanksgiving for your great Design! And we thank you for the life of our dear sister, _____, whose bold faith and colorful spirit adds such vibrancy to our corner of the world. And let your blessings of grace and good will be upon her in the coming year, through Christ our Lord. (2)
Joy of the Earth,
We celebrate the life of our dear friend, _____, asking your holy touch upon her as she journeys into another year. We pray that you will keep her aware of your Spirit’s guiding presence with her always. Steady her feet in the path of Christ and let his light shine upon her and through her. Give her all she may need each day that she may find your abundant goodness and live each day in joy. In Christ we pray. (3)
God of Jubilation,
We celebrate your incredible goodness to us as we mark the_____ anniversary of our dear _____’s birth by thanking you most dearly for her presence with us. Bless her abundantly in the coming year we pray. Keep her growing strong in wisdom, broad in love, and deep in the joy of living. Give her with health in body, mind, and spirit, that she may travel the paths of your light and peace. In Christ we pray. (4)
Holy God of All,
We thank you for the life you have bestowed upon our dear _____. We are grateful for her contagious spirit and for the many ways she ignites our community with her compassion and concern. And how we bless you for her ____ (gifts: beautiful music; faithful service; great joy)! Keep her steady and true as she continues to flourish throughout the coming year that she may joyfully witness to your goodness and love. In Christ we seek these blessings. (5)
Gracious God,
We give you our great thanks and praise, especially as we thank you for the life of _____ in our midst. We are most grateful for the many ways she conveys your love, trust, and hope to us and to the world around her. Bless her today and in the year to come, as you guide, sustain, and encourage her. And grant her your wisdom and strength as she follows the steps of Jesus into the future you have planned for her. In Christ we pray. (6)
Creating God,
You give us life and care for us with tender mercies all of our days. You rejoice in our being and delight in our uniqueness, all the while shaping us into the likeness of Christ. How we thank you for the unique and charming _____, whose life we celebrate this day. Grant her your favor now and in the coming year, we pray. Continue to nurture her and sustain her with your joy through all her days. In Christ we pray. (7)
Gracious God,
It is our great joy to thank you for the good gift of life you have given to our friend, _____. We are grateful for the many ways she shares your grace and love with both strangers and friends alike. Pour out your Spirit upon her now and in the coming year, O Lord. Keep her alert to the surprises of joy that await her. Strengthen her for the challenges she may face, and refresh her in the deep pools of Christ's peace. In Him we pray. (8)
O Thou Who art Life and Grace,
As a mother cradles her newborn child, so you embrace us in your care, warming us with your constant love and feeding us with divine kindness. Your Spirit breaks upon our hearts like the morning sun and warms our hearts with hope. And so in hope and love, we celebrate in the life of your beloved child, _____. Grant her your blessings each morning, and give her your vision to see Christ's light when the nighttime comes. In the name of Jesus we pray. (9)
Light of All the Earth,
You fill our dark skies with the rays of your love and cause us to shine like the noontime sun. Wrapped in the warmth of your love, we blossom and flourish throughout our days. We thank you for the shining life of your dear child, _____, and we ask your blessings upon her each day. Give to her all that she may need to blossom in faith, flourish in love, and abound in hope now and always. In Christ we pray. (10)
O Sustaining God,
It is by your loving goodness that we are given life, named as your beloved children, and sustained by your power all our days. We thank you today for your beloved child, ____, and for her loving, energetic presence among us. We celebrate her faithful service to you in humility and good humor. Bless her now and in the year to come, we pray. And endow her with all she may need to continue her journey of life in deep wisdom, good health, and great joy. In Christ we pray. (11)
O Eternal Love,
How lovely is the day where Thy Spirit abides! We thank Thee for _____, whose life reflects Thy abiding presence each day. We praise Thee for the many ways Thou hast shaped her for love, compassion, courage, hope, and joy. And we seek Thy abundant blessings to continue to envelop her in all her tomorrows. Grant that Thy shaping Spirit may continue to nurture her in grace, lead her in justice, and enfold her in the peace of Christ. In Thy holy name we pray. (12)
God of Miracles,
The miracle of life with you overwhelms our senses and brings us to a listening silence where we hear whispers of your love. How we thank you for the faith that woos us into daily intimacy with you. And we thank you particularly for _____, whose life we celebrate today. Shower your blessings on her now and in the coming year, and continue to lead her in Christ’s paths of peace and joy. In Him we pray. (13)
O Source of All Goodness,
What a blessing we have in the gift of faith that helps us see your grace at work in our lives. What a joy to discover your miracles that abound in the world! And how clearly we see your providential and grace upholding the life of our dear friend, _____! Her words are kind and gracious; her deeds are just and merciful. We celebrate her presence and ask your blessings to continue to flow upon her and through her. Give her all she may need and keep her rejoicing in the path of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (14)
O Beloved One,
Our mortal thoughts fail to comprehend your greatness, yet we somehow recognize that we are upheld by your steadfast love and sustained by the abundant power of your Spirit. Today we celebrate the abundant life of our sister, _____. As she enters her middle years we ask your blessings of the trust and joy of childhood and the wisdom and courage of the aged. And let the peace of Christ be with her all her days as he leads her toward the full light of your glory. In Him we pray. (15)
O Source of All,
Each day your Spirit calls us into a journey of faith and hope, and calls us to rejoice in you with the energy of our bodies, the focus of our minds, and the dance of our spirits! Hallelujah! We pray for our friend, _____, as she steps into a new year of life. Bless her today and all her tomorrows. Be mindful of her needs and meet each of them according to your good will and mercy. And lead her in the Great Dance of our Lord Jesus, now and always. In Christ we pray. (16)
Grand and Glorious God,
We thank you that we are both challenged and fulfilled as we journey through life with you. We thank you particularly for your gift of life to _____ and for all the ways she reflects your love and hope in the midst of her challenges and trials. Let your light shine upon her today and in the coming year, we pray. Keep her open to the surprises of your grace and give her all she needs as she follows in the footsteps of Jesus our Savior. In Christ we pray. (17)
Most Loving God,
The magnificent gift of life is a gift of your grace to us. We delight in the life of _____, whose birthday we celebrate today. We seek your richest blessings upon her now and in the coming year. Grant to her your Spirit’s guidance each day and lead her in your mysterious ways of justice, peace, and love. In Christ we pray.
