This collection of letters is intended for those who wish to offer written expression of love and faith to church members. The short letters easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
There are 35 short letters for church shephards and care givers in this section to give you a starting place to write to folks in your congregations and religious societies. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE LETTERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
LETTERS FROM THE CHURCH (365-400)
To Visitors (365-377)
To New Members (378)
To Absent Members (379-384)
To the Grieving (385-386)
Those Grieving Broken Relationships (387)
Commendation Letters (388-396)
To Young People (397-398)
On the Church Prayer List (399-400)
To Visitors (365-377)
Dear _____,
We were pleased that you came to our service on Sunday and hope that you found inspiration, hope, and food for your soul as you worshipped with us. Your presence was a blessing to us and we hope that you will come again whenever you are able.
The grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be with you. (365)
Dear ______,
We were delighted that you could serve God with us through our worship on Sunday. We hope that you will feel free to participate in any of the ministries, activities, and programs of our church family, and that you will join us again for worship any time you are able. Our church calendar (of Sunday School/Bible Study/Circle, etc schedule) is enclosed.
The grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be with you. (366)
Dear _____,
Thank you for worshipping with us on Sunday. We always feel blessed when brothers- and sisters-in-Christ from far away are able to share time with us as we offer our praise, thanksgiving, songs, and love to God. Thank you for adding your listening heart(s) to ours as we were nurtured by God’s Word and Spirit. We hope you know that you have a spiritual home here whenever you are in our area.
May the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be upon you. (367)
Dear _____,
Thank you for worshipping with our church family on Sunday. We always feel blessed to have visitors come and add their prayers and songs as we praise and thank God together. It is our prayer that you, too, experienced God’s blessing while in our midst. We hope you will come again when you are able.
May the grace and peace of Jesus Christ be yours now and always. (368)
Dear _____ and _____,
Welcome back to (town or church name). We are delighted that you once again joined your listening hearts to ours in worship. It is a joy to be nurtured by God’s Word and Spirit together. We pray that you will return whenever you can so that together with your beautiful family, we might blossom and flourish in the love and mercy of our gracious God.
May the grace and peace of Jesus be yours now and always. (369)
Dear _____,
How good to see you back with us on Sunday! It is a pleasure to have you among our worshipping community once again. We look forward to whatever God has in store for us in the coming months together. May it be a time filled with signs of God’s goodness, love, mercy, and grace as together we follow in the steps of our Lord Jesus. May His peace be yours. (370)
Dear _____,
What a pleasure it was for our church family to welcome your family to our worship on Sunday. Your presence enhanced our service and enriched our time together. It is our prayer that you encountered God in a meaningful way while you were with us and were blessed through our offering of praise, prayers, thanksgiving and love. We hope you will come again when you are able.
The grace and peace of Jesus Christ be with you. (371)
Dear _____,
Grace to you and peace from Jesus Christ, our Bread of Life. We were so pleased that you chose to worship with our church family this past Sunday. This loaf of homemade bread is our way of thanking you for joining your praise, prayers, and joyful songs with ours. May it be an aromatic and delicious reminder of God’s nurturing love.
Please feel free to join us in any or all of our services, gatherings, and ministries. God bless you. (372)
Dear _____,
We are always grateful when God sends us visitors to join us in our worship, but Sunday was a special cause of thanksgiving to have you and your folks with us. We want you to know how very welcome you are here. It is our prayer that you will return soon.
If there is anyway that we can be of service, please don’t hesitate to call on us. Enclosed is a _____(card/refrigerator magnet) with our phone number, email, website, and office hours. May the peace of Christ be yours each day. (373)
Dear _____,
How good it is whenever we can gather together as God’s children to let our hearts and spirits soar in thanksgiving and praise! Your presence in our worship was a gift to us, and we consider ourselves blessed by your joy, your songs, and your beautiful smile.
We hope that you will come again whenever you are able. May the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be with you. (374)
Dear _____,
The congregation of _____ Church was so pleased that you were able to join us in our service of worship on Sunday. We hope that your time visiting in our area will be blessed with good times, good health, and the knowledge of the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus with you each and every day. Please come back and see us again whenever you are able. May God’s blessings be upon you. (375)
Dear _____ and _____,
It was truly a blessing for our church family to have had you among our worshipping community while you were visiting our city these past (two months). We pray that God’s tender mercies will keep you safe and well until we meet again. In the meantime, we hope you will remember us in your prayers, as we will you. May God grant you all that you need as you follow in the steps of Jesus. We remain your bothers and sisters in Christ’s love. (376)
Dear _____,
We feel that our worship is enhanced and enriched by your presence, prayers, and listening heart. We are very pleased that you have become a part of the church family as a regular visitor and we would love you to consider joining this congregation as a member. We are praying for God’s guidance for you in this matter. But whether you feel called to take the “spiritual plunge” by joining us or decide to continue with us as a visitor, please know that we are blessed to have you with us. Grace and peace in Christ. (377)
To New Members (378)
Dear ____ Family,
The grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be yours now and always. What a wonderful blessing it was for our congregation to be able to celebrate your joining of the church (and _____’s baptism) on Sunday! We are so very pleased that God has led you to discover what it means to be a child of God and a follower of Jesus within our community. We are looking forward to our life together in Christ in the coming years. In His love, (378)
To Absent Members (379-384)
Dear _____,
The grace and peace of our Lord Jesus be with you. We have missed seeing you at church lately. Please know this congregation feels the loss of your love, prayers, faith, and listening heart(s) when you are not there. We will be calling to schedule a visit with you in the near future just so we can “catch up” and in the meantime, if there is some way that we can be of help to you, please don’t hesitate to call. Most sincerely, (379)
Dear _____,
We just wanted to take a moment to tell you how blessed we are as a church family whenever you come to worship. A quick handshake as you’re leaving seems just that—too quick. So consider this note a “longer handshake” to let you know that we are truly grateful for your presence among us. We thank God for joining us together in Christ as one family here at First Church. We hope to see you again soon. May the grace and peace of Jesus Christ be with you. (380)
Dear _____ Family,
We want to convey to each of you how pleased we are whenever you are able to come to worship. We have missed you recently. When you’re not with us, there is a “(family name)-shaped” hole in our church family. If something has occurred that we might be of help with, please call on us. If you all have just been too busy to come, then we will call on you and talk about it! Know that you are missed and we hope to see you soon. God’s blessings on you, (381)
Dear _____,
What a joy it was to see your wonderful face(s) in worship again on Sunday! It lifted our spirits to see you back among us; you have been missed. Please know how much your presence, prayers, and songs add to our offering to God each week. You are an important part of our church family and we will rejoice greatly when you are able to back with us on a regular basis. May God’s blessings be upon you in abundance, (382)
Dear _____ and _____,
We thank God for the love and faith-lift we experience when we think of you. Even in such hard and sorrowful times, we see the light of Christ shining in you and your wonderful family, and we are blessed. May God’s healing Spirit continue to be upon you in a mighty way until you both are able to come back and join us in all of our services, programs, and ministries. With much love, (383)
Dear _____,
Several people have commented that you are among “the missing” because a constant state of “busy-ness” is taking its toll. But we want you to remember that we need you in worship because our fire dims and the praise of our gathered community is diminished without you. So, this is a “heads up!” We will be calling on you soon to see how we can help you return to regular worship with our community of saints. In the meantime, dear Saint, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. With love, (384)
To the Grieving (385-386)
Dear _____,
At this first (anniversary of _____’s death/Christmas) without _____, please know that we are holding you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. We pray God’s grace will continue to comfort your heart and give peace to your spirit. And may the profound grace of Christ, the deep love of God the Father, and the abiding companionship of the Holy Spirit be yours, now and always. In Christ’s love, (385)
Dear _____,
We were saddened to hear of your _____’s death. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We think of all of the wonderful characteristics of your dear one, and we thank God for her that was love, goodness, and joy. And we pray that God will comfort you in your loss and bless you with the Spirit’s consolation and strength as you continue to follow in the light and peace of Christ. In His Love, (386)
Those Grieving Broken Relationships (387)
Dear _____,
We want to remind you that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you make your way through the grief of _____(the divorce). Although we can’t possible imagine all that you are going through, we do know very well that God is with you and will see you through it all, not just somehow, but with grace sufficient for all your needs. May God bless you greatly at this time. And may you find the profound and healing peace of Christ within your heart and mind each day. In Christ’s love, (387)
Commendation Letters (388-396)
Dear _____,
I am so pleased to tell you of the high commendation of _____(the Session/Board) and the congregation for your good work in/at/for____ . . .
We are most grateful to you for all that you do to serve God and this church family with such grace, enthusiasm, and joy. May the Lord continue to prosper the work of your hands and heart. In Christ’s love, (388)
Dear _____,
We were thrilled with your gift of _____(money, time, energy, cookies, etc. that made our _____ such a success. Many folks have commented on your helpfulness, your cheerfulness, and your ability to _____. . .
Please know that we are blessed by all that you do to serve the Lord with gladness, and that we thank God for your presence with us. With deep gratitude, (389)
Dear _____,
Our community ministries are prospering in works of compassion and righteousness, in no small part because the God of glory hears our prayers and responds with your help. We thank God for you and for all the ways that you share the light of God’s glory and unfailing love through your ministry of _____ to _____.
May Jesus our Righteousness, continue to pave your way. With many thanks, (390)
Dear _____,
Our blessings abound in this church family, and one of the reasons is because folks like you—loaded with talent and enthusiasm—are eager to offer their gifts to the glory of God for the uplifting of the people. We’re so blessed by your presence with us and by the beautiful (music/banners/leadership, etc.) that you contribute so graciously. Thank you, thank you. (391)
Dear _____,
It’s (finally!) time for you to start accepting our accolades for your extraordinary work in making our _____(new church family picture directory) a reality. On behalf of _____ and the entire congregation, I offer you our deepest thanks. We appreciate the “sweat equity” you have given to the project. Such an investment always heaps up blessings far beyond our ability to measure them. Thank you, thank you! In Christ’s service, (392)
Dear _____ and _____,
Our (Bible Study/Home Group/Shepherd’s Meal, etc.) last night was as warm and gracious as your lovely home. God’s abundant goodness was tangible in our time together through our meal, fellowship, and the spiritual feeding we received in our Bible study. We are most grateful to you both for the blessing of your home, hospitality, faith, and joy! Many thanks and much love, (393)
Dear _____,
We have once again been recipients of your wonderful culinary skills. Our _____ (Fellowship Luncheon/Family Night Supper/Women’s Tea) was a great success in no small part because of the _____ that you provided for us. It helped make for a fabulous time of feasting and church family togetherness. How blessed we are to have you in our midst! Many thanks with prayers for grace and peace to you and your family, (394)
Dear _____,
We were certainly blessed as a church family by your leadership in worship on Sunday. Your (reading of the Scripture stories/Psalter/offering of the prayers) was expressed very well and easily heard. God was indeed praised through our worship, and your contribution was very valuable in making that happen. On behalf of the entire congregation, I extend our heartfelt gratitude for your service. In Christ’s love, (395)
Dear _____,
How kind of you to fete (our church office) with the beautiful gift of flowers! They are brightening up the days of all the staff and lift our hearts each time we see their cheery faces and smell their delightful fragrance. We are most grateful for your thoughtful gift and for all the ways you contribute to the hospitality that the church staff offers to those who come through our doors. Good job! (396)
To Young People (397-398)
Dear _____,
Your parents have told us of the excellent progress you are making in school. Your church family is very proud of you for your academic accomplishments and honors. But even more importantly, we are so very proud of you for who you are as a young (woman/man) of kindness, integrity, and courage. May God continue to lead you in the paths of Christ where peace, joy, and hope may always be found. Much love, (397)
Dear _____,
We saw your _____(picture in the paper, school play, baseball game) and want you to know how proud your church family is of your special gifts. It is wonderful that you . . . We rejoice that God has given you these talents and is helping you to use them to bless the whole community with _____ (fun, enjoyment, knowledge, etc.). We are very proud of you! With love, (398)
On the Church Prayer List (399-400)
Dear _____,
Your _____(cousin, mother, sister, friend), _____, has told us of your struggles and burdens. We want you to know that many prayer warriors in our congregation are interceding for you, seeking God’s healing touch upon you and your entire family. Although we cannot say what God’s answer may be to your prayer concerns, we can state with utmost confidence that God loves you and will shower you with saving grace, day by day. In Christ’s love, (399)
Dear _____,
Your (sister) has requested that our prayer list include you as you (serve out your prison time/await the mending of your injuries from your accident). Since we are connected through the bonds of her love, we feel that you are not a stranger to us, but a new friend. We shall stay in touch with you to remind you of just how much you are loved and cared for by our good and gracious Lord and the congregation of _____ Church. In Christ’s love, (400)
Friday, December 3, 2010
6--PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH
This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 21 short prayers for church shephards and care givers in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for in your congregations and religious societies. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH (343-364)
For Faith (343)
For Guidance (344-345)
For Attendance at Spiritual Retreats (346-347)
For Return from Spiritual Retreats (348-50)
For Thanks for the Kindness of Others (351-352)
For Baptism (353)
For Ordination or Commissioning (354)
For Shepherds of the Church (355-356)
When Church Professionals Leave (357-358)
For Recognition of a Church Teacher (359)
For Recognition of a School Teacher (360)
For Church Visitors (361)
For New Church Members (362)
For a New Church (363)
For the Closing of a Church (364)
PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH (343-364)
For Faith (343)
Faithful God,
In your good will, you give to some the ability to see your unseen presence at work in our lives and in the world. Charge us anew to use this precious gift on behalf of those who cannot see you and do not believe. Your beloved child, _____, is seeking (revitalization of) your gift of faith. Fan the embers of her faith and help her to leap where she cannot see, to flourish in love, and to abound in hope. In Christ we pray. (343)
For Guidance (344-345)
Precious Lord,
We rejoice that your promise is to be with us no matter the way we take. So what have we to fear? We ask the blessing of your guidance now for our friend, _____, as she struggles with the options that lay before her. Abide with her as she seeks clarity and open the doors according to your good will and mercy. And help her find the still waters of your grace and peace along the way. In Christ we pray. (344)
O Mighty Jesus,
You are the Carpenter of our life together, teaching us what it means to be a people chosen to be merciful, a people called to be loving as we seek justice and peace. Chisel our hearts until they resemble your own. Hammer our wills until they fit the blueprint of Heaven. Clothe us in humility, self-discipline, and hospitality of heart. We pray especially for our sister, _____, who earnestly seeks to follow in your ways of love and grace now and forevermore; through Christ we make our plea. (345)
For Attendance at Spiritual Retreats (346-347)
O Fountain of Life,
How we thank you for your gift of grace and for your providential care! We thank you today for _____, for her tender heart and kind ways. We are grateful for her wit and wisdom, and for her grace-softened spirit that seeks your guidance and will for her life. Bless her this weekend in a special way, as you kindle the fires of her faith. And stir her to deeper trust, wider compassion, and higher hopes through Jesus our Lord. In Him we pray. (346)
God of the Journey,
We rejoice that you cause us to blossom and flourish as you woo us toward a life of hope and peace. We pray your deep blessings upon _____ in a special way at this time of retreat from the everyday. Teach her what she must learn, strengthen her faith, deepen her love, and widen her compassion. And give her the wisdom and courage she needs to continue to follow the path of Jesus all her days. In Christ’s we pray. (347)
Upon Return from a Spiritual Retreat (348-350)
Great God of All Life,
Your touch upon us is the kiss of new life. We pray for _____, your beloved child who rejoices in the touch of your Spirit’s kiss upon her at the retreat. Instill the renewed fervor she has experienced into the marrow of her days and help her to continue to pursue your ways of love and peace. Let the joy of your salvation mark the path of her journey and the peace of Christ light her way. In Him we pray. (348)
Gracious God,
How we thank you as you shape and reshape us, making us fit for your Great Cause of reconciling the world through love! Bless your beloved child, _____, who rejoices at your regeneration of her faith at the retreat. We pray that the dazzling grace she experienced there will take root deep within her very being that the song of her life may be praise and the story of her life may be grace. In Christ we pray. (349)
O Source of All Goodness,