(18)
O Fount of Living Waters,
Your loves bathes us in blessings as it causes goodness, healing, and hope to pour out upon us, carrying us along the stream of life from cradle to grave. We ask your gracious outpouring of blessing upon _____, as we celebrate her life and ministry among us. Satisfy her needs of body, mind and sprit and keep her moored in faith, anchored in trust, and harbored in hope, now and always. In Christ we pray. (19)
Gracious God,
As we live within the sanctuary of your love, we glimpse your glory and taste the sweetness of your mercy. And in gratitude and joy, we lift before you our sister, _____, and we ask that you will be her sanctuary of rest and hope, now and in the year to come. Bestow upon her your richest blessings and lead her into the paths of joy and peace. In Christ we pray. (20)
O Infinite Love,
With a life steeped in the wonder of your love, your daughter, _____, brings the aroma of Christ’s joyful humility to those around her. We are deeply grateful for her life, and pray you will pour out your Spirit upon her today and all of her tomorrows. Help her according to her need and your mercy, that she may never find cause to stop counting and naming your bountiful gifts. In the sweet Holy Spirit we pray. (21)
O God of New Beginnings,
With a song of joy we greet the new beginning that each day offers, and we extol your great design of life that leads us to forgiveness and renewal in you. We thank you for the gift of your grace upon _____, as we celebrate her life and new beginnings. Keep her clinging to hope in you. Remind her now and in the coming year of your faithful love, and help her so to believe where her eyes cannot see that she finds each day to be a celebration of her birth and life with you. In Christ we pray. (22)
O God of Surprising Joy,
All along our way, you’ve been with us. Even now, your Spirit goes before us, guiding and guarding us each step of our journey. We rejoice in overflowing joy for such faithful love that will not let us go, nor ever turn us away. And we thank you especially for your dear child, _____, as seek your rich blessings upon her now and in the coming year. Keep her walking serenely behind Jesus, so that no matter what may unfold, she may find green pastures of joy and deep pools of peace. In our Shepherd we pray. (23)
O Cloak of All Goodness,
Your steadfast love wraps around us with the warmth of the sun as it mends our wounds, heals our diseases, and causes us to reflect your goodness and mercy. We give you all thanks for these abundant blessings of your grace. And we pray for your humble servant, _____, who today celebrates her birthday. Bless her with all she may need, according to your good will and mercy. Cause her to shine throughout the coming year and grant her the warmth and peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (24)
God Our Vision,
In the brilliant light of Christ, we see the pathway of goodness and hope you would have us walk, and we are blessed. Shed the brightness of your covenant love upon our dear ____today as she marks the anniversary of her birth. Bless her with everything she may need to live according to your gracious good will in the coming year. And continue to lead her in Christ’s pathways of peace. In Him we pray. (25)
O Love Without End,
How exquisite is the gift of life lived in communion with you! We rejoice that you tether us one to another and help us blossom and flourish all our days. We thank you today for our sister, _____, whose compassion, wit and wisdom, humility and hospitality blossom in our community. Be with her in the coming year that your joy and peace may flourish in her heart as she follows in the steps of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (26)
God of All Grace,
The world overflows with signs of your exuberant love and the earth is full of the amazing wonders of your grace and good will. Our dear friend, _____ is a sign to us of your love and grace. We rejoice in the ways that she shares her life, faith, and time with those around her. Bless her now and in the coming year with all she may need, as you settle the peace of our Friend Jesus in the depths of her soul. In Christ we pray. (27)
O Blessed Shepherd,
Evidences of your faithful care and love surround us like the wildflowers of spring. Dwelling in the midst of your fields of goodness, we respond with cries of praise and gratitude. We thank you now for one the sheep of your own flock, _____. We thank you for her dear presence among us that enriches our lives with her keen humor, piercing questions, and gifts of love. Bless her today and in the coming year that she might continue to follow Jesus to the Living Waters of abundant life. In Christ we pray. (28)
O Source of All,
We thank you for the beauty of nature and its good gift of life that sustains and delights all your creatures. We are especially grateful for the gift of ____’s life, who we celebrate today and thank you for all the ways she so great cherishes your Creation. Let your Spirit breathe upon her now and in the coming year that she may continue to be blessed, nurtured, and astounded by joy. In Christ we pray. (29)
Great Choreographer of Life,
With your love to design the steps and your Spirit to be our guide, we are made able to dance in joy, leap in faith, and exult in hope through all the circumstances of our days. We are grateful for those who follow the rhythms of your design in step with us, especially for, _____, as she celebrates her special day. Bless her now and in the coming year with all she may need to continue to exuberate with a leaping heart behind the Lord of the Dance. In Christ we pray. (30)
God of All Goodness,
Our souls overflow with thanksgiving for the precious gift of being alive. We thank you today for our dear friend, _____, and for the countless ways she shares her vitality and joy in being alive. May your abundant blessings continue to fill her days and nights with goodness and mercy, as you keep her on the path of peace. In Christ we pray. (31)
O Boundless One,
Confined neither by time nor space, your love upholds the universe while calling us into life and sustaining us all our days. In a profusion of grace, you meet all of our needs, fill us with courage, and grant us the perseverance to follow your vision of peace.
Bless your beloved daughter, _____, now and in the coming year, we pray. Continue to grant her wisdom, courage, and strength to live each day triumphantly. And lead her onward into your ways everlasting. In Christ we pray. (32)
O Ground of our Being,
You are a taproot of grace that anchors our lives in you. You send the Spirit that lifts our hearts on wings of joy and hope. And we are blessed. We ask your continued blessings of roots and wings upon our sister-in-Christ, _____, today and in the year to come. Ground her firmly in your wisdom, lift her gently by your mercy. And let her soar in the wake of the One who is the Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (33)
O Stronghold of the Universe,
Your steadfast love gives birth to all life and especially the life of your child, _____. We ask your magnificent blessings upon her today and in the coming year. As her days unfold within your care, continue to grant her all that she may need to serve and honor you and your Reign of Love. Give her a full measure of hope and joy, and lead her in the paths of the Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (34)
O Keeper of Promises,
We thank you for your Spirit’s faithful care that upholds us by your power, guides us by your wisdom, and renews us by your mercy. We ask your special favor upon our sister, _____, on this day of celebration for her life. Give her a day of joy and thanksgiving. Bring her a year of meaningful work, rest and play. And help her find an ever-deeper tranquility in your presence through the Promised Prince of Peace. In Christ we pray. (35)
O Faithful One,
You welcome, forgive, and heal us in never-ending love. And you help us find your good will and purposes within the matrix of our days. We joyfully thank you for all that you are to us and all people. And we ask your special blessing this day upon our sister, _____, as we celebrate her life of _____ years. Rest your hand upon her and grant her an overflowing measure of your Spirit. Meet her needs each day according to your good will and mercy, and lead her in the light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (36)
Inscrutable God,
We cannot know you completely, but we know your Spirit that abides with us to help us celebrate life abundant with you. We ask your great blessings now upon your beloved child, _____, as we honor her life. Let her journey with you continue in the joy, good health, integrity, courage and hope that she seeks. And lead her in the Way everlasting. In Christ we pray. (37)
O Sour of All Love,
You turn our hearts of stone into beating drums of thanksgiving and praise as you give us faith to know you, hearts to love you, and willing hands to serve you. We thank you for the blessing of _____’s presence in our lives, for the faith she shares, and the good news she spreads in all that she does. Continue to fill her lips with songs of your love each day, her hands with deeds of your mercy, and her life with your joy. In Jesus we pray. (38)
O Carpenter of Our Days,
Your measure is mercy; your brick is faithfulness, and your mortar is love.
With Jesus as our cornerstone, you build us up each day so we may be your people, strong and true. We ask you to bless and favor our dear sister, _____, as we celebrate her life today. Undergird her with a certainty of your presence and good will. And fortify her in faith and hope so she may continue to live according to the blueprint of your Reign of Love, now and forever. In Christ we pray. (39)
O Surprising One,
Each day we are astounded anew by the ways you make us recipients of your grace so we may find meaning and purpose in this day, and hope for tomorrow. We pray your grace anew upon our dear sister-in-Christ, _____, as we rejoice in her life with us. Shower her each day with blessings beyond counting as she continues to follow Jesus toward your eternal peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (40)
Birthday During Pregnancy (41-42)
O Womb of All Love,
We thank you today for the love we share with _____, whose birth we celebrate today. We ask you to be with her now and in the coming year. Keep her safe through the remaining stages of her journey to motherhood and bless the little one who is bound to her as we are bound to you. Be her midwife of health and her birthing stool of joy, that all may be well, according to your good will and Spirit's power. In Christ we pray. (41)
Fountain of Life,
You place us in families where we become the persons you intend us to be as we learn what it means to love, to forgive, and to persevere. And as we celebrate the birth of _____today, we seek your blessing as she co-creates with you the new life within her. Let your blessings abound on them both, and help her to feast on the wonders of your grace, now and always. In Christ we pray. (42)
Birthday In Challenging Times (43-57)
O Force of Life,
How we thank you for your care of all life through the generations, and thank you especially this day for the life you give to _____. Bless her in the coming year through all of the challenges set before her. Give her the ability to choose wisely and the strength to meet what is ahead in faith and trust. And grant her the peace that passes understanding. In Christ we pray. (43)
O God of the Universe,
You plot the course of the sun and moon and you guide the stars in their appointed places. Through blissful times of calm and through tragic times of turbulence, you gently lead us in the course you have appointed. We ask your special birthday blessings upon _____, especially in this time of tragedy in her family. Uphold and guide her in the darkness by your light and grace. In Christ we pray. (44)
Keeper of Our Days,