How refreshing is the worship and friendship of your people, gathered in retreat from everyday cares! As your beloved child, _____, re-enters the everyday, let your Spirit continue to touch her in profound and life-changing ways. Fill her with the love of Christ that she might be a radiant beacon of hope to those around her each day. And may her joy in Christ overflow in praise and thanksgiving to you all her days. In Him we pray. (350)
For Thanks for the Kindness of Others (351-352)
God of Dazzling Grace,
How clearly we see your Spirit blowing upon and through those saints sent to bless and encourage the family of faith! It is with much gratitude we pray now for _____, a saint who has blessed and encouraged us. We thank you for her servant leadership and for the goodwill she spreads among us as she joyfully shares her faith. Bless her as she has blessed us, we pray in the love, hope, and joy of Jesus. (351)
Light of All Goodness,
We thank you for our dear friend, _____, whose life reflects the rainbow intensity your Spirit’s touch. For the red of her passion, for the green of her hospitality of heart, for the yellow of her joy, we give you thanks. For the orange of her creativity, for the violet of her vitality, and for the blue of the settled peace within her, we bless your name. Continue now to bless and keep her now and always. In Christ we pray. (352)
For Baptism (353)
God of Covenant Love,
You give us life and your saving grace all along our way. Through the waters of baptism, you seal us to Jesus, and with the kiss of your Holy Spirit upon, us you anoint us into the family of faith. As (little) ______ has now received the sacramental grace of waters and anointing, we ask your deep blessings upon her. Help her to flourish in love, abound in hope, and rejoice in your abiding presence always. In Christ we pray. (353)
For Ordination or Commissioning (354)
Eternal God,
You call us to use our gifts and skills for Heaven’s sake and the sake of this world you love with such passion. Your child, _____, has heard your call to the office (ministry) of _____ and she seeks your blessing at this special time. Make your truth be known through her words, songs, prayers, and joyful service to the Christ’s Church. And let wisdom and humility be the hallmarks of her ministry as she seeks to follow Jesus on your paths of kindness, justice, and peace. In Christ we pray. (354)
For Shepherds of the Church (355-356)
Most Gracious God,
For those who are yoked to our Lord Jesus in His work and witness, the promise is rest for their souls. From the unfathomable depths of your grace, we ask you to bless and sustain your servant leader, _____ as she follows her call with integrity, humility, and courage. Grant your Spirit’s breath upon all that she says and does, to the end that your Reign is proclaimed and your good will is done. And may she find rest for her soul each day. In Christ we pray. (355)
God of Grace,
We are grateful for our call to dwell under your canopy of grace through ministry with and for others. May your Holy Spirit abide with your servant, _____, as she seeks to shepherd and tend your people. Let your goodness fill her heart to overflowing, that it may spill out upon those whom she leads. Grant her patience in the times of unknowing, wisdom in the fray, and light for her journey. May joy be her companion and hope the song she sings. In Christ we pray. (356)
For When Church Professionals Leave (357-358)
Holy God,
We give you our thanks for the ministry of your child, _____, as she leaves her ministry with _______ Church. We are grateful for the love, faith, time, and energy that she has invested in your people as a servant leader. And we thank you for all of the lives touched by your Spirit and the hopes restored in her time here. Bless her now as she continues to seek your good will and guidance. And let the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus flow out upon her abundantly always. In Christ we pray. (357)
Precious Lord,
We are grateful that you are working your good will out through the life and ministry of your servant, _____. We ask that she will continue to reflect the light of Jesus in everything that she says and does all her days. Continue to bless and guide her during this time of transition and lead her into a future where she may flourish. And may your Spirit fill her with your peace, now and always. In Christ we pray. (358)
For Recognition of a Church School Teacher (359)
Holy God,
We bless you for all your servants who help us learn how to rejoice in your works and to trust your love. We are especially grateful today for _____, a teacher of great faith and love, and we delight as she brings wisdom through her teaching, happiness through her hugs (and cookies!), and well-being through her quiet spirit. Bless her with all she may need to continue to proclaim the good news of Jesus in both word and deed. And grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (359)
Recognition of a School Teacher (360)
Giver of our Vocation,
We thank you today for the call you have given to _____, who has been Christ’s faithful disciple as a public school teacher, dedicating these past _____ years to the welfare of her students. Continue to be with her as she labors in love to help bring the light of learning to those in her care each school year. Give her the wisdom, perseverance, and fortitude that she needs each day. And bless her with the light and peace of Christ now and always. In Him we pray. (360)
For Church Visitors (361)
God of Grace,
We are grateful that you bind us together as brothers and sisters in Christ. We thank you that even strangers are friends in the faith. We are grateful that _____ joined us in our worship on Sunday, and pray she may find a home here. Open doors of blessing for her and pour out your Holy Spirit as you steady her in the steps of faith, hope, and love each day. And we ask that if this is not the spiritual home she seeks, you will guide her onward to that church family you have prepared for her. In Jesus we pray. (361)
For New Church Members (362)
Gracious God,
We are so grateful to you for leading _____, ( _____, and _____) into the arms of our church family, and for the blessings that come from her presence with us. Let your face shine upon her as she begins this new phase of her journey with us. Deepen the roots of her faith and stretch out her courage to meet all the storms of life with child-like confidence in your care. Pour out your grace as together we seek to be your loving children following in the path of our Lord Jesus. In Him we pray. (362)
For a New Church (363)
O Light of All Life,
We offer our utmost thanks and praise for the Spirit’s call that has beckoned the people who now commit to be the charter congregation of ____ Church in _____. We are grateful they are dedicated to serving our Lord Jesus and this world for whom He died. Let your Spirit blow in a mighty way upon those at its birthing. Grant that they may be a beacon of love and a harbor of hope to all those around them. O, prosper the work of their hands and hearts for generations to come. In Christ we pray. (363)
For the Closing of a Church (364)
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a time to die. . .a time to search and a time to give up. Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a, 6a
God of the Ages,
In each generation, you plant your Word, reaping fields of goodness and new life, and plucking up that which you have planted. We pray for the members and friends of ______ Church whose time has come to lay fallow and at rest. We thank you for the generations that have found your goodness and new life through its worship and teaching and services of compassion. And we ask you blessing upon those who now shut its doors and leave the future in your good and faithful keeping. In Christ we pray. (364)
NEXT POST: LETTERS FROM THE CHURCH
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 21 short prayers for church shephards and care givers in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for in your congregations and religious societies. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH (343-364)
For Faith (343)
For Guidance (344-345)
For Attendance at Spiritual Retreats (346-347)
For Return from Spiritual Retreats (348-50)
For Thanks for the Kindness of Others (351-352)
For Baptism (353)
For Ordination or Commissioning (354)
For Shepherds of the Church (355-356)
When Church Professionals Leave (357-358)
For Recognition of a Church Teacher (359)
For Recognition of a School Teacher (360)
For Church Visitors (361)
For New Church Members (362)
For a New Church (363)
For the Closing of a Church (364)
PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH (343-364)
For Faith (343)
Faithful God,
In your good will, you give to some the ability to see your unseen presence at work in our lives and in the world. Charge us anew to use this precious gift on behalf of those who cannot see you and do not believe. Your beloved child, _____, is seeking (revitalization of) your gift of faith. Fan the embers of her faith and help her to leap where she cannot see, to flourish in love, and to abound in hope. In Christ we pray. (343)
For Guidance (344-345)
Precious Lord,
We rejoice that your promise is to be with us no matter the way we take. So what have we to fear? We ask the blessing of your guidance now for our friend, _____, as she struggles with the options that lay before her. Abide with her as she seeks clarity and open the doors according to your good will and mercy. And help her find the still waters of your grace and peace along the way. In Christ we pray. (344)
O Mighty Jesus,
You are the Carpenter of our life together, teaching us what it means to be a people chosen to be merciful, a people called to be loving as we seek justice and peace. Chisel our hearts until they resemble your own. Hammer our wills until they fit the blueprint of Heaven. Clothe us in humility, self-discipline, and hospitality of heart. We pray especially for our sister, _____, who earnestly seeks to follow in your ways of love and grace now and forevermore; through Christ we make our plea. (345)
For Attendance at Spiritual Retreats (346-347)
O Fountain of Life,
How we thank you for your gift of grace and for your providential care! We thank you today for _____, for her tender heart and kind ways. We are grateful for her wit and wisdom, and for her grace-softened spirit that seeks your guidance and will for her life. Bless her this weekend in a special way, as you kindle the fires of her faith. And stir her to deeper trust, wider compassion, and higher hopes through Jesus our Lord. In Him we pray. (346)
God of the Journey,
We rejoice that you cause us to blossom and flourish as you woo us toward a life of hope and peace. We pray your deep blessings upon _____ in a special way at this time of retreat from the everyday. Teach her what she must learn, strengthen her faith, deepen her love, and widen her compassion. And give her the wisdom and courage she needs to continue to follow the path of Jesus all her days. In Christ’s we pray. (347)
Upon Return from a Spiritual Retreat (348-350)
Great God of All Life,
Your touch upon us is the kiss of new life. We pray for _____, your beloved child who rejoices in the touch of your Spirit’s kiss upon her at the retreat. Instill the renewed fervor she has experienced into the marrow of her days and help her to continue to pursue your ways of love and peace. Let the joy of your salvation mark the path of her journey and the peace of Christ light her way. In Him we pray. (348)
Gracious God,
How we thank you as you shape and reshape us, making us fit for your Great Cause of reconciling the world through love! Bless your beloved child, _____, who rejoices at your regeneration of her faith at the retreat. We pray that the dazzling grace she experienced there will take root deep within her very being that the song of her life may be praise and the story of her life may be grace. In Christ we pray. (349)
O Source of All Goodness,
How refreshing is the worship and friendship of your people, gathered in retreat from everyday cares! As your beloved child, _____, re-enters the everyday, let your Spirit continue to touch her in profound and life-changing ways. Fill her with the love of Christ that she might be a radiant beacon of hope to those around her each day. And may her joy in Christ overflow in praise and thanksgiving to you all her days. In Him we pray. (350)
For Thanks for the Kindness of Others (351-352)
God of Dazzling Grace,
How clearly we see your Spirit blowing upon and through those saints sent to bless and encourage the family of faith! It is with much gratitude we pray now for _____, a saint who has blessed and encouraged us. We thank you for her servant leadership and for the goodwill she spreads among us as she joyfully shares her faith. Bless her as she has blessed us, we pray in the love, hope, and joy of Jesus. (351)
Light of All Goodness,
We thank you for our dear friend, _____, whose life reflects the rainbow intensity your Spirit’s touch. For the red of her passion, for the green of her hospitality of heart, for the yellow of her joy, we give you thanks. For the orange of her creativity, for the violet of her vitality, and for the blue of the settled peace within her, we bless your name. Continue now to bless and keep her now and always. In Christ we pray. (352)
For Baptism (353)
God of Covenant Love,
You give us life and your saving grace all along our way. Through the waters of baptism, you seal us to Jesus, and with the kiss of your Holy Spirit upon, us you anoint us into the family of faith. As (little) ______ has now received the sacramental grace of waters and anointing, we ask your deep blessings upon her. Help her to flourish in love, abound in hope, and rejoice in your abiding presence always. In Christ we pray. (353)
For Ordination or Commissioning (354)
Eternal God,
You call us to use our gifts and skills for Heaven’s sake and the sake of this world you love with such passion. Your child, _____, has heard your call to the office (ministry) of _____ and she seeks your blessing at this special time. Make your truth be known through her words, songs, prayers, and joyful service to the Christ’s Church. And let wisdom and humility be the hallmarks of her ministry as she seeks to follow Jesus on your paths of kindness, justice, and peace. In Christ we pray. (354)
For Shepherds of the Church (355-356)
Most Gracious God,
For those who are yoked to our Lord Jesus in His work and witness, the promise is rest for their souls. From the unfathomable depths of your grace, we ask you to bless and sustain your servant leader, _____ as she follows her call with integrity, humility, and courage. Grant your Spirit’s breath upon all that she says and does, to the end that your Reign is proclaimed and your good will is done. And may she find rest for her soul each day. In Christ we pray. (355)
God of Grace,
We are grateful for our call to dwell under your canopy of grace through ministry with and for others. May your Holy Spirit abide with your servant, _____, as she seeks to shepherd and tend your people. Let your goodness fill her heart to overflowing, that it may spill out upon those whom she leads. Grant her patience in the times of unknowing, wisdom in the fray, and light for her journey. May joy be her companion and hope the song she sings. In Christ we pray. (356)
For When Church Professionals Leave (357-358)
Holy God,
We give you our thanks for the ministry of your child, _____, as she leaves her ministry with _______ Church. We are grateful for the love, faith, time, and energy that she has invested in your people as a servant leader. And we thank you for all of the lives touched by your Spirit and the hopes restored in her time here. Bless her now as she continues to seek your good will and guidance. And let the grace and peace of our Lord Jesus flow out upon her abundantly always. In Christ we pray. (357)
Precious Lord,
We are grateful that you are working your good will out through the life and ministry of your servant, _____. We ask that she will continue to reflect the light of Jesus in everything that she says and does all her days. Continue to bless and guide her during this time of transition and lead her into a future where she may flourish. And may your Spirit fill her with your peace, now and always. In Christ we pray. (358)
For Recognition of a Church School Teacher (359)
Holy God,
We bless you for all your servants who help us learn how to rejoice in your works and to trust your love. We are especially grateful today for _____, a teacher of great faith and love, and we delight as she brings wisdom through her teaching, happiness through her hugs (and cookies!), and well-being through her quiet spirit. Bless her with all she may need to continue to proclaim the good news of Jesus in both word and deed. And grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (359)
Recognition of a School Teacher (360)
Giver of our Vocation,
We thank you today for the call you have given to _____, who has been Christ’s faithful disciple as a public school teacher, dedicating these past _____ years to the welfare of her students. Continue to be with her as she labors in love to help bring the light of learning to those in her care each school year. Give her the wisdom, perseverance, and fortitude that she needs each day. And bless her with the light and peace of Christ now and always. In Him we pray. (360)
For Church Visitors (361)
God of Grace,
We are grateful that you bind us together as brothers and sisters in Christ. We thank you that even strangers are friends in the faith. We are grateful that _____ joined us in our worship on Sunday, and pray she may find a home here. Open doors of blessing for her and pour out your Holy Spirit as you steady her in the steps of faith, hope, and love each day. And we ask that if this is not the spiritual home she seeks, you will guide her onward to that church family you have prepared for her. In Jesus we pray. (361)
For New Church Members (362)
Gracious God,
We are so grateful to you for leading _____, ( _____, and _____) into the arms of our church family, and for the blessings that come from her presence with us. Let your face shine upon her as she begins this new phase of her journey with us. Deepen the roots of her faith and stretch out her courage to meet all the storms of life with child-like confidence in your care. Pour out your grace as together we seek to be your loving children following in the path of our Lord Jesus. In Him we pray. (362)
For a New Church (363)
O Light of All Life,
We offer our utmost thanks and praise for the Spirit’s call that has beckoned the people who now commit to be the charter congregation of ____ Church in _____. We are grateful they are dedicated to serving our Lord Jesus and this world for whom He died. Let your Spirit blow in a mighty way upon those at its birthing. Grant that they may be a beacon of love and a harbor of hope to all those around them. O, prosper the work of their hands and hearts for generations to come. In Christ we pray. (363)
For the Closing of a Church (364)
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a time to die. . .a time to search and a time to give up. Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a, 6a
God of the Ages,
In each generation, you plant your Word, reaping fields of goodness and new life, and plucking up that which you have planted. We pray for the members and friends of ______ Church whose time has come to lay fallow and at rest. We thank you for the generations that have found your goodness and new life through its worship and teaching and services of compassion. And we ask you blessing upon those who now shut its doors and leave the future in your good and faithful keeping. In Christ we pray. (364)
NEXT POST: LETTERS FROM THE CHURCH
5--PRAYERS FOR AND BY TEENS
This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 34 short prayers for teens in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
PRAYERS FOR TEENS (308-342)
Birthday Prayers for Teens (308-311)
Prayers For Teens and Their Families (312-320)
Prayers For Teens to Pray for Themselves (321-342)
Birthday Prayers For Teens (308-311)
Gracious God,
We thank you today for the gift of life to your dear child, _____, and for all the ways she enriches our life with joy. Bless her now and in the year ahead, and grant her a growing depth of wisdom and faith as she continues to mature in body and mind. Clothe her in your righteousness and keep her safe and healthy. And help her to remember to turn to you at all times, especially when making choices. In Christ we pray. (308)
Awesome God,
We see your compassionate, forgiving face in Jesus, and we bow in adoration. We thank today you for your beloved child, _____. We delight that you are shaping her into a seeker of compassion and justice on behalf of those in need. Bless her now by your Spirit’s power as you continue to guide her in the path of Jesus. And may she mature into a woman of great integrity and overflowing joy. In Christ we pray.