We are grateful for your faithful care, especially in painful times of loss and sorrow. But even in the midst of our darkest days, you speak to us of life and never-ending love. We are grateful for the love we have for our dear _____, and we celebrate her life today. Let your Spirit hover over her, that she may enjoy your blessings even in the midst of grief. Sustain her by your strength, lead her by your wisdom, and console her in the peace of our Lord Jesus. In Christ we pray. (45)
O Guardian of Each Moment,
Under your watchful care we find meaning and hope for our days even in times of loss and despair. By the power of your Spirit, we are strengthened to be your faithful, joyful people, and so with joy we honor our friend, _____. Be the shade at her right hand, the light in her darkness, and the hope of her tomorrows. With a shepherd’s tender care keep her steady and secure, and help her remember your blessings with thanksgiving and joy. In Christ we pray. (46)
O Hovering God,
Like an eagle protecting her young, your watchful eyes are always upon us. You nurture us with your faithful love and hide us in the shadow of your wings in times of trouble. We pray your birthday blessings upon, _____, and seek your healing grace upon her at this time of illness. Give her all she may need each day so that her spirit may soar on the wings of your joy and her body rest content in the tender hands of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (47)
O God our Refuge,
Like an eagle teaching her young to fly, catching them safely in her spreading wings, you buffer our falls and give us hope. You carry us when we’re too shaky to walk, and you cause us to soar on the wings of your love. We ask blessings deep and wide upon _____ today as we celebrate her birth. Catch her in your spreading wings, we pray. Renew her strength and help her to soar. Bathe her in the light of Christ and fill her with his peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (48)
O Transforming God,
How dependent we are on your amazing grace for all things. . . for hearts that beat and lungs that fill and fill again. . .for the ability to receive care from those who are the hands of Christ to us. . .and for the gift of a life full of wonders and signs of your abiding Spirit. We celebrate the life of our dear _____, and lift her up to you during her prolonged illness. Lead her to better health and energy. Grant her strength and help her find the still waters of peace each day. In Jesus we pray. (49)
Holy God,
We offer our heartfelt gratitude for the special happiness that we find in the people you place in our lives. We thank you especially today for our wonderful friend, _____. You know her needs and are acquainted with all her sorrows. Bless her now and in the coming year according to your good will and mercy. Be her strength, courage, wisdom, and let the peace of Jesus be a bridge over the troubled waters before her. In Christ we pray. (50)
God of Abiding Mercy,
We thank you for the precious gift of life that you have given to _____. We honor her today and thank you for all the ways we have been blessed by her presence, friendship, and compassionate heart. Continue to pour out your Spirit upon her, giving her strength and peace for her soul as she lies quietly on her sickbed. May she find your grace to be sufficient for all her needs and your love to be the source of all healing. In Jesus our Savior we pray. (51)
God of All Our Days,
How we thank Thee for all Thy blessings bestowed upon us throughout our earthly journey in such abundance! We ask Thy gracious blessings upon _____ as we celebrate the completion of another year of her journey. In love and mercy, continue to heal, strengthen, and lift her toward better health. And grant her Thy power to persevere that she may bear all things with courage, patience, and joy. In Christ we pray. (52)
Hope of the Ages,
We celebrate the life we share together with your dear daughter, _____. We ask your Spirit’s transforming power to bless and keep her in the coming year as she faces an unknown and frightening future. Give her what she may need to rise to the challenge with courage and trust. And bless her always with the grace and the great shalom of our Teacher and Friend. In Jesus we pray. (53)
Great Sower of Life,
As Creation springs forth at your command and sings your glories, we would add our hymns of joy to its anthem. And today we sing in thanksgiving for the life you have given to _____. We celebrate her life even as we lay before you her particular concerns. You know them well and are acquainted with all her suffering. Bless her with your Spirit’s touch now and in the coming time so she may always remember that your grace is sufficient for all her needs. In Christ we pray. (54)
Birthday For the Dying (55-56)
O Heart of our Hearts,
Your gift for each of us is a grace-filled life sustained by your Spirit. We experience this goodness most profoundly when you place others in our lives that gladden our hearts with love and joy. That is why we clap our hands in thanksgiving for the gift of _____’s life whose birthday we celebrate today. Shower her with your deep, rich blessings now and in the short time she has left on this earth. And grant that each day she may drink from the still waters of your peace until she wants no more. In Christ we pray. (55)
Eternal God,
Ageless and mighty, you are a tower of strength for us throughout the span of our years. Even as our bodies grow weaker and our faculties dim, you call us to thanksgiving and praise for each day. Especially today, we lift to you our gratitude for our dear and precious friend _____. Bless her now as you have throughout her long life. Help her to remember how dearly she is loved. And give her strength, courage, and wisdom as you lead her gently home to her final rest and comfort. In Christ we pray. (56)
Twelve Step Birthday (57)
God of New Beginnings,
Our spirits soar at the vision you hold up for us as persons healed and sober. We bless you for _____ this day, who marks the completion of ____ years of sobriety. Continue to sustain and strengthen her as you demonstrate your power through her weakness. Grant her serenity, courage, and wisdom, and lead her onward in the road of recovery with a new beginning each day. In Christ we pray. (57)
Birthday Prayers and Letters for Children (58-62)
Dear God,
Thank you for families that love and care for us. We pray for _____ on her ____ birthday and for her mommy and daddy, too. Help her to grow strong in body, mind, and spirit. Help her to remember that you are crazy about her! And help everyone who cares for her to teach her your ways, so she will know and love you all the days of her life. In Jesus’ name we pray. (58)
Dear God,
We thank you for _____ on her special birthday. We thank you for her family and friends, and all the ways they show her your love and care. Help them to raise her up in goodness and peace. Give her a great day, and keep her safe and healthy in the coming year. In Christ we pray. (59)
Dear God,
We thank you for the wonderful first year of life you have given to _____. We are blessed to know her and joyfully pray for her and her parents. Meet her every need according to your good will and loving heart. Keep her safe, strong and healthy. Give _____ and _____ all that they will need to help her to blossom one day into a woman of love, faith, and hope. In Christ we pray. (60)
Dear _____,
You are _____ years old today! Happy, happy birthday! Your friends are praying for you on your special day. We pray that God will bless you BIG TIME in the coming year to help you grow strong in body, mind, and spirit. May you know God’s comfort when you are afraid, God’s wisdom when you have choices to make, and God’s joy when you help others. Just remember, God is crazy about you! Much love, (61)
Dear _____,
Happy birthday a little late! I’m sorry we missed your special day. I’m writing to let you know that your friends are (church family is) praying for you and asking God to bless you REAL GOOD! We pray you will keep on growing strong and healthy in body, true and wise in mind, and kind and loving in spirit. We love you! (62)
Engagement (63-65)
O Binding One,
You have called _____ and _____ into a life-giving relationship, and now they desire to bind themselves to one another with holy promises. We seek the strength of your bounteous Spirit in this time of preparation for marriage. Give them all they may need to support each other in mutual respect and love. And bless them as they journey hand in hand into the future you have planned. In Christ we pray. (63)
God of Jubilation,
We rejoice with _____ and _____ at this time of engagement and ask your blessings as they prepare to make their covenant vows to each other. Thank you for this special relationship that nurtures them so richly and shines the light of love upon their families and friends. Let the roots of their love be watered by laughter, forgiveness, and joy. Gird them with wisdom and peace and bless them for all of their days. In Christ we pray. (64)
God of Covenant Promise,
We lift before you _____ and _____, asking your blessings upon them as they prepare themselves to make their public vows of love and commitment. Keep them tethered to your Spirit and to one another, so when the storms arise and the dark times come they will not just survive, but may triumph in grace and hope. Let the glow of their love be a blessing to others and help them sojourn in the peace and joy of Christ all their days. In your holy name we pray. (65)
Wedding (66-69)
God of All Love,
We celebrate the relationship of _____ and _____ as they bind their lives together in holy matrimony. Pour your goodness out upon them that this marriage may be a tree of life to them. Give them deep roots to hold fast to you and each other in stormy times. May the tree of their love bring blossoms of blessings and fruits of your Spirit now and always. In the joy and hope of Christ we pray. (66)
Gracious and Loving God,
We extol you for the beauty and mystery of covenant love that teaches us to reach out beyond ourselves in humility and mutual respect. As _____ and _____ make their sacred vows to become as one, bless their life together. And let the bonds of commitment, friendship, and forgiveness keep them vibrant with an ever-growing love, that they may be a source of blessings to all who know them throughout their days. In Christ we pray. (67)
Binding God,
We celebrate with _____ and _____ the covenant relationship to which you have called them. We pray for their marriage and for the family that they have formed through their vows. Anchor them in your faithful love, so that no power on earth can tear them asunder. And give them all that they will need to be a lighthouse of hope to each other and the world. In Christ we pray. (68)
Loving God,
You have called _____ and _____ into a life-sustaining, life-changing covenant of marriage. May they find their truest selves and deepest meaning for life within its bonds. And as we celebrate this sacred act of love, we ask you to breathe your Spirit upon them and bless them with all they will need through the years. Feed them with the bread of angels and grant them the joy of abundant life now and always. In Christ we pray. (69)
Anniversary (70-83)
Eternal Love,
We thank you for these precious gifts of life, love and marriage that wrap us in your amazing grace! And we are grateful for the precious gifts you have bestowed upon _____ and _____ through their years together. Let your grace-filled blessings continue to abound in them, with them, and through them. And keep them always rejoicing as they follow in the steps of Jesus along your paths of love. In Christ we pray. (70)
Great Singer of Love,
You place a song in our hearts and tune it to the Symphony of the Spheres. Thank you for the beautiful harmony of _____ and ______ whose song of love has sounded for _____ years and whose life together resounds with your goodness and joy. Bless them now and in the coming year with the light and peace of Christ. In Christ we pray.