(309)
Precious Lord,
We thank you for the wonder of love and the way it shapes us into becoming loving people. We bless you for the wonder of faith and the way it calls us into becoming faithful people. And we praise you for the wonder of joy and the way it leads us into jubilant living. We are so thankful for your beloved daughter, _____, and for all the love, faith, and joy she exudes. Keep her in your watchful care and lead her onward into life’s awaiting arms. In Christ we pray. (310)
O Hound of Heaven,
You pursue us across the span of our lives, calling for us to listen and to trust. Captivated by your love, we are both blessed and challenged as we follow Jesus in a life of intimate companionship with you. On this special day, let your grace abound on your dear child _____. And bless her as you continue to lead her into a life of righteousness and peace. In Jesus we pray. (311)
For Teens and Their Families (312-320)
Holy God,
We pray your deep blessings upon the _____ family as they go through some troubled times. Especially we lift up before you _____ and ask your abiding grace upon her as she acts out in unhealthy ways. Guard her body, mind and spirit. Give her wisdom to make good choices and remind her how much she is loved. Keep her parents focused on those things they can do to help and give them the strength to persevere in loving discipline and expectant hope. Through Christ our Savior we pray. (312)
Dear Father,
We thank you that you love us just the way we are! It is such as relief not to have to pretend with you or try to make ourselves look better than we are. We pray that you will bless your dear child, _____, who feels bad about herself because she has blown it. We pray you will help her accept your pardon and give her the courage and strength to do better next time. Guide her steps in ways that will help her flourish and lead her in the footsteps of Jesus all of her lifelong. In Christ we pray. (313)
Ever-loving God,
Our dear friend, _____, needs your help. Show her your love in ways large and small and remind her that you are for her, with her, and here to guide her every day. Help her to trust in the plan you have for her life that she cannot yet see or understand. Grant her your Spirit and give her the healing of her body, mind, and soul that she needs so badly, that she may find hope in the love of her family, friends, and community. Through Jesus Christ we pray. (314)
Dear Lord,
There are so many people in _____’s life for whom she prays, but we ask your special blessing upon her (friend, mother, etc.)_____ who is very ill and needs your saving grace. Hear our prayers and those of all who love and care for her. Heal her according to your good will and mercy. Let the minds and hands of the medical staff be the blessed touch of Christ upon her, and send your Spirit to abide with her and all those who wait by her side. In Jesus we pray. (315)
O God our Judge,
Our friend, _____, is going to court today and is in need of your special blessings. She is nervous about what lies ahead. Be with the lawyers and the judge who will be deciding what will happen to her. She is sorry for what she did and wants to learn how to do things differently. Lead people into her life that can influence her for good, and help her make the changes in her heart, mind, and lifestyle that can bring her real satisfaction and joy. We pray in Jesus who is our Way, Truth, and Life. (316)
Dearest God,
Your beloved child, _____, says that she’s thinking about cutting her wrists again but doesn’t want to go back to that. Your saving grace has been with her through her therapy and medications, but right now she feels stuck in a bad place and can’t see her way forward. We know your will for her is a flourishing life. So send your Spirit's miracle-working power to help her see the future you have planned for her. And let your peace dwell within her now and always. In Christ we pray. (317)
Gracious God,
Your beloved child, _____, has been struggling with her sexual identity and is certain she is gay. She feels that she is living a lie and wants to come out to her parents, but is afraid of their reaction. And so, we ask your amazing grace upon her and her family in this situation. Grant her courage to give her parents the gift of the truth, and give them the unconditional love that she needs from them. May they each be a blessing to one another, filled with your peace and surprised by joy. In Christ we pray. (318)
Comforter,
Your dear child, _____, feels lost and alone. She is overwhelmed right now with the loss of her faith. Remind her yet again that you are the giver of faith and that you are with her whether or not she can sense your Spirit's touch. Shower her with your blessings in the ways you know that she needs. Let your tender mercies be her confidence, her consolation, and her joy. And give her good hope in Jesus, her companion and friend. In Christ we pray. (319)
Spirit of Life,
You know the difficulties and heartaches that your dear child, _____, endures in her disability. Even more than she is aware, you know her needs and are faithfully working out a plan for her life. But she is so tired of the struggle. We pray that you will bless her now in her pain and isolation. Help her to persevere with confidence in your amazing grace. Open up her heart and life so that she may find flourishing joy in the future you have in store for her. In Jesus' name we pray. (320)
For Teens to Pray for Themselves (321-342)
Jesus My Friend,
You know that I’m scared to go to school. I hate the violence, the cussing, and the awful sense of being left out. Other people are giving me a hard time and I don’t know if it’s even worth going there. They say that you are the friend of outcasts, so won’t you please help me? Please send someone to be my friend, someone I can talk to who will listen and won’t laugh at me. I hope you’re listening now and will help me. I’ll keep my eyes opened for you to send somebody my way. Thank you, Jesus. (321)
Gracious God,
You know me better than I know myself. I don’t know why I lie (drink/do drugs, sleep around/steal/smoke/cheat) the way I do. Even before I realize what I am doing, I am caught up in it. I hate living this way and feeling this way. Please help me to change, Lord. You are the God of miracles and I ask your Spirit to come and work a miracle in me. Give me the courage to ask someone for help and then the strength to do what they say. I know that it will take time and hard work, but I believe you can transform me, Lord. And never stop loving me. In Jesus my Savior I pray. (322)
Help me God!
I feel so much anxiety and pressure. I don’t understand what’s going on half the time and I find myself getting angry over any little thing. I’ve got to do better than this. Help me look deeply and truthfully inside myself to understand what’s going on and lead me on the pathway of peace. Thank you for being here. (323)
Lord, I feel so hopeless. I’m so out of control and I don’t even know why I do what I do. I’ve tried to stop because it’s insane, but I can’t. I hate the lies; I hate feeling this way. If your power is enough to make the world, could it help me make mine sane again? I know I can’t do it alone, but maybe you can do it through me. You are my only hope. Please God. Help me and show me the way. (324)
Dear God,
Thank you for all the blessing you give me: for my family, my healthy body and mind, my church family and my faith. Thank you for your forgiveness that makes every day a new beginning.
Help me follow Jesus, please. I want to be a blessing to my world. Keep me truthful, joyful, and kind, and give me the inner strength to do the right thing each day. And thank you for always being with me. In Jesus’ name I pray. (325)
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Help me to serve you and this world according to your will and help me to remember that I just need to live one day at a time. Thank you for hanging in there with me. In Jesus’ name.
(326)
Okay God,
I’m not sure what I’m doing talking to you. I don’t even think I believe in you. But just in case you’re there, please help. If you really are God, then you know the mess I’m in and you know that there is no easy way out. Maybe I don’t even need a way out, just a way through it all. If you can do anything at all, please do it and let me know that you’re behind it all. I’d really appreciate it. (327)
Heavenly Father,
I pray for my parents who have been fighting a lot lately. They are scaring me because sometimes I think that my dad/mom is going to leave us. What will I do if our family splits up? Won’t you help them, please? And help me remember that you love them and you love me and no matter what the future may bring, you will always be with us. In Jesus name I pray. (328)
Holy Lord,
I pray for my parents because I love them and need them. I know it’s really hard for them to deal with me sometimes, but both Mom and Dad are wonderful. Please give them a good life and keep them healthy and help my mom quit smoking. Bless my sisters/brothers and me, so we can let them know how great we think they are. Thank you for making us a family. In Jesus’ name I pray. (329)
Father in Heaven,
Please keep my mom/dad safe when she isn’t home. It’s so hard for her to be so far away, and it’s really hard on all of us. We miss her so much and are so afraid for her in that dangerous place. Bless all the people involved in fighting wars and the civilians whose homes and cities are being destroyed, especially the children. Give foresight and wisdom to the president and to the leaders of nations around the world so that peace will come and peace will stay. In Jesus name I pray. (330)
Lord God,
I am so worried about my friend/cousin/sister, _____. She is thinking about killing herself. She has so many troubles that are making her do crazy things. She won’t listen to me. I pray for her, Lord. And I pray for myself that you will give me the courage to speak to someone about her. Show me who to go to for help and then use my words and my love to help lead her out of this mess. In Jesus our Savior I pray. (331)
Dear God,
I’m really concerned about, _____. Alcohol/drugs/sex has her in its grip and she feels lost and alone. And I’m afraid I might go the same way. It’s so easy to give in and so hard not to. Pour out your life-giving grace to help her and show her the way of salvation. Help us both to find ways to have fun without doing harmful things. Send your Spirit to show me how I can be a real friend to her and to myself, so that we both will choose the paths of joy and goodness that Jesus calls us to walk. In Him I pray. (332)
Lord God,
Please help (my aunt/sister/mom/friend) to stop drinking/smoking crack. She can’t see how much it’s ruining her life, or if she does see it, she can’t stop. Please watch over her and keep her safe. Give her the strength and courage to go to a 12 Step meeting or somewhere to find how to get her life back. I don’t know what I can do to help besides pray. Just show me if there’s something out there I can do. In the meantime, hear my prayers, O Lord, and deliver her from this evil. In Jesus I pray. (333)
Dear God,
You know how bad my (sister) feels about herself. I ask that you will help her like herself more and stop putting herself down all the time. She’s such a beautiful person inside and out. I really want to thank you for putting her in my life. And please help me to become someone that she is really happy to have in her life, too. And help us both turn to you more often and to worship you all week long, not just on Sundays. In Jesus’ name I pray. (334)
Dear God,
My sisters/brothers are driving me crazy. I can’t stand them fighting all the time. I can’t even stand to see their faces sometimes. You’re going to have to help me with this because right now I hate them. I know you have made us a family and we’re supposed to love one another, so help me to love them better and help them to act better. Thank you. In Jesus’ name I pray. (335)
Sweet Jesus,
My sister, _____, is drifting away from you and I feel like I’m losing her, too. She’s always been the one to make me stop and think about what is right and I know I wouldn’t be who I am without her. But she’s changed so much and now she needs help. Bless her as only you can. Send your Spirit to bring her back on track. And help me understand her feelings and find the right words when she gets so weird. In your holy name I trust and pray. (336)
Saving God,
My (grandmother) is so weak since her stroke. She has to work so hard just to try to talk and move and it breaks my heart. I know that you love her and that you can bring blessings even out of horrible, terrible things, so I ask you to bless her at this horrible, terrible time. When she taught me to pray, she told me how merciful you are, and so now I ask you to have mercy and heal my wonderful G’ma.. I pray as she taught me, in Jesus’ name. (337)
Good God,
Life is so unfair. So many people suffer and such terrible things happen, and yet the Church says that you are in charge of it, working out your goodness in the face of evil by the power of your Holy Spirit. I don’t understand it, but I want to believe. So fill in the gaps of my unbelief and show me what I can do to help you. Help me follow Jesus to be a blessing to others who are in need. Strengthen my courage, sharpen my vision, and shape my will so that it fits in with your Kingdom. In the name of the King I pray. (338)
Thank you, Lord! Thank you for the sense of forgiveness I feel today. It’s such a wonderful thing not to be stuck with the heavy burden of guilt I’ve been carrying around. I feel like you’ve given me a whole new beginning and I thank you, thank you, thank you. Yea God! Yea Jesus! Yea me! (339)
Holy God,
I want to be kinder to other people and more respectful of them. I don’t want to judge them and put them down the way I do. I’m sorry for slamming so many of my friends and for being two-faced. I want to be a good person and I believe you can help me become one. Please help me to keep holding the hand of Jesus every day, so that I can find the inner strength to do the right thing. I want to grow in my relationship with you and I hope you’ll answer this prayer! In Jesus’ name I pray.
(340)
O God,
I need some direction for the coming months and years ahead. I know that you have a place for me, so take me there and help me to stay focused and not screw up. I want to make my parents proud, I want to be proud of myself, and most especially, I want to please you. So take my hand and give me courage, give me direction, and give me wisdom as I face whatever is ahead. Help me grow stronger in you and give me the faith and trust to do what you will. In Jesus I pray. (341)
You are an awesome God! You have given me so many blessings and I’m very, very grateful. Thank you for my life, my family, my friends, and my church family. I love you and want to do your will because you have faith in me to serve you well. I seek your blessings for those in need, I seek your peace for those in despair, I seek your healing for the ill and dying, and I seek your light for those who are lost in the darkness. Thank you for faith and thank you for Jesus my Savior. In Him I pray. (342)
NEXT POST: PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 34 short prayers for teens in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
PRAYERS FOR TEENS (308-342)
Birthday Prayers for Teens (308-311)
Prayers For Teens and Their Families (312-320)
Prayers For Teens to Pray for Themselves (321-342)
Birthday Prayers For Teens (308-311)
Gracious God,
We thank you today for the gift of life to your dear child, _____, and for all the ways she enriches our life with joy. Bless her now and in the year ahead, and grant her a growing depth of wisdom and faith as she continues to mature in body and mind. Clothe her in your righteousness and keep her safe and healthy. And help her to remember to turn to you at all times, especially when making choices. In Christ we pray. (308)
Awesome God,
We see your compassionate, forgiving face in Jesus, and we bow in adoration. We thank today you for your beloved child, _____. We delight that you are shaping her into a seeker of compassion and justice on behalf of those in need. Bless her now by your Spirit’s power as you continue to guide her in the path of Jesus. And may she mature into a woman of great integrity and overflowing joy. In Christ we pray.
(309)
Precious Lord,
We thank you for the wonder of love and the way it shapes us into becoming loving people. We bless you for the wonder of faith and the way it calls us into becoming faithful people. And we praise you for the wonder of joy and the way it leads us into jubilant living. We are so thankful for your beloved daughter, _____, and for all the love, faith, and joy she exudes. Keep her in your watchful care and lead her onward into life’s awaiting arms. In Christ we pray. (310)
O Hound of Heaven,
You pursue us across the span of our lives, calling for us to listen and to trust. Captivated by your love, we are both blessed and challenged as we follow Jesus in a life of intimate companionship with you. On this special day, let your grace abound on your dear child _____. And bless her as you continue to lead her into a life of righteousness and peace. In Jesus we pray. (311)
For Teens and Their Families (312-320)
Holy God,
We pray your deep blessings upon the _____ family as they go through some troubled times. Especially we lift up before you _____ and ask your abiding grace upon her as she acts out in unhealthy ways. Guard her body, mind and spirit. Give her wisdom to make good choices and remind her how much she is loved. Keep her parents focused on those things they can do to help and give them the strength to persevere in loving discipline and expectant hope. Through Christ our Savior we pray. (312)
Dear Father,
We thank you that you love us just the way we are! It is such as relief not to have to pretend with you or try to make ourselves look better than we are. We pray that you will bless your dear child, _____, who feels bad about herself because she has blown it. We pray you will help her accept your pardon and give her the courage and strength to do better next time. Guide her steps in ways that will help her flourish and lead her in the footsteps of Jesus all of her lifelong. In Christ we pray. (313)
Ever-loving God,
Our dear friend, _____, needs your help. Show her your love in ways large and small and remind her that you are for her, with her, and here to guide her every day. Help her to trust in the plan you have for her life that she cannot yet see or understand. Grant her your Spirit and give her the healing of her body, mind, and soul that she needs so badly, that she may find hope in the love of her family, friends, and community. Through Jesus Christ we pray. (314)
Dear Lord,
There are so many people in _____’s life for whom she prays, but we ask your special blessing upon her (friend, mother, etc.)_____ who is very ill and needs your saving grace. Hear our prayers and those of all who love and care for her. Heal her according to your good will and mercy. Let the minds and hands of the medical staff be the blessed touch of Christ upon her, and send your Spirit to abide with her and all those who wait by her side. In Jesus we pray. (315)
O God our Judge,
Our friend, _____, is going to court today and is in need of your special blessings. She is nervous about what lies ahead. Be with the lawyers and the judge who will be deciding what will happen to her. She is sorry for what she did and wants to learn how to do things differently. Lead people into her life that can influence her for good, and help her make the changes in her heart, mind, and lifestyle that can bring her real satisfaction and joy. We pray in Jesus who is our Way, Truth, and Life. (316)
Dearest God,
Your beloved child, _____, says that she’s thinking about cutting her wrists again but doesn’t want to go back to that. Your saving grace has been with her through her therapy and medications, but right now she feels stuck in a bad place and can’t see her way forward. We know your will for her is a flourishing life. So send your Spirit's miracle-working power to help her see the future you have planned for her. And let your peace dwell within her now and always. In Christ we pray. (317)
Gracious God,
Your beloved child, _____, has been struggling with her sexual identity and is certain she is gay. She feels that she is living a lie and wants to come out to her parents, but is afraid of their reaction. And so, we ask your amazing grace upon her and her family in this situation. Grant her courage to give her parents the gift of the truth, and give them the unconditional love that she needs from them. May they each be a blessing to one another, filled with your peace and surprised by joy. In Christ we pray. (318)
Comforter,
Your dear child, _____, feels lost and alone. She is overwhelmed right now with the loss of her faith. Remind her yet again that you are the giver of faith and that you are with her whether or not she can sense your Spirit's touch. Shower her with your blessings in the ways you know that she needs. Let your tender mercies be her confidence, her consolation, and her joy. And give her good hope in Jesus, her companion and friend. In Christ we pray. (319)
Spirit of Life,
You know the difficulties and heartaches that your dear child, _____, endures in her disability. Even more than she is aware, you know her needs and are faithfully working out a plan for her life. But she is so tired of the struggle. We pray that you will bless her now in her pain and isolation. Help her to persevere with confidence in your amazing grace. Open up her heart and life so that she may find flourishing joy in the future you have in store for her. In Jesus' name we pray. (320)
For Teens to Pray for Themselves (321-342)
Jesus My Friend,
You know that I’m scared to go to school. I hate the violence, the cussing, and the awful sense of being left out. Other people are giving me a hard time and I don’t know if it’s even worth going there. They say that you are the friend of outcasts, so won’t you please help me? Please send someone to be my friend, someone I can talk to who will listen and won’t laugh at me. I hope you’re listening now and will help me. I’ll keep my eyes opened for you to send somebody my way. Thank you, Jesus. (321)
Gracious God,
You know me better than I know myself. I don’t know why I lie (drink/do drugs, sleep around/steal/smoke/cheat) the way I do. Even before I realize what I am doing, I am caught up in it. I hate living this way and feeling this way. Please help me to change, Lord. You are the God of miracles and I ask your Spirit to come and work a miracle in me. Give me the courage to ask someone for help and then the strength to do what they say. I know that it will take time and hard work, but I believe you can transform me, Lord. And never stop loving me. In Jesus my Savior I pray. (322)
Help me God!