(71)
God of the Ages,
We thank you today for the covenant love of _____ and _____ who together have shared an overflowing measure of your goodness through the last _____ years. Continue to pour out your Spirit upon them now and in the coming year, we pray. Bless them with good times, good health, and good hope, so their spirits may soar on the wings of your joy and their hearts may rest in Jesus' holy arms. In Christ we pray. (72)
Kind and Loving God,
How we thank you for the mystery of covenant love that makes us one through the gift of marriage. As _____ and ____ celebrate the mysteries and wonders of grace that their marriage has brought them, we pray they may continue to find blessing and joy each day of the coming year. Bless their family and help them all to continue to rejoice in the goodness and peace of our Lord Jesus now and always. In Christ we pray. (73)
Blessing God,
We thank you for friendships that bind us together in mutual respect and joy and for the friendship of marriage that deepens our ability to love and persevere. We are grateful for the lasting friendship and strong marriage of _____ and _____ that you have nurtured to grow deep and wide through their years together. As they celebrate their life, their family, their friends, and their joy in you, bless them with all they may need to flourish in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (74)
Giver of All Good Things,
You bestow treasures from heaven. We thank you for _____ and _____ whose marriage is a treasure that blesses them, their family, and friends. We celebrate all of the ways they share your joy and good will with those around them. Continue to pour out your heavenly Spirit upon them in the coming year as you lead them in the paths of peace. In Christ we pray. (75)
God of Grace,
We thank you for the countless ways you bless _____ and _____ and their family with your goodness, and thank you for the strong bonds of faith, love, and hope that tethers them to each other and to you. Bless them in the coming year, we pray. And continue to guide them in your path and bask in your blessings throughout the coming year. In Christ we pray. (76)
Glorious God,
In your loving goodness, we are led into life-giving relationships that help shape us into our becoming. We ask your good blessings on _____ and _____ as they live into their becoming. Continue to strew their path with wisdom, hospitality, and joy. And lead them beside the still waters of your peace each day. In Christ we pray. (77)
God of Love,
How grateful we are for the gift of marriage and for all the ways it helps us become more fully ourselves, more fully alive! We are blessed by days and years lived in covenant love, and are grateful for the many years of covenant love between _____ and _____ . Bless them now and in the coming year and continue to guide them into your paths of peace and joy-filled life. In Christ we pray. (78)
Gracious God,
Your grace transforms us into joyful witnesses of your love, that we may cherish all of life. We thank you for the deep love you have given to _____ and _____ through the years. We seek continued blessings upon them as they share their love, faith, and joy with those around them. And may the wonders of your grace abound in them throughout the coming year. In Christ we pray. (79)
God of Soaring Hope,
You nurture us through relationships that give wings to our souls. We thank you especially for the blessing of marriage that helps us become our truest selves as we learn what it means to live in covenant commitment. We celebrate the years of soaring love for _____ and _____ and pray for your deep blessings. Nurture their hearts, strengthen their wings, and lead them in joy everlasting. In Christ we pray. (80)
Ever-Giving God,
The gift of marriage brings us into the fullness of earthly joy as it helps us become persons of kindness, forgiveness, and humility. We celebrate your gift to _____ and _____ and ask that they may continue to blossom and flourish. Grant them all they may need in the coming year as you lead them ever closer to each other and to you. In Christ we pray. (81)
Heavenly Father,
You call us to pursue righteousness, justice, and peace in all of our relationships as you help us discover life abundant. We celebrate the relationship of _____ and _____ today and the goodness and blessing it brings to them, their family, and this community. May your Spirit continue to chart their course in the coming year and bring them a full measure of joy and hope each day. In Christ we pray. (82)
Eternal Love,
We lift our hearts in gratitude for your great gift of love. We thank you for the wonderful relationship that you have called _____ and _____ into, and for all the ways it nurtures their hospitality of heart and contagious joy. Bless them as they continue to journey along together, and give them all they may need to live in grace following in the light of Christ. In Christ we pray. (83)
Anniversary of a Marriage Restored (84-85)
God our Redeemer,
We thank you for your saving grace that has been working through the challenges that _____ and _____ have faced in their marriage. We are grateful for the mending that they have undergone and for the forgiveness they have offered and received. We celebrate your redeeming love that surprises us with joy. Continue to deepen their love and cause them to sing your praise now and in the coming years. In Christ we pray. (84)
Loving God,
We thank you for the countless ways you teach us what it means to love, to forgive, to hold on to what is good, and to let go of those things that do not allow life to flourish. We thank you for_____ and _____ and for holding them together and bringing them to a new beginning. Guide them into ever deeper understandings of love and give them joy to delight in and peace to share. In Christ we pray. (85)
Anniversary in Challenging Times (86-87)
O God of Celebrations,
We thank you for anniversaries that call us to celebrate the astonishing ways love can deepen and widen our hearts to overflowing even in the midst of challenging times.