I feel so much anxiety and pressure. I don’t understand what’s going on half the time and I find myself getting angry over any little thing. I’ve got to do better than this. Help me look deeply and truthfully inside myself to understand what’s going on and lead me on the pathway of peace. Thank you for being here. (323)
Lord, I feel so hopeless. I’m so out of control and I don’t even know why I do what I do. I’ve tried to stop because it’s insane, but I can’t. I hate the lies; I hate feeling this way. If your power is enough to make the world, could it help me make mine sane again? I know I can’t do it alone, but maybe you can do it through me. You are my only hope. Please God. Help me and show me the way. (324)
Dear God,
Thank you for all the blessing you give me: for my family, my healthy body and mind, my church family and my faith. Thank you for your forgiveness that makes every day a new beginning.
Help me follow Jesus, please. I want to be a blessing to my world. Keep me truthful, joyful, and kind, and give me the inner strength to do the right thing each day. And thank you for always being with me. In Jesus’ name I pray. (325)
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Help me to serve you and this world according to your will and help me to remember that I just need to live one day at a time. Thank you for hanging in there with me. In Jesus’ name.
(326)
Okay God,
I’m not sure what I’m doing talking to you. I don’t even think I believe in you. But just in case you’re there, please help. If you really are God, then you know the mess I’m in and you know that there is no easy way out. Maybe I don’t even need a way out, just a way through it all. If you can do anything at all, please do it and let me know that you’re behind it all. I’d really appreciate it. (327)
Heavenly Father,
I pray for my parents who have been fighting a lot lately. They are scaring me because sometimes I think that my dad/mom is going to leave us. What will I do if our family splits up? Won’t you help them, please? And help me remember that you love them and you love me and no matter what the future may bring, you will always be with us. In Jesus name I pray. (328)
Holy Lord,
I pray for my parents because I love them and need them. I know it’s really hard for them to deal with me sometimes, but both Mom and Dad are wonderful. Please give them a good life and keep them healthy and help my mom quit smoking. Bless my sisters/brothers and me, so we can let them know how great we think they are. Thank you for making us a family. In Jesus’ name I pray. (329)
Father in Heaven,
Please keep my mom/dad safe when she isn’t home. It’s so hard for her to be so far away, and it’s really hard on all of us. We miss her so much and are so afraid for her in that dangerous place. Bless all the people involved in fighting wars and the civilians whose homes and cities are being destroyed, especially the children. Give foresight and wisdom to the president and to the leaders of nations around the world so that peace will come and peace will stay. In Jesus name I pray. (330)
Lord God,
I am so worried about my friend/cousin/sister, _____. She is thinking about killing herself. She has so many troubles that are making her do crazy things. She won’t listen to me. I pray for her, Lord. And I pray for myself that you will give me the courage to speak to someone about her. Show me who to go to for help and then use my words and my love to help lead her out of this mess. In Jesus our Savior I pray. (331)
Dear God,
I’m really concerned about, _____. Alcohol/drugs/sex has her in its grip and she feels lost and alone. And I’m afraid I might go the same way. It’s so easy to give in and so hard not to. Pour out your life-giving grace to help her and show her the way of salvation. Help us both to find ways to have fun without doing harmful things. Send your Spirit to show me how I can be a real friend to her and to myself, so that we both will choose the paths of joy and goodness that Jesus calls us to walk. In Him I pray. (332)
Lord God,
Please help (my aunt/sister/mom/friend) to stop drinking/smoking crack. She can’t see how much it’s ruining her life, or if she does see it, she can’t stop. Please watch over her and keep her safe. Give her the strength and courage to go to a 12 Step meeting or somewhere to find how to get her life back. I don’t know what I can do to help besides pray. Just show me if there’s something out there I can do. In the meantime, hear my prayers, O Lord, and deliver her from this evil. In Jesus I pray. (333)
Dear God,
You know how bad my (sister) feels about herself. I ask that you will help her like herself more and stop putting herself down all the time. She’s such a beautiful person inside and out. I really want to thank you for putting her in my life. And please help me to become someone that she is really happy to have in her life, too. And help us both turn to you more often and to worship you all week long, not just on Sundays. In Jesus’ name I pray. (334)
Dear God,
My sisters/brothers are driving me crazy. I can’t stand them fighting all the time. I can’t even stand to see their faces sometimes. You’re going to have to help me with this because right now I hate them. I know you have made us a family and we’re supposed to love one another, so help me to love them better and help them to act better. Thank you. In Jesus’ name I pray. (335)
Sweet Jesus,
My sister, _____, is drifting away from you and I feel like I’m losing her, too. She’s always been the one to make me stop and think about what is right and I know I wouldn’t be who I am without her. But she’s changed so much and now she needs help. Bless her as only you can. Send your Spirit to bring her back on track. And help me understand her feelings and find the right words when she gets so weird. In your holy name I trust and pray. (336)
Saving God,
My (grandmother) is so weak since her stroke. She has to work so hard just to try to talk and move and it breaks my heart. I know that you love her and that you can bring blessings even out of horrible, terrible things, so I ask you to bless her at this horrible, terrible time. When she taught me to pray, she told me how merciful you are, and so now I ask you to have mercy and heal my wonderful G’ma.. I pray as she taught me, in Jesus’ name. (337)
Good God,
Life is so unfair. So many people suffer and such terrible things happen, and yet the Church says that you are in charge of it, working out your goodness in the face of evil by the power of your Holy Spirit. I don’t understand it, but I want to believe. So fill in the gaps of my unbelief and show me what I can do to help you. Help me follow Jesus to be a blessing to others who are in need. Strengthen my courage, sharpen my vision, and shape my will so that it fits in with your Kingdom. In the name of the King I pray. (338)
Thank you, Lord! Thank you for the sense of forgiveness I feel today. It’s such a wonderful thing not to be stuck with the heavy burden of guilt I’ve been carrying around. I feel like you’ve given me a whole new beginning and I thank you, thank you, thank you. Yea God! Yea Jesus! Yea me! (339)
Holy God,
I want to be kinder to other people and more respectful of them. I don’t want to judge them and put them down the way I do. I’m sorry for slamming so many of my friends and for being two-faced. I want to be a good person and I believe you can help me become one. Please help me to keep holding the hand of Jesus every day, so that I can find the inner strength to do the right thing. I want to grow in my relationship with you and I hope you’ll answer this prayer! In Jesus’ name I pray.
(340)
O God,
I need some direction for the coming months and years ahead. I know that you have a place for me, so take me there and help me to stay focused and not screw up. I want to make my parents proud, I want to be proud of myself, and most especially, I want to please you. So take my hand and give me courage, give me direction, and give me wisdom as I face whatever is ahead. Help me grow stronger in you and give me the faith and trust to do what you will. In Jesus I pray. (341)
You are an awesome God! You have given me so many blessings and I’m very, very grateful. Thank you for my life, my family, my friends, and my church family. I love you and want to do your will because you have faith in me to serve you well. I seek your blessings for those in need, I seek your peace for those in despair, I seek your healing for the ill and dying, and I seek your light for those who are lost in the darkness. Thank you for faith and thank you for Jesus my Savior. In Him I pray. (342)
NEXT POST: PRAYERS FROM THE CHURCH
4--PRAYERS FOR TROUBLED TIMES
This collection of prayers is intended for those who wish to offer written prayers for friends, family, or church members as an expression of their love and faith. The short prayers are for times of both celebration and need and easily can be adapted to suit the particular situation of the recipient. Please feel free to copy and paste them into your computer to make your personalized cards, or they may be handwritten on invitation-size card notes.
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 95 short prayers for troubled times in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
FOR TROUBLED TIMES (212-307)
Going On (212-228)
Times of Conflict (229)
When God is Silent (230)
For the Self-Destructive (231-232)
To Pray for Oneself as Needed (234-236)
To Pray When Responsible for Another's Death (237)
At the Donation of a Loved One's Organs (238)
Military Personnel at War (239)
Military Families (240-241)
Upon Leaving an Abusive Situation (242)
Those Betrayed (243)
Those Who Have Betrayed (244)
Couples Seeking Reconciliation (245)
Going Through Divorce (246-247)
Children of Divorce (248)
While on Trial (249-250)
While in Prison (251-253)
Conviction of a Loved One’s Murderer (254)
After a Trauma (255)
After a Fire (256)
Moving to a Care Facility (257-260)
For the Dying (261-270)
Loved One Dying (271-272)
Unwanted Pregnancy (273)
Miscarriage (274)
Family Victims of Suicide (275-276)
Death of a Loved One (277-292)
Death of a Daughter or Son (293-297)
Prolonged Grieving (298-303)
Special Days Remembered (304-305)
Death of a Pet (306-307)
For Going On (212-228)
O Life-Stirring God,
Your eternal grace engulfs us in your great love and harbors us safely. And even as the storms of life howl around us, you quietly teach us wisdom and trust. Continue to shelter our dear _____ and teach her what you would have her learn today. Shine the light of Christ upon any darkness of heart or spirit. And bless her with all she may need as she prays each day, “Thy will be done.” In Christ we pray. (212)
O Generous Heart,
You give us light in our darkness, comfort in our anxiety, and hope for our tomorrows. We pray that your abundant Spirit will be upon _____ in this time of crisis and uncertainty. Let the light of Christ shine upon her and all those who wait with her. Bless them with all they may need to meet this day with the peace that is ours through Jesus, our Savior. In Christ we pray. (213)
O Well of Hope,
We seek your soothing blessings when we are weak and fearful. And we thirst for the Living Waters of your saving grace in times of spiritual drought and hopelessness. Spring up again within the soul of your dear child _____. As she wanders in a dry, deserted place of despair, let your Spirit drench her and her waiting family with blessing. Give them strength, wisdom and courage and lead them all in Christ's light. (214)
Ever-Watchful God,
From our mothers’ womb to the cradle of our grave, you are near, upholding and leading, forgiving and healing, strengthening and transforming. We thank you for the countless ways you have blessed your child, _____, through the years with your faithful care. Help her now to rest secure in your presence as she goes through these troubling times, and lead her to the green pastures awaiting her. In Christ we pray. (215)
God of Abounding Compassion,
When we are weary, you give us rest. When we are sinking, you set our feet on solid ground. When we are stumbling, you hold us steady. When we are helpless, you reach out your saving hand. In your mercy hear our prayer for _____ at this time. Touch her with the soothing balm of Christ's peace and your Spirit's power, that she may find her every need fulfilled in you. Amen. (216)
Saving God,
Make your face to shine upon _____ to be a deep and healing blessing. May she know with St. Patrick: "Christ within her. Christ behind her. Christ before her. Christ beside her. Christ to comfort and restore her. Christ beneath her. Christ above her. Christ in quiet. Christ in danger. Christ in hearts of all that love and care for her." Bind her to you and give her good hope in Christ. Amen (217)
O God our Refuge,
Your love and faithfulness are eternal, and your mercy is from everlasting to everlasting. In love and mercy, bless our dear _____ at this time of struggle and worry. Give to her all she may need to endure whatever is to be. Lead her, uphold her, and strengthen her shaky faith. Let the light of Christ shine brightly upon her and grant her deep pools of his peace each step of the way. We ask for his sake and in his name. (218)
Author and Preserver of Life,
We are grateful that our days are sustained by your grace and nurtured by your Spirit’s touch. Hear us as we pray for our dear _____, who is bowed down with the weight of many concerns and problems. Lift her heart and strengthen her resolve to meet this day in faith and trust. Sustain her according to your good will, and help her to rest confidently in the light and peace of Christ. In Jesus' name we pray. (219)
Bread of Heaven,
Grant you tender mercies to our dear, _____. Let your Spirit waft around her like the aroma of a freshly baked loaf, filling in the chasms of fear and hopelessness and giving her the courage to go on. Do not let her eyes grow dim with despair, but nurture her with hope in your renewing power. In Christ we pray. (220)
O Breath of Life,
Your grace rocks us gently to the unbroken rhythm of your eternal love. And as your mercy flows around us in a gentle healing balm, we are born anew. We ask a deep and steady strength for _____, now and in the coming days. In mercy, shelter her body, nourish her soul, and grant her confidence for the next step of her journey. And line her path with lilies from the fields of your peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (221)
God of Miracles,
In thy goodness and mercy, even the harshest circumstances of our days are transformed from causes for despair into deep wells of praise and holy living. And so when courage falters and desperation nips at our heels, when hope is hidden amidst the tangle of our wills with thine, we make bold to pray, "Have thine own way." In mercy bless thy child, _____ as she seeks thy will, and grant her thy peace. In Christ we pray. (222)
God of Endless Miracles,
We thank you for the wondrous power of your eternal grace that carries us from a parched and weary place to the waters of hope. We ask your power to flood over our dear _____, O Living Waters, to give her the strength and courage she craves. As she drinks in the vitality and joy that your love provides, sate her fully. Then kindle a fierce hope within her through your Spirit’s hovering presence and grant her peace in Christ. (223)
God Our Pilot,
At your behest the gale winds blow and the great storms fill the seas. We ask you to bless our friend, _____, as she treads the treacherous waters of this perilous time. Buoy her with the knowledge of your abiding love and give her safe passage. Let her see the beacon of your light along the rocky shoals of her daily tribulations. And keep her tethered to Jesus, who will bring her to safe harbor. In Christ we pray. (224)
Compassionate God,
Your mercy is from everlasting to everlasting for all you have called into life. We ask your tender mercies upon _____ and _____ at this difficult time of life. In distress be their comfort, in weakness be their strength, in pain be their surcease, in unknowing be their light, and in darkness be their guide. Whatever each day may bring, we ask that courage, trust, and joy may be the song they sing through your Spirit’s power. In Christ we pray. (225)
Gracious Sower of Life,
As you scatter seeds of grace throughout our days, you call us to change and grow that you may reap a harvest of goodness in us and through us. We thank you for the goodness that your grace that is bringing _____ during this difficult season. Continue to give her the will and courage to persevere in trust and hope. Bless her as she offers her love and service others, and lead her always in the path of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (226)
O Sovereign God,
Your steadfast love is the fount of all blessings even in the midst of all of the turmoil, changes, and challenges of our lives. We pray you to continue to lead and guide _____ in the midst of her troubles and chaos. Give her all that she may need for this day to “keep on keeping on” in integrity and wisdom. And in your mercy bless her with the light of your face shining upon her each day. In Christ we pray. (227)
Gracious God,
How marvelous to know the wonder of your amazing grace pouring out upon us each day, especially on our sister, _____, as she continues to go through a very rough time. We thank you for the places of recovery and the people with healing skills that have helped bring her though thus far. By your Spirit, give her the perseverance, and courage to slow down and take better care of herself. And grant her the profound and healing peace of Christ, in whose name we pray. (228)
For Times of Conflict (229)
God of Reconciliation,
For our failure to honor our adversaries, forgive us we pray. For our need to be right rather than loving, bring us to repentance. For our goal of victory rather than community, lead us in your paths of righteousness. Bless now _____ and _____ who are deadlocked in conflict and contempt. Break down the walls that divide them and help each to see the other with humility. Give them listening hearts, forgiving spirits, and reconciling words, now and always. In Christ our peace we pray. (229)
When God is Silent (230)
O God of Mystery,
We balk at the agony of your stillness and stumble in the heavy absence of your voice. We fear your silence and distrust the victory of your powerful love over all that crushes life. Unlock our strangling anxieties. And apply the balm of your grace to calm our thrashing hearts, especially upon _____, who fears your absence and cries from the depths of despair. We wait for your voice to speak to her thrashing heart yet again. In Christ we pray. (230)
For The Self-Destructive (231-233)
Ever-loving God,
We ask your Spirit’s gentle touch upon your precious child _____. Lost in a chilling darkness, she waits upon you for light, mercy, and guidance. Smother her attraction toward self-destruction and stay her hand, we pray. Let her drink deeply from the cup of your salvation, that she may find the courage to live and the will and power to claim a future of restoration and hope. And grant your amazing, healing grace to triumph in her and through her each moment, each day. In Christ we pray. (231)
God of Compassion,
Send your profound blessings on _____, who is searching for meaning and hope. Stay her hand of self-destruction and give her the wisdom and courage to make the choices necessary to claim the peace, comfort, and joy of this earthly life. Guide her in her daily walk that she may find your good will and purpose. And lead her into life anew by the power of your Spirit and in the light of your Saving Son. In Christ we pray. (232)
O Melody of Love,
We thank you for planting the song of life within our hearts, buried and tremulous though it sometimes may be. We ask your powerful Spirit to sing for _____ at this time of tuneless despair and grinding panic. Even when such darkness mutes her faith and will to live, grant that the light of Christ may shine along her way and teach her your song of hope yet again. In Christ we pray. (233)
To Pray for Oneself as Needed (234-236)
My God and My Savior,
Sometimes I do not have any words to pray as the burden of my sorrow keeps me silenced. It is then that I ask you, O God of Compassion, to. . .