We give you thanks for the love you have given to _____ and _____ and for the ways it blesses others. In this time of darkness, let your blessings spill out on each of them as you lead them by your light everlasting. Through Christ we pray. (86)
God of All Goodness,
We are grateful for your power to save and redeem our tattered lives and shattered hopes, and for your grace that is sufficient for all of our needs. We ask your grace upon on ______ and _____ as they celebrate the completion of another year together. And especially in these challenging times sow seeds of blessing along their path, that they may reap a great harvest of your bountiful goodness. In Christ we pray. (87)
News of Pregnancy (88)
God of All Life,
We rejoice at the miracle of life now being shaped within _____. We thank you for the promise of blessing this child represents and pray the gift health and strength as _____ (the mother), _____ (the father) and baby journey together towards the birthing day. May all be well and in accordance with your good will and mercy. And let the light of Christ shine upon this family all their days. In Him we pray. (88)
While Undergoing Fertility Treatments (89)
God of Hopeful Hearts,
Especially in times of personal struggle, your tender mercies restore our souls. Bless now _____ and _____ who are seeking a child through the medical procedures before them. If the conception of a baby is in accordance with your good will, then send it on its way into this couple’s yearning arms. If you have other plans, then help them to find your will as they wait patiently for your guidance. In Jesus we pray. (89)
Arrival of an Adopted Child (90)
Creating God,
In awe at the magnificence of life, we thank you for the child, _____,whom you have now brought into the _____family. Thank for her new parents who will help teach her what it means to be loved and cared for in life-giving ways. Give them the wisdom to help her blossom and flourish and bring them all together into the grace-filled future you have planned for this newly enlarged family. In Christ we pray. (90)
Birth of a Baby (91-93)
Gracious God,
How grateful we are for the gift of life with all its wonders and mysteries! We celebrate the new life of little _____ and ask your special blessings upon her throughout her years. Grant her parents your Spirit’s wisdom and guidance that they may raise her to be a woman who soars on the wings of joy. And give them all they will need each day, now and evermore. In Christ we pray. (91)
Creator God,
How we praise you for the new life of ______! Thank you for placing her in a family where she will learn what it means to love and be loved. Bless her as her parents nurture and guide this sweet and wonderful gift from you. May they teach her to see you more clearly, love you more dearly, and follow you more nearly, day by day. In Christ we pray. (92)
O Fountain of Life,
You are our Father and our Mother, the Head of all families. We thank you for the new life you have given to the _____ family in their daughter ______. Give her a life brim-full of health and joy and let her grow into a woman who will find courage to pursue justice and peace. May your grace that guards her heart and mind bless her now and always. In Christ we pray. (93)
Birth to a Single Mother (94)
Holy God,
New life, new love, and new hope are your gifts to _____ this day as she celebrates her new son/daughter, ______. Bless them in their needs, we pray. They need your wisdom and guidance; Lord, we ask it. They need your strength and courage; Lord, we pray it. They need your vision and hope; Lord, we seek it for them and for us all. And make your face to shine upon them now and always. In Christ we pray. (94)
For New Grandparents (95)
Hallelujah!
You have brought forth new life and we are most grateful. Richly bless the new baby and her family, especially _____and _____ as they chart the new course of grandparenthood. Let their love convey the touch of Christ in every hug and kiss. As they seek to support and sustain the busy new parents, inspire them to claim your blessings through their prayers, their love, and their hope. In Christ we pray.
(95)
For a New Home (96-99
God our Dwelling Place,
We thank you for your providential care that has led _____ and _____ to their new home, and we pray your blessing upon it. May your Spirit refresh them body, mind, and soul as they put down roots and branch out into their new community. And may their love and joy shine upon their new neighbors as you continue to lead them in the light and peace of our Lord Jesus. In Christ we pray. (96)
God of Tents and Palaces,
How grateful we are for new beginnings throughout our lives, especially for the hope and promise they bring. We ask your special blessings upon _____ and _____ and their family as they settle into their new home, new community, and new routines. Guide their days, guard their nights, and let your light shine through them so that your peace may fill their home and bring a sense of joy to all who enter its doors. In Christ we pray. (97)
Guardian of Our Days,
Seeking your guidance, _____ has heard your call to another position. And so we pray for her and her family as they move to _____. Bless their new home and give them joy in their daily lives, integrity in their service to your people, and an ever-deepening hunger for your abiding presence. And let the peace of Christ be their sure companion now and in the years to come. In Christ we pray. (98)
Precious Lord,
We pray for your blessings upon _____ as she leaves the house that has sheltered her and her family all these years. Let the echoes of their laughter, tears, and joy accompany her as she makes a new home. As she settles into her new apartment, may it quickly fill with the vibrations of good times, gracious hospitality, and whispering hope. And may she always find her True Home in you. In Christ we pray. (99)
For a House Blessing (100)
Eternal God,
May the soul of this new home for the _____ family be a wellspring of joy. Help them blossom and flourish as they share their lives together in ardent love and deep compassion. Let the breath of your Spirit inscribe this home with the echoes of their laughter and tears. And let your great name be praised through the kindness and mercy shown to and received by those who shelter within its walls. In Christ we pray. (100)
For First Day of School (101)
Good and Gracious Teacher,
The first day of school is an event a-jumble with hope and fear, a mixed blessing of new beginnings and new stresses. We seek your favor upon parents and children who await your guidance in the year to come. Keep them safe in their separate pursuits, gird them in wisdom, and surprise them with joy. And at the end of each day may they together rejoice in your love and celebrate your gracious ways. In Christ we pray. (101)
For Graduation (102-109)
O God of All Knowledge,
We thank you for the blessing that education has been in _____’s life. We are grateful for the experience and skills she has gained and for wisdom won in the process. Bless her now as she seeks to use her knowledge in ways that will promote goodness in this world. Help her use her gifts and abilities with integrity and courage and grant her all she may need each day and lead her always in peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (102)
God of Living Water,