. . .Accept as prayer my muted-heart and nerve-wracked spirit—Love, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer my drowning doubt and engulfing anger—Grace, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer my groaning grief and paralyzing thoughts—Hope, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer, O Blessing Goodness. . .
. . .my weakness, inability, and struggle to keep going
. . .my debilitated energy and splintered mind
. . .all that conspires to tether my soul to darkness.
Remember me, O Holy One of Life, and hear my prayer. In Christ’s mercy I pray. (234)
Our Father . . .Abba-Daddy, Mommy- Love: generate new life within us all, even me
Who art in heaven . . .and bring us into your precious, holy presence.
Hallowed be Thy name. . .We praise your matchless goodness and love.
Thy Kingdom come . . .May justice, kindness, and humility flourish
Thy will be done . . .according to your Good Plan
on earth as it is in heaven . . .that our lives with others will promote your Reign.
Give us this day our daily bread . . .Nurture our hungering spirits; feed all in need,
And forgive us our debts . . .and restore our integrity,
as we forgive our debtors . . .that we may be transparent vessels of your grace.
And lead us not into temptation . . .Do not let us teeter toward evil doings
But deliver us from evil . . .nor succumb to the lure of self-righteousness.
For Thine is the Kingdom . . .For your good will is the Goal of all things.
And the Power . . .We know that all life and blessings flow from you,
And the Glory forever . . .and galaxies of praise shall abound through eternity.
Amen . . .Hallelujah! Hallelujah! May it be so. (235)
O Fusion of Love,
Why do I fear when Thou art my Source and my End? Why do I rage against human weakness, when it is the weakness itself that gives Thee cause to extend Thy tender mercies in such abundance? O gentle Breath of God, melt my rigid heart now frozen by despair. Gird me with Thy grace and shield me with Thy hope. May I daily remember that this is the day that Thou givest to rejoice and be glad in, that I may will to rejoice all my days. Alleluia! Alleluia! (236)
To Pray When Responsible for Another’s Death (237)
O LORD my God, I take refuge in you; save and deliver me from all who pursue me, or they will tear me like a lion and rip me to pieces with no one to rescue me. Psalm 7:1-2
My God, My God,
How can I ever make peace with this hideous tragedy that leaves so much grief, so many tears in its wake? I am the focus of terrible anger and great pity, and who can blame them? Oh, that I could do it over, but what has happened cannot be changed. Yet you, O Savior, can make a way where there is no way, that forgiveness may come, and I may to learn how to live with this. You are my only hope. Do not forsake me, I pray. Oh let the arms of Jesus envelop me in your peace! In Christ's name I pray. (237)
Donation of Loved Ones' Organs (238)
Hovering Spirit,
With shock and grief, we have suffered the loss of our dear _____'s life. But with great love reflecting your own, _____ and _____ have given permission for her organs to be used for others' sake. May each transplant be a source of gospel grace for the recipients. And let the hands of all who transport, care for, and implant these precious gifts of life be as the hands of Christ bringing light and hope. In Christ we pray. (238)
Military Personnel at War (239)
Show the wonder of your great love, you who save by your right hand those who take refuge in you from their foes. Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings. Psalm 17:7-8
Faithful God,
When we are surrounded with those who seek to destroy our lives, you hide our souls in the refuge of your eternal wings, and we remember that your steadfast love will never let us go. We pray for _____ who is in circumstances both deadly and deadening. Give her refuge in the shadow of your hovering Spirit. Guard and keep her going out and her coming in, and bless her with all she may need. In Christ we pray. (239)
For Military Families (240-241)
Rampart of Grace,
Even in the worst times, we are called to trust that your good will and mercy shall prevail in this world you love so dearly. We pray at this difficult time of departure for _____. We ask your blessing on her and her family in her absence. Grant them all comfort in the midst of anxiety, and peace in the face of fears. And while she is in the dangerous fields of conflict, keep her safe and bring her home. In Christ we pray. (240)
Power of the Universe,
We ask your deepest blessings upon _____ and _____ and their family during this time of enforced separation. May they lean heavily upon your grace for all their needs. Grant _____ your wisdom and courage as she goes where she is ordered. Give her a discerning heart to follow orders with integrity and righteousness. Keep her safe from harm and guide all her actions. In Christ we pray. (241)
Leaving an Abusive Situation (242)
Harbor of Safety,
We thank you for giving _____ the courage to claim sanctuary from her dangerous home life. Continue to pour out your saving grace in abundance upon her and her children now. Give her safety, guidance, and the wisdom that she seeks. Lead her into greater self-understanding and self-love through the struggles of this new beginning, and let the light of Christ shine upon her every step of the way. In Jesus we pray. (242)
For Those Betrayed (243)
Abiding Hope,
In your compassion, you suffer with those who have been deceived and betrayed. With confidence in your power to do what we cannot, we claim your abundant goodness for _____ in the coming weeks and months. In grace and mercy, let your Spirit make a way through the darkness and pain. Be her light and her strength, her guide and her comfort as she seeks your healing and peace. In Christ we pray. (243)
For Those Who Have Betrayed (244)
Redeeming God,
When we are mired in a web of lies, betrayal and unfaithfulness, in grace you lead us to repentance, forgive our sins, and restore us to right living. Your child, _____, now finds herself at your throne of judgement and mercy. Quicken her spirit with forgiveness and resurrect her torn and bleeding relationship. And restore the shattered trust between them toward healing and hope each day. In Christ we pray. (244)
Couples Seeking Reconciliation (245)
God of Miracles,
You call us to weed out the harmful ways and bad habits that stifle our relationships and break apart the bonds of our attachment. As your children _____ and _____ struggle toward reconciliation, sow love, patience and hope in their hearts. May they cling to your mercy, forgiveness, and strength as they await your healing power to resurrect their marriage/relationship. In Christ we pray. (245)
Those Going Through Divorce (246-247)
O Gracious God,
A time of deep darkness and pain has come upon _____ as her marriage is torn asunder. She hungers for signs of your grace through this wrenching time of starting over. Place your healing hand upon the wounds of heart and soul, and comfort the family as they adjust to a new beginning. Give each of them wisdom and courage and let your light shine upon them day by day. In Christ we pray. (246)
God of New Beginnings,
We do not know what the future holds, but we know in whose hands it is held. We ask your bless upon our sister, _____, as her divorce is finalized. Lead her on in this new phase of her journey with you and help her continue to move from darkness and pain into the light of hope. And grant her the ability to forgive and let go of the past, as she abides with you in the peace that passes all understanding. In Christ we pray. (247)
For Children of Divorce (248)
Dear Jesus,
Even when we are scared because of all the changes in our families, we know that you love us and take care of us each day. We pray for _____ (and _____), who is/are now hurting and afraid because of the divorce. Bless her/them each day as she/they adjust(s) to the changes that her/their parents have made, and help her/them with her/their problems. Please turn tears of sadness into smiles for the future. In Christ we pray. (248)
While on Trial (249-250)
Compassionate Judge,
Our call is neither as judge nor jury, but only as companion on the way. Be with our friend, _____, as she undergoes this time of judgement under the courts of law. Strengthen and encourage her, we pray. Let your light shine upon her and speak your words of life and goodness, especially when despair descends and hope flickers. Bless her in accordance with her needs and your great mercy. Fill her with the grace of Jesus and feed her with the Bread of Heaven. In Christ we pray. (249)
Eternal God,
We are blessed to know your Spirit abides with us, especially when time seems to stop and spirits falter. You help us remember that you are working out your good will and mercy through all of the circumstances of our days and that you are with us, no matter what. Deeply bless ______ and her family as she goes through this time of trial. Strengthen her, encourage her, and give her all she may need each day to persevere in faith, hope, and love. In Christ we pray. (250)
While in Prison (251-252)
Boundless One,
Have mercy upon our friend, _____, who is now confined behind bars in hopelessness and despair. Let your Spirit blow upon her each day that the light and peace of Christ may be her constant companion. Whisper your goodness and hope that she may not just survive each day, but by abiding in your grace, be created anew. In Christ the Savior of the world we pray. (251)
Great God of the Ages,
Even when imprisoned behind bars from a past of destruction and mayhem, you are able to redeem our story into one of grace and hope. We ask your blessing upon _____ as she serves out her prison term. Surprise her with gifts of grace and cause her to grow in faith and righteousness. Send your agents of mercy to protect and bless her. And heal her of all that would keep her from responding to you in thanksgiving and new life. In Christ we pray. (252)
Fountain of All Blessing,
You are the Source, Guide, and Goal of all that is, and you offer us strength and healing through your abiding Spirit. Abide with the _____ family at this time, especially with_____ as she struggles to recover sobriety and hope while imprisoned behind bars. Let angels of mercy attend her and make her whole. Bless her parents, her children, and all who love her as they conform their lives and their plans to accommodate her situation. Help them all to persevere and give them good hope in Jesus. In Christ we pray. (253)
Conviction of a Loved One’s Murderer (254)
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress; my God in whom I trust.” Psalm 91:1-2
Steadfast God of Love,
You have been a refuge and a fortress for _____ and ____ who continue to learn to live without their beloved _____, slain by the hand of another. That one has now been brought to justice and this chapter of their ordeal is at long last over. Bless each according to their need and your faithful love, and may your Spirit's power and Christ's grace prevail. In your blessed name we pray. (254)
After a Trauma (255)
God of All Compassion,
We offer our heartfelt gratitude for your hand upon _____ during the dreadful time of trauma and shock. We thank you for the divine timing that brought her to see yet another day of life and ask that the same love and compassion that embraced her then will surround her now as she goes through its aftermath. And we pray you will help her find some meaning from it within your grace and wisdom. In Christ we pray. (255)
After a Fire (256)
O God our Refuge,
We thank you for your saving mercies through those who fought the dreadful fire so valiantly. We thank you for the ____ family's survival and pray for them at this time of the loss of their home and all they own. As they start to rebuild their lives, rain your abundant blessings down upon them. Stir friends and neighbors to acts of kindness and generosity and kindle a living hope within. In the peace of Christ we pray. (256)
Moving to a Care Facility (257-260)
God of All Mercy,
We pray for a safe passage for _____ and _____ as they begin another stage of their journey together. As _____ learns to make her home in the (name of facility), we beseech your merciful peace for any anxieties s/he may feel. And as _____ adjusts to life at home without her/him, we ask your comforting Spirit upon her/him. Provide balm for both of their hurting hearts and consolation for their fears, now and in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (257)
Compassionate God,
You comfort us in our distress and guide us when we are feeling lost. We pray you will bless the _____ family as they struggle to find direction to help for _____. Let Christ’s light lead them toward the path you would have them go. Be with all the family members in this time of unknowing and confusion. Provide them with what each one needs according to your good will and abounding mercy. In Christ we pray. (258)
Eternal Hope,
From our mothers’ wombs to the womb of our graves, you steadfastly lead, encourage, strengthen, and uphold us. We thank you for your faithfulness to _____, your beloved daughter. We ask you to work your good will in her and through her as she moves to her final earthly home. Uphold her in your everlasting arms and carry her to the end of her journey on earth in heavenly peace. In Jesus our Savior, we pray. (259)
Holy God,
You are the wind beneath our wings and so we ask that you will blow your Spirit’s blessings upon our sister, _____, as she is made to move out of her home and into a facility where she will receive the care she requires. Give her the strength for the changes that will come, and let the light of Christ shine upon her through the touch and skill of all who attend to her. Help her to accept what she cannot change and grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (260)
For the Dying (261-270)
Sheltering God,
We thank you for the promise of your abiding grace upon us in this life and the life to come. It is the foundation of our hope and trust. Bless our dear sister, _____, with all she may need as you lead her toward her final rest Comfort her in her distress, be strength for her in her weakness, and as she draws ever nearer, cause her heart to soar on the wings of your love. In Christ we pray. (261)
O Great Love,
How blessed we are to know that as our days draw to a close and the sting of death is ours to endure, you wrap us ever tighter in salvation’s garments of grace. Enfold our dear _____ and her family as she prepares to make her way to her eternal home with you. Bless her passage through the journey ahead all who now say goodbye to her with the hope of resurrection and glad reunion in your good time. In Christ we pray. (262)
God of the Journey,
We know that in you we have our beginnings and our endings and so we thank you for your gracious Design that gives us a time to live and a time to die. Let it be for _____ according to your good and compassionate will. May your Spirit carry her as she makes her way toward the place you have prepared for her. Bless her and her loving family with all they may need as you welcome her to her final home. In Christ. (263)
Great Weaver of Life,
Throughout our days you mend our broken ways. Then you graciously loosen the knot of our mortality to free us to enter through the doors of eternal life with you. As you now loosen the knot for our dear _____, we seek your blessing. Open the door at her knock that she may enter with her Lord Jesus in triumph and joy. And grant her the peace that passes all understanding now and forever. In Christ we pray. (264)
O Thou our Maker,
Dependent on you for all things, we are blessed by your abiding presence. Called to remember that we are your little children, we trust in your power to redeem and sustain us throughout our life on earth and beyond. May your power now be made complete in _____’s weakness and approaching death. As she comes to you as a little child, let the glory of Heaven shine upon her in joyful welcome. In Christ's peace we pray. (265)
O Boundless One,
You wrap your grace in blessings large and small throughout our days. Especially at our earthly end, grace is wrapped in the gift of death that delivers us into your waiting arms. We pray you will be with our dear sister _____, as she now turns toward Home. Move her beyond the confines of her body so her spirit may soar with trust and hope until she sees you face to face and she shall want no more. In Christ we pray. (266)
Be still and know that I am God! Psalm 46:10a
O Great Refuge,
We would be still and thank you for your grace amid the storms of life and death. We lift before you _____, now caught in the storm between life and death and waiting for release. Settle the peace of Christ upon her and on all who wait at her side in love. Support the loved ones she leaves behind, and let the light of Christ shine upon them all in the sorrow and grief of their parting. In Christ we pray. (267)
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. Psalm 119:105
Poet of All Life,
Your word does not just say something to us, but causes life abundant to grow within us. Even at the very end of our earthly journey, it flourishes within and lights our way toward your waiting arms. Speak your word now to _____, whom you have called by name and claimed as your own, that even her weakness and fading awareness may manifest your glory and proclaim your gracious Rule, on earth as it is in heaven. In Christ we pray. (268)
O Endless Love,
We bless and thank you for all the ways you have spoken to _____ and _____ in love and faithfulness throughout their years together. May your tender mercies continue to pour out upon them, as _____ prepares to cross the great divide of death, and _____ prepares to say goodbye to him/her. Grant to each of them according to their need and your deep compassion. May your Spirit light their way and grant them peace. In Christ we pray. (269)
God of the Journey,
As you map out our days with tender compassion, you call us to trust that your goodwill is being worked out through all of the circumstances of life and death. We ask your Spirit to abide with our sister, _____, in this time as she follows your leading through death to the joyful reunion with the Church Triumphant. Bless her now and shower her with your peace throughout the journey. In Christ we pray. (270)
Loved One Dying (271-272)
O Compassionate God,
As her treasured companion in life hovers between life and death, we ask your Spirit to bless your beloved child, _____. Give her your vision through the darkness as _____ makes his way through death into the abundant life to come. Bless her with the assurance of your presence at this time of letting go. Bestow your gifts of courage and wisdom as you guide her by the light of love, and grant her an overflowing measure of your peace, now and in the coming days. In Christ we pray.
(271)
Gracious God,
We seek your Spirit’s touch upon each person in the _____ family as they accompany their beloved _____ to the doors of death. Send your angels to tend to her and to receive her in joy when pain and death have passed. Give this family times of sacred laughter and shared memory as they await her end and touch each of them with a strong sense of your enfolding presence. Speak to them of your faithful love and let them abide in the peace that passes understanding. In Christ we pray. (272)
Unwanted Pregnancy (273)
Author of Life,
We acknowledge that you are in control of our days, and we are not. We are humbly dependent on you for all things, and trust that your goodness will be manifested in all of the circumstances of life. We pray for _____ and _____, who are faced with a pregnancy they did not want. They seek your wisdom and blessing at this time of unexpected life. Speak your word of love and grace to their hearts and lead them in the way you would have them to go. In Christ we pray. (273)
Miscarriage (274)
God of Sorrowing Hearts,
Especially in times of grief and loss, your abiding love and mercy soothes our pains and calms our trembling souls. Hear our prayers on behalf of _____ and _____ in the wrenching loss of miscarriage. Soothe their sorrow, comfort their grieving hearts, and give them the consolation of your Spirit’s strength to see them through this difficult time. Bring healing to this home and restore their hope. We pray in Jesus' name. (274)
For Family Victims of Suicide (275-276)
Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?. . .If I make my bed in the depths, you are there. Psalm 139:7,8b
God of Boundless Compassion,
We believe your steadfast love extends beyond the limits of our mortality and that your Spirit gently accompanies each of us into a future known only to you. At this time of deep grief and bitter questions, we leave _____in your eternal care. May your Spirit abide with ____ (each family member) according to their great need and your everlasting mercy. Give them strength to endure what must be endured, and guide them toward the healing pools of your peace. In Jesus our Shepherd we pray. (275)
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. Psalm 23:1-2
Hope of the Hopeless,
Although she may not have remembered it, you were the hope of your dear child, ____, who by her own hand now rests within your boundless compassion and love. We ask your deep blessings for _____ as she reels from the enormity of loss and grief. Comfort her as she walks in this dark valley, and lead her gently in the coming time. Let your goodness and mercy flow upon her to uplift her fainting heart. And grant her your peace now and in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (276)
Death of a Loved One (277-292)
God of All Mercy,
You wrap your grace around us like a mother's shawl and you tend to our hearts wounded by sorrow and grief. We pray now for _____as she walks through the valley of the shadow of _____'s death. Bless her and those who mourn with her, and give them all they may need for the days ahead. Grant them the healing power of the Spirit and the deep peace of Christ until they want no more. In Christ we pray. (277)
O God of All Consolation,
Rocked in the cradle of Thy love all our days, we pray as those sure of Thy listening ear and seeking Thy comforting presence. We give Thee our thanks for the life of your beloved child, ____, for we were blessed by her friendship and love. We cry to Thee on behalf of _____, as she now grieves the loss of her dear one. Run to her, succor her, and so tend to her wounded heart, she may find deep comfort, strength, and peace as she lives through this time of wrenching loss. In Christ we pray. (278)
God of the Grieving Heart,
You have told is that it is your good will to be with us and for us in every circumstance of our lives. And so, in trust and hope, we ask your deep blessings to pour out upon _____ in this time of sorrow at the loss of her loved one. In your mercy, comfort and strengthen her and all who mourn _____’s passing. Bless them with all they may need each day, and let the light Christ shine to lead them to the peace that passes all understanding. In Jesus we pray. (279)
Hope of our Hearts,
When we are laden by sorrow too heavy to bear, when we are burdened and wounded, you speak peace to our hearts so we are made able to carry the load and find a wider trust and a deeper hope than we ever knew before. Speak now your enabling words to _____ as she carries her burden of grief and sorrow. Comfort and strengthen her each day. And lead her to the peace that awaits her through your grace. In Christ we pray. (280)
God of All Compassion,
We are so grateful that we do not face the loss of our loved ones alone. We thank you for the strength and consolation of the companionship of your Spirit through the family and friends that surround us with your love and grace. We pray for _____ and for all now mourn _____‘s passing. Give her all she may need according to your good will and mercy, and let your light and peace shine upon her sorrowing heart now and in the time to come. In Christ we pray. (281)
Gracious Giver of All that Is,
We believe you are with us in every circumstance of our lives, especially in times of loss and grief. So we pray that your abiding grace will overflow upon our dear friend _____, at this time of darkness and sorrow. Heal and bless her according to your good will and mercy. Meet her needs each day, and let your consoling Spirit bring her an abundant measure of peace. In Christ we pray. (282)
Almighty Father,
Your grace is the banquet that nourishes our thirsty souls. You give us strength when we are weary and light our way when we are overwhelmed with darkness. At this time of great loss and deep grief at _____’s death, we ask your hovering Spirit to bless and keep _____ and her family. Help her find the strength and light she needs each day. Console her, encourage her, and gently guide her steps. And give her good comfort now and always. In Jesus we pray. (283)
Precious Lord,
You gave the world a wonderful gift in the sterling life of _____. With her loving smile and gracious ways, she greatly blessed her wide circle of family and friends. We give you thanks for the witness of her life and that she has now passed through pain and death and entered the Church Triumphant. Bless _____ now, we pray, and all those learning to live without their dear one’s mortal presence. And touch their hearts with your Spirit’s power to meet all of their needs. In Christ's compassion we pray. (284)
O God of Charity,
Your loving heart responds to our sorrows with the sympathizing tears of Jesus. You never abandon us and you never close your ears to our cries in the night. Hear our prayers now for _____ and _____ and their family in this time of wrenching loss and pain. Be with them as they bear the burden of the death of _____. Bless them in their dark despair and pour out the comfort, light, and peace of Jesus upon them. In Christ we pray. (285)
God of Mercy,
Your Spirit is our compass in life, giving direction and guidance when we have lost our way in the darkness of despair. We ask your guiding hand to be upon _____ and _____as they seek to find their way through the death of dear _____. Bless and keep them according to your good will and compassion. Give strength and courage for the living of each day, and fill their empty hearts with the solace of the grace and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (286)
God of Tender Mercies,
We bless you at all times and in all places, for we have tasted and seen that you are good in every way through all of the circumstances of our lives. And so we take refuge in you with hope and confidence as we ask you to wrap your comforting mantle around _____ and her loved ones who now grieve _____’s death. Bless her as she takes refuge in you and console her with the light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (287)
God of All Grace,
Your tender mercies toward your children are never needed more than when we experience the loss of a loved one. We thank you for your hovering Spirit in our time of deep need, giving us what we lack and filling us with the solace of your amazing grace. We pray you will continue to hover over ____ and all who mourn the death of _____. Console them as you guide them through their grief, and let your face shine upon them as you lead them to the still waters of peace. In Christ we pray. (288)
Our Maker and Friend,
Even when we are struck mute by loss and pain, our hearts sing our thanksgiving and praise to you, for you are our Living Hope. We thank you for the life you gave to ____, and for all in her that was good and loving. We are grateful that her pain and death are past and that she has entered the fullness of eternal life with you. Comfort _____ and all now who mourn her passing and grant them the healing peace of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (289)
Loving God,
In your mercy, you have called _____ into the joy of her eternal home. We thank you for her life, her deeds of kindness, her humor, and her love. We celebrate her release from Alzheimer’s and that final healing that is now hers. Bless _____, who learned to adjust to her mental and emotional absence, and must now learn to adjust to the loss of her physical presence. Send your Spirit to strengthen her and lead her in the path of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (290)
Beginning and Ending of Life,
We celebrate the life of _____’s dear friend/relative and thank you that she now abides with you in repose and peace. We are grateful for all in _____that expressed your hospitality of heart and for all the many ways that bound her to a large, extended family of love. Grant consolation to all who now mourn her passing and give them confidence to believe where they cannot see. In Christ's love we pray. (291)
O Thou our Maker,
Thy loving embrace is our consolation and hope throughout our days, but especially through the long, dark night of grief as we crave Thy tender mercies and gentle care. Wrap Thy tender mercies like bunting around _____ and _____ and their family as they reel from the loss of their dear _____. Llet the light of Christ shine upon them in their sorrow and grant them Thy peace. In Christ we pray. (292)
Death of a Daughter or Son (293-397)
I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping
and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow. Psalm 6:6-7a
To the One Who Hears Every Groaning Cry,
We have no words to convey our grief in the passing of Thy dear child, _____, too briefly clothed in mortality. May our tears and our groans be acceptable in thy sight, as we trust you will make all things clear when we see Thee face-to-face. Let the touch of Thy Spirit’s Breath stir upon _____ and _____ as they struggle to cope with the loss of their beloved daughter/son. May Thy grace be sufficient for all their needs, and Thy peace flow into the chasms of their pain. In Thy Beloved Son we pray. (293)
If I say, “Surely the darkness shall hide me, and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you. Psalm 139:11-12
God of All Compassion,
We thank you that you gave the world such a magnificent gift in the life of ____. We are grateful for all in her that made your love visible through her winning ways and loving heart. Especially we thank you for the blessing that she was to her parents, her husband, and her beautiful children. We ask your hovering Spirit to rest upon the _____ family now as they daily face her loss. Meet their needs with the solace of your grace, and let them know the touch of your healing consolation. In Christ we pray. (294)
Aaron remained silent. Leviticus 10:3
Sovereign Lord of the Universe,
In a time and place beyond this, we hope for the gift of knowledge to understand why hideous evil and torturous sorrow are part of human life. But for now, we have no words except your Word of Love and Hope. Send your healing Word of Love upon _____ and _____ as they grapple with the death of their beloved child, _____. Be their comfort in sorrow, their strength in weakness, their consolation in pain, and their guide through the grief. Share the heavy burdens of their hearts, and send your Spirit to be their daily companion in the darkness of their days. In the light of Christ we pray. (295)
Our Father and Our Mother God,
As our Eternal Parent, you called _____ into life with love and tenderness, and now have called her Home. We thank you for her joy and zest in living, and for all she did in faithful, loving service to your great Cause of Grace. Pour out your blessings upon those she leaves behind, especially her parents, _____ and _____. Give them the comfort and guidance of your Holy Spirit and the deep peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (296)
O God Who Will Not Let Us Go,
You are the Source of all compassion, and in you alone can we find consolation. We ask your heavenly comfort for your child, _____, as she struggles to cope with the loss of her beloved son, _____. Let her abide in your Spirit’s presence and find courage from the strength of your everlasting arms. And be her guide in the darkness as she makes her way on the pathway of your healing grace and peace. In Christ we pray. (297)
For the Prolonged Time of Grieving (298-303)
O God of All Life,
In our time of need, you embrace us tenderly in your loving arms. In our time of weakness, you strengthen the legs of our resolve and keep us going. We pray for our sister, _____, as she continues to learn to live without her life-mate, _____. Comfort and strengthen her that she may keep on keeping on. And let the light and peace of your Spirit continue to be her companion each day. In Christ we pray. (298)
Compassionate God,
We thank you for all of your marvelous gifts to us: the miracle of life itself, the nurturing love of family and friends, and the tensile strength of faith that helps us believe where we do not see. Especially we thank you for the gracious companionship of your Spirit through times of loss and grief. Let your blessings continue upon your daughter, _____, in this time of ongoing grief. Comfort, strengthen, and guide her steps and fill her with all she may need according to your mercy. In Christ we pray. (299)
O Treasure of Our Hearts,
In you we find the precious gift of rest for our souls. And so, we turn to you asking your Spirit to rest upon _____ as she continues to learn to live without the bodily presence of her dear _____. May she find rest for her grieving soul and light in her sorrowing darkness. Give her courage in the face of each day and strengthen her for every tomorrow. And grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (300)
O Heart of Heaven,
With love and tenderness you called your daughter, _____, into life, and with the same love and tenderness you called her to her final home. We thank you for the love she shared and that her many deeds of kindness live on in the hearts of those whose lives she touched. Let your grace now shine upon _____ and _____ as they continue to adjust to life without her. And lead them into the brightness of your healing light and peace that soothes the battered soul. In Christ we pray. (301)
Eternal Guide,
Your compassionate care provides for us each day and secures our future within your steadfast love. May your healing compassion continue to enfold _____ as she walks through the grief of loss of her beloved _____. Bless her with a full measure of your Spirit’s healing balm. Bring her the comfort, strength, and the energy that she seeks, and give her good hope in Jesus who is her Savior, her Friend, and her Peace. In Him we pray. (302)
God of All Hope,
In the midst of all the circumstances of our lives, we believe that you are with us to restore and to bless. We ask your restorative blessings upon _____ as she daily struggles to learn to live without her beloved _____. Be comfort in her distress and a steady rock in the sinking sands of her grief. May she walk in in paths of trust, finding courage, peace, and joy along the way. In Christ's name we pray. (303)
For Special Days Remembered (304-305)
But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:31
O Rest for our Weary Souls,
We ask you special blessings today as _____ marks the first anniversary of _____’s death. Thank you for the light you have shone in her darkness this past year. Continue to renew her strength and provide for every need, according to your good will and mercy. And grant her the ineffable peace of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (304)
Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. . .from everlasting to everlasting you are God. Psalm 90:1, 2c
Eternal Mercy,
You are the source of all comfort and consolation, and so we ask your special blessings upon _____ at this first (Christmas, wedding anniversary, birthday, etc.) without the dear presence of her beloved (husband/daughter, etc.). Pour out your strength and peace upon her and upon all who still deeply mourn _____’s passing. Grant them an abundant measure of your peace and lead them anew into the joy of your salvation. In Christ we pray. (305)
At the Death of a Pet (306-307)
Creator of All Life,
We bless you that our pets share their joy in the gift of life with us in so many delightful ways. We thank you for the _____ family’s wonderful friend, ¬¬¬_____, that brought such happiness and love into their home. As they grieve the loss of their (dog/cat/bird), we ask you to give them fond memories of times past and help them to find your consolation in their grief. In Christ we pray. (306)
Gracious God,
Little _____ was a blessing in the life of the _____ family, shining forth the light of your love and joy in all creatures. Speak your words of comfort to each of them as they mourn the loss of their beloved pet. Help each of the children as they deal with their feelings of grief and bless them all with the consolation of fond memories and happy stories of the times they shared with their beloved pet. In Jesus’ name we pray. (307)
NEXT POST: PRAYERS FOR TEENS
The prayers are written from a Christian perspective, but may be adapted to suit the religious perspective of any God-seeker or spiritual traveller. All Scripture quotes are from the New International Version,, 2006 Zondervan
There are 95 short prayers for troubled times in this section to give you a starting place to send your own prayers to friends, neighbors, and those whom you feel led to pray for. Please feel free to copy them and adapt them as you see fit.