We ask that your gracious blessings may overflow upon _____ as she leaves her girlhood behind and journeys into adulthood. Guide and keep her each step of the way. Give her wisdom, courage, and vision to follow the path marked by Jesus. Bestow joy in your Spirit’s presence and bless her with all she may need, now and always. In Christ we pray. (103)
Eternal God,
We pray for your child, ____, who seeks your blessing as she leaves her home nest and flies into the unknown future. In your mercy, offer her a clear vision of the way you would have her to go. Grant her confidence in the gifts and abilities you bestow upon her and give her wisdom to use them well. Let her serve your Reign with joyful integrity, and bless her throughout her days. In Christ we pray. (104)
Everlasting Lord,
With joy at this important transition, we pray for your dear child, _____ as she leaves school and begins to make her way in the adult world. We ask that you will give her the ability to live in the “now,” releasing the mistakes of the past and trusting the questions of the future to your loving care. Bless her with all that she may need each day, and guide her always in Christ’s paths of truth and peace. In Him we pray. (105)
Gracious God,
As your beloved daughter, _____, leaves behind the sanctuary of home and childhood and makes her way into the future, we ask your richest blessings. Guide her steps and keep her safe as she journeys into full adulthood. Grant her wisdom, faithfulness to the ways of Christ, and give her all she may need each day. In the joy and hope of Christ we pray. (106)
Eternal Stream of Love,
At this time of transition, as _____ assumes the mantle and burdens of adulthood, we pray for your grace to flow in abundance upon her. Help her to remember to live one day at a time so she will make room in her busy days for rest, for joy, and for your refreshing goodness. Be her vision, her help and her hope as she lives into the future you have planned for her. In Christ we pray. (107)
O God Our Way,
We thank you for your guiding hand upon _____ throughout her life, and we especially thank you for the challenges of college that have helped her to bloom into a mature woman of integrity and courage. We ask your Spirit’s blessings upon her now as she graduates and enters a new stage of her journey. Guide and strengthen her now and forevermore. In Christ we pray. (108)
Deep Well of Grace,
How we thank you for the gift of spiritual waters that refresh and renew us. Pour out your blessings now upon _____ as she graduates from high school and makes her way into the work force and the responsibilities of adulthood. Grant her joy in the companionship of your Spirit as she follows the path of Christ to the still waters of peace that passes all understanding. In your holy name we pray. (109)
For Those Away at School (110-112)
Gracious God,
We ask your blessing upon _____ while she is away from her family, friends, and home. Guide her steps so she may make wise decisions. May this experience prove to be a wonderful passage as she finds joy in her new friendships and satisfaction in her studies. Grant her faith to leap toward things she cannot see, strength to hold dearly onto your good will, and love to spread Christ’s light and life to those around her. In your Spirit we pray. (110)
O Loving God,
You give us all we need each day as you challenge and woo us into becoming the persons you intend us to be. How we thank you for _____’s beautiful becoming! We are grateful for your blessings of ability, health, and intellect upon her. And we thank you for the gentled heart and searching spirit that keeps her questing after you. Continue to guide and bless her in her studies and activities, in her rest and play. In the peace of Christ we pray. (111)
God of All the Ages,
We thank you for the ability to live in the present moment that gently offers us time to reflect on your goodness and to remember your greatness. Bless your dear child, ____, now and each moment of her academic career. Give her the wisdom and courage to find the true meaning behind the knowledge that she acquires, so she may always meet life boldly. Let her cup overflow with joy and let the light of Jesus lead her on. In Christ we pray. (112)
For Parents (113)
God of the Journey,
We pray for your abundant blessings upon our dear children. Grant us the grace to love them patiently and well. Let us be a calm presence for each one whom you entrust in our care through all of the ups and downs of the days and years. Give us the wisdom to know when to hold on tightly and when to let them soar. And with a sure sense of our hands in yours, lead us as a family abiding together in the light and peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (113)
For Foster Families (114)
Heavenly Father,
You create many shapes and forms of families, all unique, all blessed by your providential care. We thank you for the new family you have formed in calling _____ and _____ into the challenge and blessing of foster parenting _____( and _____). Bind them all together with bonds of love and respect so that each may thrive and that their life together may be a portrait of your gracious Rule on earth. In Christ we pray. (114)
For Someone Who Comes Out (115)
God of Grace,
Calling us to seek to be true to who you intend us to be, you lead us to the truth that sets us free. Your beloved child, _____, feels your hand leading her to come out as a gay/bisexual/transgendered woman. We ask your mighty Spirit upon her, especially when others are quick to judge and quicker to condemn. Give her patience and good will that she may bless the world with a life of integrity and peace. In Christ we pray. (115)
For When a Family Member Comes Out (116)
Guiding God,
Believing that you bring abundant life and goodness from all circumstances, we seek your blessing upon _____ and _____ whose beloved child has given them the gift of her truest self in coming out. As they begin to readjust their thinking, their memories and their dreams for her, let the truth set them free to see more clearly, love more dearly, and follow Jesus more nearly day by day. In Christ we pray. (116)
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God of Salvation,
You know what we need each day and have plans for our future--plans of abundant blessing, pressed down and running over. We pray for _____, as she seeks to find the way you would have her to go. Help her to trust in your good will and guiding hand that she may wait patiently for the right door to open. And help her rest confidently in your care and rejoice always in your grace. In Christ we pray. (117)
For a New Job (118-119)
Guiding God,
What a blessing it is to have meaningful work to do that both challenges and fulfills us. We ask your blessings now upon _____ as she takes up the new job that you have guided her to. Give her all she needs to adjust to the increased demands and pressures and still find the balance she will need to rest and play and stay closely attuned to your goodness and peace. In Christ we pray. (118)
God of New Beginnings,
We ask your abiding presence with _____ as she assumes the responsibilities of her new job. Give her all she may need each day to accomplish her tasks with good will and patience. Help her to fulfill this new calling with courage, enthusiasm, integrity, and joy. And empower her by your Spirit to follow in the steps of Jesus each and every day. In Christ we pray. (119)
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