THE PRAYERS ARE NUMBERED AND INDICATED IN PARENTHESES ( )
FOR TROUBLED TIMES (212-307)
Going On (212-228)
Times of Conflict (229)
When God is Silent (230)
For the Self-Destructive (231-232)
To Pray for Oneself as Needed (234-236)
To Pray When Responsible for Another's Death (237)
At the Donation of a Loved One's Organs (238)
Military Personnel at War (239)
Military Families (240-241)
Upon Leaving an Abusive Situation (242)
Those Betrayed (243)
Those Who Have Betrayed (244)
Couples Seeking Reconciliation (245)
Going Through Divorce (246-247)
Children of Divorce (248)
While on Trial (249-250)
While in Prison (251-253)
Conviction of a Loved One’s Murderer (254)
After a Trauma (255)
After a Fire (256)
Moving to a Care Facility (257-260)
For the Dying (261-270)
Loved One Dying (271-272)
Unwanted Pregnancy (273)
Miscarriage (274)
Family Victims of Suicide (275-276)
Death of a Loved One (277-292)
Death of a Daughter or Son (293-297)
Prolonged Grieving (298-303)
Special Days Remembered (304-305)
Death of a Pet (306-307)
For Going On (212-228)
O Life-Stirring God,
Your eternal grace engulfs us in your great love and harbors us safely. And even as the storms of life howl around us, you quietly teach us wisdom and trust. Continue to shelter our dear _____ and teach her what you would have her learn today. Shine the light of Christ upon any darkness of heart or spirit. And bless her with all she may need as she prays each day, “Thy will be done.” In Christ we pray. (212)
O Generous Heart,
You give us light in our darkness, comfort in our anxiety, and hope for our tomorrows. We pray that your abundant Spirit will be upon _____ in this time of crisis and uncertainty. Let the light of Christ shine upon her and all those who wait with her. Bless them with all they may need to meet this day with the peace that is ours through Jesus, our Savior. In Christ we pray. (213)
O Well of Hope,
We seek your soothing blessings when we are weak and fearful. And we thirst for the Living Waters of your saving grace in times of spiritual drought and hopelessness. Spring up again within the soul of your dear child _____. As she wanders in a dry, deserted place of despair, let your Spirit drench her and her waiting family with blessing. Give them strength, wisdom and courage and lead them all in Christ's light. (214)
Ever-Watchful God,
From our mothers’ womb to the cradle of our grave, you are near, upholding and leading, forgiving and healing, strengthening and transforming. We thank you for the countless ways you have blessed your child, _____, through the years with your faithful care. Help her now to rest secure in your presence as she goes through these troubling times, and lead her to the green pastures awaiting her. In Christ we pray. (215)
God of Abounding Compassion,
When we are weary, you give us rest. When we are sinking, you set our feet on solid ground. When we are stumbling, you hold us steady. When we are helpless, you reach out your saving hand. In your mercy hear our prayer for _____ at this time. Touch her with the soothing balm of Christ's peace and your Spirit's power, that she may find her every need fulfilled in you. Amen. (216)
Saving God,
Make your face to shine upon _____ to be a deep and healing blessing. May she know with St. Patrick: "Christ within her. Christ behind her. Christ before her. Christ beside her. Christ to comfort and restore her. Christ beneath her. Christ above her. Christ in quiet. Christ in danger. Christ in hearts of all that love and care for her." Bind her to you and give her good hope in Christ. Amen (217)
O God our Refuge,
Your love and faithfulness are eternal, and your mercy is from everlasting to everlasting. In love and mercy, bless our dear _____ at this time of struggle and worry. Give to her all she may need to endure whatever is to be. Lead her, uphold her, and strengthen her shaky faith. Let the light of Christ shine brightly upon her and grant her deep pools of his peace each step of the way. We ask for his sake and in his name. (218)
Author and Preserver of Life,
We are grateful that our days are sustained by your grace and nurtured by your Spirit’s touch. Hear us as we pray for our dear _____, who is bowed down with the weight of many concerns and problems. Lift her heart and strengthen her resolve to meet this day in faith and trust. Sustain her according to your good will, and help her to rest confidently in the light and peace of Christ. In Jesus' name we pray. (219)
Bread of Heaven,
Grant you tender mercies to our dear, _____. Let your Spirit waft around her like the aroma of a freshly baked loaf, filling in the chasms of fear and hopelessness and giving her the courage to go on. Do not let her eyes grow dim with despair, but nurture her with hope in your renewing power. In Christ we pray. (220)
O Breath of Life,
Your grace rocks us gently to the unbroken rhythm of your eternal love. And as your mercy flows around us in a gentle healing balm, we are born anew. We ask a deep and steady strength for _____, now and in the coming days. In mercy, shelter her body, nourish her soul, and grant her confidence for the next step of her journey. And line her path with lilies from the fields of your peace and joy. In Christ we pray. (221)
God of Miracles,
In thy goodness and mercy, even the harshest circumstances of our days are transformed from causes for despair into deep wells of praise and holy living. And so when courage falters and desperation nips at our heels, when hope is hidden amidst the tangle of our wills with thine, we make bold to pray, "Have thine own way." In mercy bless thy child, _____ as she seeks thy will, and grant her thy peace. In Christ we pray. (222)
God of Endless Miracles,
We thank you for the wondrous power of your eternal grace that carries us from a parched and weary place to the waters of hope. We ask your power to flood over our dear _____, O Living Waters, to give her the strength and courage she craves. As she drinks in the vitality and joy that your love provides, sate her fully. Then kindle a fierce hope within her through your Spirit’s hovering presence and grant her peace in Christ. (223)
God Our Pilot,
At your behest the gale winds blow and the great storms fill the seas. We ask you to bless our friend, _____, as she treads the treacherous waters of this perilous time. Buoy her with the knowledge of your abiding love and give her safe passage. Let her see the beacon of your light along the rocky shoals of her daily tribulations. And keep her tethered to Jesus, who will bring her to safe harbor. In Christ we pray. (224)
Compassionate God,
Your mercy is from everlasting to everlasting for all you have called into life. We ask your tender mercies upon _____ and _____ at this difficult time of life. In distress be their comfort, in weakness be their strength, in pain be their surcease, in unknowing be their light, and in darkness be their guide. Whatever each day may bring, we ask that courage, trust, and joy may be the song they sing through your Spirit’s power. In Christ we pray. (225)
Gracious Sower of Life,
As you scatter seeds of grace throughout our days, you call us to change and grow that you may reap a harvest of goodness in us and through us. We thank you for the goodness that your grace that is bringing _____ during this difficult season. Continue to give her the will and courage to persevere in trust and hope. Bless her as she offers her love and service others, and lead her always in the path of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (226)
O Sovereign God,
Your steadfast love is the fount of all blessings even in the midst of all of the turmoil, changes, and challenges of our lives. We pray you to continue to lead and guide _____ in the midst of her troubles and chaos. Give her all that she may need for this day to “keep on keeping on” in integrity and wisdom. And in your mercy bless her with the light of your face shining upon her each day. In Christ we pray. (227)
Gracious God,
How marvelous to know the wonder of your amazing grace pouring out upon us each day, especially on our sister, _____, as she continues to go through a very rough time. We thank you for the places of recovery and the people with healing skills that have helped bring her though thus far. By your Spirit, give her the perseverance, and courage to slow down and take better care of herself. And grant her the profound and healing peace of Christ, in whose name we pray. (228)
For Times of Conflict (229)
God of Reconciliation,
For our failure to honor our adversaries, forgive us we pray. For our need to be right rather than loving, bring us to repentance. For our goal of victory rather than community, lead us in your paths of righteousness. Bless now _____ and _____ who are deadlocked in conflict and contempt. Break down the walls that divide them and help each to see the other with humility. Give them listening hearts, forgiving spirits, and reconciling words, now and always. In Christ our peace we pray. (229)
When God is Silent (230)
O God of Mystery,
We balk at the agony of your stillness and stumble in the heavy absence of your voice. We fear your silence and distrust the victory of your powerful love over all that crushes life. Unlock our strangling anxieties. And apply the balm of your grace to calm our thrashing hearts, especially upon _____, who fears your absence and cries from the depths of despair. We wait for your voice to speak to her thrashing heart yet again. In Christ we pray. (230)
For The Self-Destructive (231-233)
Ever-loving God,
We ask your Spirit’s gentle touch upon your precious child _____. Lost in a chilling darkness, she waits upon you for light, mercy, and guidance. Smother her attraction toward self-destruction and stay her hand, we pray. Let her drink deeply from the cup of your salvation, that she may find the courage to live and the will and power to claim a future of restoration and hope. And grant your amazing, healing grace to triumph in her and through her each moment, each day. In Christ we pray. (231)
God of Compassion,
Send your profound blessings on _____, who is searching for meaning and hope. Stay her hand of self-destruction and give her the wisdom and courage to make the choices necessary to claim the peace, comfort, and joy of this earthly life. Guide her in her daily walk that she may find your good will and purpose. And lead her into life anew by the power of your Spirit and in the light of your Saving Son. In Christ we pray. (232)
O Melody of Love,
We thank you for planting the song of life within our hearts, buried and tremulous though it sometimes may be. We ask your powerful Spirit to sing for _____ at this time of tuneless despair and grinding panic. Even when such darkness mutes her faith and will to live, grant that the light of Christ may shine along her way and teach her your song of hope yet again. In Christ we pray. (233)
To Pray for Oneself as Needed (234-236)
My God and My Savior,
Sometimes I do not have any words to pray as the burden of my sorrow keeps me silenced. It is then that I ask you, O God of Compassion, to. . .
. . .Accept as prayer my muted-heart and nerve-wracked spirit—Love, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer my drowning doubt and engulfing anger—Grace, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer my groaning grief and paralyzing thoughts—Hope, hear my prayer.
. . .Accept as prayer, O Blessing Goodness. . .
. . .my weakness, inability, and struggle to keep going
. . .my debilitated energy and splintered mind
. . .all that conspires to tether my soul to darkness.
Remember me, O Holy One of Life, and hear my prayer. In Christ’s mercy I pray. (234)
Our Father . . .Abba-Daddy, Mommy- Love: generate new life within us all, even me
Who art in heaven . . .and bring us into your precious, holy presence.
Hallowed be Thy name. . .We praise your matchless goodness and love.
Thy Kingdom come . . .May justice, kindness, and humility flourish
Thy will be done . . .according to your Good Plan
on earth as it is in heaven . . .that our lives with others will promote your Reign.
Give us this day our daily bread . . .Nurture our hungering spirits; feed all in need,
And forgive us our debts . . .and restore our integrity,
as we forgive our debtors . . .that we may be transparent vessels of your grace.
And lead us not into temptation . . .Do not let us teeter toward evil doings
But deliver us from evil . . .nor succumb to the lure of self-righteousness.
For Thine is the Kingdom . . .For your good will is the Goal of all things.
And the Power . . .We know that all life and blessings flow from you,
And the Glory forever . . .and galaxies of praise shall abound through eternity.
Amen . . .Hallelujah! Hallelujah! May it be so. (235)
O Fusion of Love,
Why do I fear when Thou art my Source and my End? Why do I rage against human weakness, when it is the weakness itself that gives Thee cause to extend Thy tender mercies in such abundance? O gentle Breath of God, melt my rigid heart now frozen by despair. Gird me with Thy grace and shield me with Thy hope. May I daily remember that this is the day that Thou givest to rejoice and be glad in, that I may will to rejoice all my days. Alleluia! Alleluia! (236)
To Pray When Responsible for Another’s Death (237)
O LORD my God, I take refuge in you; save and deliver me from all who pursue me, or they will tear me like a lion and rip me to pieces with no one to rescue me. Psalm 7:1-2
My God, My God,
How can I ever make peace with this hideous tragedy that leaves so much grief, so many tears in its wake? I am the focus of terrible anger and great pity, and who can blame them? Oh, that I could do it over, but what has happened cannot be changed. Yet you, O Savior, can make a way where there is no way, that forgiveness may come, and I may to learn how to live with this. You are my only hope. Do not forsake me, I pray. Oh let the arms of Jesus envelop me in your peace! In Christ's name I pray. (237)
Donation of Loved Ones' Organs (238)
Hovering Spirit,
With shock and grief, we have suffered the loss of our dear _____'s life. But with great love reflecting your own, _____ and _____ have given permission for her organs to be used for others' sake. May each transplant be a source of gospel grace for the recipients. And let the hands of all who transport, care for, and implant these precious gifts of life be as the hands of Christ bringing light and hope. In Christ we pray. (238)
Military Personnel at War (239)
Show the wonder of your great love, you who save by your right hand those who take refuge in you from their foes. Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings. Psalm 17:7-8
Faithful God,
When we are surrounded with those who seek to destroy our lives, you hide our souls in the refuge of your eternal wings, and we remember that your steadfast love will never let us go. We pray for _____ who is in circumstances both deadly and deadening. Give her refuge in the shadow of your hovering Spirit. Guard and keep her going out and her coming in, and bless her with all she may need. In Christ we pray. (239)
For Military Families (240-241)
Rampart of Grace,
Even in the worst times, we are called to trust that your good will and mercy shall prevail in this world you love so dearly. We pray at this difficult time of departure for _____. We ask your blessing on her and her family in her absence. Grant them all comfort in the midst of anxiety, and peace in the face of fears. And while she is in the dangerous fields of conflict, keep her safe and bring her home. In Christ we pray. (240)
Power of the Universe,
We ask your deepest blessings upon _____ and _____ and their family during this time of enforced separation. May they lean heavily upon your grace for all their needs. Grant _____ your wisdom and courage as she goes where she is ordered. Give her a discerning heart to follow orders with integrity and righteousness. Keep her safe from harm and guide all her actions. In Christ we pray. (241)
Leaving an Abusive Situation (242)
Harbor of Safety,
We thank you for giving _____ the courage to claim sanctuary from her dangerous home life. Continue to pour out your saving grace in abundance upon her and her children now. Give her safety, guidance, and the wisdom that she seeks. Lead her into greater self-understanding and self-love through the struggles of this new beginning, and let the light of Christ shine upon her every step of the way. In Jesus we pray. (242)
For Those Betrayed (243)
Abiding Hope,
In your compassion, you suffer with those who have been deceived and betrayed. With confidence in your power to do what we cannot, we claim your abundant goodness for _____ in the coming weeks and months. In grace and mercy, let your Spirit make a way through the darkness and pain. Be her light and her strength, her guide and her comfort as she seeks your healing and peace. In Christ we pray. (243)
For Those Who Have Betrayed (244)
Redeeming God,
When we are mired in a web of lies, betrayal and unfaithfulness, in grace you lead us to repentance, forgive our sins, and restore us to right living. Your child, _____, now finds herself at your throne of judgement and mercy. Quicken her spirit with forgiveness and resurrect her torn and bleeding relationship. And restore the shattered trust between them toward healing and hope each day. In Christ we pray. (244)
Couples Seeking Reconciliation (245)
God of Miracles,
You call us to weed out the harmful ways and bad habits that stifle our relationships and break apart the bonds of our attachment. As your children _____ and _____ struggle toward reconciliation, sow love, patience and hope in their hearts. May they cling to your mercy, forgiveness, and strength as they await your healing power to resurrect their marriage/relationship. In Christ we pray. (245)
Those Going Through Divorce (246-247)
O Gracious God,
A time of deep darkness and pain has come upon _____ as her marriage is torn asunder. She hungers for signs of your grace through this wrenching time of starting over. Place your healing hand upon the wounds of heart and soul, and comfort the family as they adjust to a new beginning. Give each of them wisdom and courage and let your light shine upon them day by day. In Christ we pray. (246)
God of New Beginnings,
We do not know what the future holds, but we know in whose hands it is held. We ask your bless upon our sister, _____, as her divorce is finalized. Lead her on in this new phase of her journey with you and help her continue to move from darkness and pain into the light of hope. And grant her the ability to forgive and let go of the past, as she abides with you in the peace that passes all understanding. In Christ we pray. (247)
For Children of Divorce (248)
Dear Jesus,
Even when we are scared because of all the changes in our families, we know that you love us and take care of us each day. We pray for _____ (and _____), who is/are now hurting and afraid because of the divorce. Bless her/them each day as she/they adjust(s) to the changes that her/their parents have made, and help her/them with her/their problems. Please turn tears of sadness into smiles for the future. In Christ we pray. (248)
While on Trial (249-250)
Compassionate Judge,
Our call is neither as judge nor jury, but only as companion on the way. Be with our friend, _____, as she undergoes this time of judgement under the courts of law. Strengthen and encourage her, we pray. Let your light shine upon her and speak your words of life and goodness, especially when despair descends and hope flickers. Bless her in accordance with her needs and your great mercy. Fill her with the grace of Jesus and feed her with the Bread of Heaven. In Christ we pray. (249)
Eternal God,
We are blessed to know your Spirit abides with us, especially when time seems to stop and spirits falter. You help us remember that you are working out your good will and mercy through all of the circumstances of our days and that you are with us, no matter what. Deeply bless ______ and her family as she goes through this time of trial. Strengthen her, encourage her, and give her all she may need each day to persevere in faith, hope, and love. In Christ we pray. (250)
While in Prison (251-252)
Boundless One,
Have mercy upon our friend, _____, who is now confined behind bars in hopelessness and despair. Let your Spirit blow upon her each day that the light and peace of Christ may be her constant companion. Whisper your goodness and hope that she may not just survive each day, but by abiding in your grace, be created anew. In Christ the Savior of the world we pray. (251)
Great God of the Ages,
Even when imprisoned behind bars from a past of destruction and mayhem, you are able to redeem our story into one of grace and hope. We ask your blessing upon _____ as she serves out her prison term. Surprise her with gifts of grace and cause her to grow in faith and righteousness. Send your agents of mercy to protect and bless her. And heal her of all that would keep her from responding to you in thanksgiving and new life. In Christ we pray. (252)
Fountain of All Blessing,
You are the Source, Guide, and Goal of all that is, and you offer us strength and healing through your abiding Spirit. Abide with the _____ family at this time, especially with_____ as she struggles to recover sobriety and hope while imprisoned behind bars. Let angels of mercy attend her and make her whole. Bless her parents, her children, and all who love her as they conform their lives and their plans to accommodate her situation. Help them all to persevere and give them good hope in Jesus. In Christ we pray. (253)
Conviction of a Loved One’s Murderer (254)
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress; my God in whom I trust.” Psalm 91:1-2
Steadfast God of Love,
You have been a refuge and a fortress for _____ and ____ who continue to learn to live without their beloved _____, slain by the hand of another. That one has now been brought to justice and this chapter of their ordeal is at long last over. Bless each according to their need and your faithful love, and may your Spirit's power and Christ's grace prevail. In your blessed name we pray. (254)
After a Trauma (255)
God of All Compassion,
We offer our heartfelt gratitude for your hand upon _____ during the dreadful time of trauma and shock. We thank you for the divine timing that brought her to see yet another day of life and ask that the same love and compassion that embraced her then will surround her now as she goes through its aftermath. And we pray you will help her find some meaning from it within your grace and wisdom. In Christ we pray. (255)
After a Fire (256)
O God our Refuge,
We thank you for your saving mercies through those who fought the dreadful fire so valiantly. We thank you for the ____ family's survival and pray for them at this time of the loss of their home and all they own. As they start to rebuild their lives, rain your abundant blessings down upon them. Stir friends and neighbors to acts of kindness and generosity and kindle a living hope within. In the peace of Christ we pray. (256)
Moving to a Care Facility (257-260)
God of All Mercy,
We pray for a safe passage for _____ and _____ as they begin another stage of their journey together. As _____ learns to make her home in the (name of facility), we beseech your merciful peace for any anxieties s/he may feel. And as _____ adjusts to life at home without her/him, we ask your comforting Spirit upon her/him. Provide balm for both of their hurting hearts and consolation for their fears, now and in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (257)
Compassionate God,
You comfort us in our distress and guide us when we are feeling lost. We pray you will bless the _____ family as they struggle to find direction to help for _____. Let Christ’s light lead them toward the path you would have them go. Be with all the family members in this time of unknowing and confusion. Provide them with what each one needs according to your good will and abounding mercy. In Christ we pray. (258)
Eternal Hope,
From our mothers’ wombs to the womb of our graves, you steadfastly lead, encourage, strengthen, and uphold us. We thank you for your faithfulness to _____, your beloved daughter. We ask you to work your good will in her and through her as she moves to her final earthly home. Uphold her in your everlasting arms and carry her to the end of her journey on earth in heavenly peace. In Jesus our Savior, we pray. (259)
Holy God,
You are the wind beneath our wings and so we ask that you will blow your Spirit’s blessings upon our sister, _____, as she is made to move out of her home and into a facility where she will receive the care she requires. Give her the strength for the changes that will come, and let the light of Christ shine upon her through the touch and skill of all who attend to her. Help her to accept what she cannot change and grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (260)
For the Dying (261-270)
Sheltering God,
We thank you for the promise of your abiding grace upon us in this life and the life to come. It is the foundation of our hope and trust. Bless our dear sister, _____, with all she may need as you lead her toward her final rest Comfort her in her distress, be strength for her in her weakness, and as she draws ever nearer, cause her heart to soar on the wings of your love. In Christ we pray. (261)
O Great Love,
How blessed we are to know that as our days draw to a close and the sting of death is ours to endure, you wrap us ever tighter in salvation’s garments of grace. Enfold our dear _____ and her family as she prepares to make her way to her eternal home with you. Bless her passage through the journey ahead all who now say goodbye to her with the hope of resurrection and glad reunion in your good time. In Christ we pray. (262)
God of the Journey,
We know that in you we have our beginnings and our endings and so we thank you for your gracious Design that gives us a time to live and a time to die. Let it be for _____ according to your good and compassionate will. May your Spirit carry her as she makes her way toward the place you have prepared for her. Bless her and her loving family with all they may need as you welcome her to her final home. In Christ. (263)
Great Weaver of Life,
Throughout our days you mend our broken ways. Then you graciously loosen the knot of our mortality to free us to enter through the doors of eternal life with you. As you now loosen the knot for our dear _____, we seek your blessing. Open the door at her knock that she may enter with her Lord Jesus in triumph and joy. And grant her the peace that passes all understanding now and forever. In Christ we pray. (264)
O Thou our Maker,
Dependent on you for all things, we are blessed by your abiding presence. Called to remember that we are your little children, we trust in your power to redeem and sustain us throughout our life on earth and beyond. May your power now be made complete in _____’s weakness and approaching death. As she comes to you as a little child, let the glory of Heaven shine upon her in joyful welcome. In Christ's peace we pray. (265)
O Boundless One,
You wrap your grace in blessings large and small throughout our days. Especially at our earthly end, grace is wrapped in the gift of death that delivers us into your waiting arms. We pray you will be with our dear sister _____, as she now turns toward Home. Move her beyond the confines of her body so her spirit may soar with trust and hope until she sees you face to face and she shall want no more. In Christ we pray. (266)
Be still and know that I am God! Psalm 46:10a
O Great Refuge,
We would be still and thank you for your grace amid the storms of life and death. We lift before you _____, now caught in the storm between life and death and waiting for release. Settle the peace of Christ upon her and on all who wait at her side in love. Support the loved ones she leaves behind, and let the light of Christ shine upon them all in the sorrow and grief of their parting. In Christ we pray. (267)
Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. Psalm 119:105
Poet of All Life,
Your word does not just say something to us, but causes life abundant to grow within us. Even at the very end of our earthly journey, it flourishes within and lights our way toward your waiting arms. Speak your word now to _____, whom you have called by name and claimed as your own, that even her weakness and fading awareness may manifest your glory and proclaim your gracious Rule, on earth as it is in heaven. In Christ we pray. (268)
O Endless Love,
We bless and thank you for all the ways you have spoken to _____ and _____ in love and faithfulness throughout their years together. May your tender mercies continue to pour out upon them, as _____ prepares to cross the great divide of death, and _____ prepares to say goodbye to him/her. Grant to each of them according to their need and your deep compassion. May your Spirit light their way and grant them peace. In Christ we pray. (269)
God of the Journey,
As you map out our days with tender compassion, you call us to trust that your goodwill is being worked out through all of the circumstances of life and death. We ask your Spirit to abide with our sister, _____, in this time as she follows your leading through death to the joyful reunion with the Church Triumphant. Bless her now and shower her with your peace throughout the journey. In Christ we pray. (270)
Loved One Dying (271-272)
O Compassionate God,
As her treasured companion in life hovers between life and death, we ask your Spirit to bless your beloved child, _____. Give her your vision through the darkness as _____ makes his way through death into the abundant life to come. Bless her with the assurance of your presence at this time of letting go. Bestow your gifts of courage and wisdom as you guide her by the light of love, and grant her an overflowing measure of your peace, now and in the coming days. In Christ we pray.
(271)
Gracious God,
We seek your Spirit’s touch upon each person in the _____ family as they accompany their beloved _____ to the doors of death. Send your angels to tend to her and to receive her in joy when pain and death have passed. Give this family times of sacred laughter and shared memory as they await her end and touch each of them with a strong sense of your enfolding presence. Speak to them of your faithful love and let them abide in the peace that passes understanding. In Christ we pray. (272)
Unwanted Pregnancy (273)
Author of Life,
We acknowledge that you are in control of our days, and we are not. We are humbly dependent on you for all things, and trust that your goodness will be manifested in all of the circumstances of life. We pray for _____ and _____, who are faced with a pregnancy they did not want. They seek your wisdom and blessing at this time of unexpected life. Speak your word of love and grace to their hearts and lead them in the way you would have them to go. In Christ we pray. (273)
Miscarriage (274)
God of Sorrowing Hearts,
Especially in times of grief and loss, your abiding love and mercy soothes our pains and calms our trembling souls. Hear our prayers on behalf of _____ and _____ in the wrenching loss of miscarriage. Soothe their sorrow, comfort their grieving hearts, and give them the consolation of your Spirit’s strength to see them through this difficult time. Bring healing to this home and restore their hope. We pray in Jesus' name. (274)
For Family Victims of Suicide (275-276)
Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?. . .If I make my bed in the depths, you are there. Psalm 139:7,8b
God of Boundless Compassion,
We believe your steadfast love extends beyond the limits of our mortality and that your Spirit gently accompanies each of us into a future known only to you. At this time of deep grief and bitter questions, we leave _____in your eternal care. May your Spirit abide with ____ (each family member) according to their great need and your everlasting mercy. Give them strength to endure what must be endured, and guide them toward the healing pools of your peace. In Jesus our Shepherd we pray. (275)
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. Psalm 23:1-2
Hope of the Hopeless,
Although she may not have remembered it, you were the hope of your dear child, ____, who by her own hand now rests within your boundless compassion and love. We ask your deep blessings for _____ as she reels from the enormity of loss and grief. Comfort her as she walks in this dark valley, and lead her gently in the coming time. Let your goodness and mercy flow upon her to uplift her fainting heart. And grant her your peace now and in the coming time. In Christ we pray. (276)
Death of a Loved One (277-292)
God of All Mercy,
You wrap your grace around us like a mother's shawl and you tend to our hearts wounded by sorrow and grief. We pray now for _____as she walks through the valley of the shadow of _____'s death. Bless her and those who mourn with her, and give them all they may need for the days ahead. Grant them the healing power of the Spirit and the deep peace of Christ until they want no more. In Christ we pray. (277)
O God of All Consolation,
Rocked in the cradle of Thy love all our days, we pray as those sure of Thy listening ear and seeking Thy comforting presence. We give Thee our thanks for the life of your beloved child, ____, for we were blessed by her friendship and love. We cry to Thee on behalf of _____, as she now grieves the loss of her dear one. Run to her, succor her, and so tend to her wounded heart, she may find deep comfort, strength, and peace as she lives through this time of wrenching loss. In Christ we pray. (278)
God of the Grieving Heart,
You have told is that it is your good will to be with us and for us in every circumstance of our lives. And so, in trust and hope, we ask your deep blessings to pour out upon _____ in this time of sorrow at the loss of her loved one. In your mercy, comfort and strengthen her and all who mourn _____’s passing. Bless them with all they may need each day, and let the light Christ shine to lead them to the peace that passes all understanding. In Jesus we pray. (279)
Hope of our Hearts,
When we are laden by sorrow too heavy to bear, when we are burdened and wounded, you speak peace to our hearts so we are made able to carry the load and find a wider trust and a deeper hope than we ever knew before. Speak now your enabling words to _____ as she carries her burden of grief and sorrow. Comfort and strengthen her each day. And lead her to the peace that awaits her through your grace. In Christ we pray. (280)
God of All Compassion,
We are so grateful that we do not face the loss of our loved ones alone. We thank you for the strength and consolation of the companionship of your Spirit through the family and friends that surround us with your love and grace. We pray for _____ and for all now mourn _____‘s passing. Give her all she may need according to your good will and mercy, and let your light and peace shine upon her sorrowing heart now and in the time to come. In Christ we pray. (281)
Gracious Giver of All that Is,
We believe you are with us in every circumstance of our lives, especially in times of loss and grief. So we pray that your abiding grace will overflow upon our dear friend _____, at this time of darkness and sorrow. Heal and bless her according to your good will and mercy. Meet her needs each day, and let your consoling Spirit bring her an abundant measure of peace. In Christ we pray. (282)
Almighty Father,
Your grace is the banquet that nourishes our thirsty souls. You give us strength when we are weary and light our way when we are overwhelmed with darkness. At this time of great loss and deep grief at _____’s death, we ask your hovering Spirit to bless and keep _____ and her family. Help her find the strength and light she needs each day. Console her, encourage her, and gently guide her steps. And give her good comfort now and always. In Jesus we pray. (283)
Precious Lord,
You gave the world a wonderful gift in the sterling life of _____. With her loving smile and gracious ways, she greatly blessed her wide circle of family and friends. We give you thanks for the witness of her life and that she has now passed through pain and death and entered the Church Triumphant. Bless _____ now, we pray, and all those learning to live without their dear one’s mortal presence. And touch their hearts with your Spirit’s power to meet all of their needs. In Christ's compassion we pray. (284)
O God of Charity,
Your loving heart responds to our sorrows with the sympathizing tears of Jesus. You never abandon us and you never close your ears to our cries in the night. Hear our prayers now for _____ and _____ and their family in this time of wrenching loss and pain. Be with them as they bear the burden of the death of _____. Bless them in their dark despair and pour out the comfort, light, and peace of Jesus upon them. In Christ we pray. (285)
God of Mercy,
Your Spirit is our compass in life, giving direction and guidance when we have lost our way in the darkness of despair. We ask your guiding hand to be upon _____ and _____as they seek to find their way through the death of dear _____. Bless and keep them according to your good will and compassion. Give strength and courage for the living of each day, and fill their empty hearts with the solace of the grace and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (286)
God of Tender Mercies,
We bless you at all times and in all places, for we have tasted and seen that you are good in every way through all of the circumstances of our lives. And so we take refuge in you with hope and confidence as we ask you to wrap your comforting mantle around _____ and her loved ones who now grieve _____’s death. Bless her as she takes refuge in you and console her with the light and peace of Jesus. In Christ we pray. (287)
God of All Grace,
Your tender mercies toward your children are never needed more than when we experience the loss of a loved one. We thank you for your hovering Spirit in our time of deep need, giving us what we lack and filling us with the solace of your amazing grace. We pray you will continue to hover over ____ and all who mourn the death of _____. Console them as you guide them through their grief, and let your face shine upon them as you lead them to the still waters of peace. In Christ we pray. (288)
Our Maker and Friend,
Even when we are struck mute by loss and pain, our hearts sing our thanksgiving and praise to you, for you are our Living Hope. We thank you for the life you gave to ____, and for all in her that was good and loving. We are grateful that her pain and death are past and that she has entered the fullness of eternal life with you. Comfort _____ and all now who mourn her passing and grant them the healing peace of Christ. In Jesus we pray. (289)
Loving God,
In your mercy, you have called _____ into the joy of her eternal home. We thank you for her life, her deeds of kindness, her humor, and her love. We celebrate her release from Alzheimer’s and that final healing that is now hers. Bless _____, who learned to adjust to her mental and emotional absence, and must now learn to adjust to the loss of her physical presence. Send your Spirit to strengthen her and lead her in the path of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (290)
Beginning and Ending of Life,
We celebrate the life of _____’s dear friend/relative and thank you that she now abides with you in repose and peace. We are grateful for all in _____that expressed your hospitality of heart and for all the many ways that bound her to a large, extended family of love. Grant consolation to all who now mourn her passing and give them confidence to believe where they cannot see. In Christ's love we pray. (291)
O Thou our Maker,
Thy loving embrace is our consolation and hope throughout our days, but especially through the long, dark night of grief as we crave Thy tender mercies and gentle care. Wrap Thy tender mercies like bunting around _____ and _____ and their family as they reel from the loss of their dear _____. Llet the light of Christ shine upon them in their sorrow and grant them Thy peace. In Christ we pray. (292)
Death of a Daughter or Son (293-397)
I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping
and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow. Psalm 6:6-7a
To the One Who Hears Every Groaning Cry,
We have no words to convey our grief in the passing of Thy dear child, _____, too briefly clothed in mortality. May our tears and our groans be acceptable in thy sight, as we trust you will make all things clear when we see Thee face-to-face. Let the touch of Thy Spirit’s Breath stir upon _____ and _____ as they struggle to cope with the loss of their beloved daughter/son. May Thy grace be sufficient for all their needs, and Thy peace flow into the chasms of their pain. In Thy Beloved Son we pray. (293)
If I say, “Surely the darkness shall hide me, and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you. Psalm 139:11-12
God of All Compassion,
We thank you that you gave the world such a magnificent gift in the life of ____. We are grateful for all in her that made your love visible through her winning ways and loving heart. Especially we thank you for the blessing that she was to her parents, her husband, and her beautiful children. We ask your hovering Spirit to rest upon the _____ family now as they daily face her loss. Meet their needs with the solace of your grace, and let them know the touch of your healing consolation. In Christ we pray. (294)
Aaron remained silent. Leviticus 10:3
Sovereign Lord of the Universe,
In a time and place beyond this, we hope for the gift of knowledge to understand why hideous evil and torturous sorrow are part of human life. But for now, we have no words except your Word of Love and Hope. Send your healing Word of Love upon _____ and _____ as they grapple with the death of their beloved child, _____. Be their comfort in sorrow, their strength in weakness, their consolation in pain, and their guide through the grief. Share the heavy burdens of their hearts, and send your Spirit to be their daily companion in the darkness of their days. In the light of Christ we pray. (295)
Our Father and Our Mother God,
As our Eternal Parent, you called _____ into life with love and tenderness, and now have called her Home. We thank you for her joy and zest in living, and for all she did in faithful, loving service to your great Cause of Grace. Pour out your blessings upon those she leaves behind, especially her parents, _____ and _____. Give them the comfort and guidance of your Holy Spirit and the deep peace of Christ. In Him we pray. (296)
O God Who Will Not Let Us Go,
You are the Source of all compassion, and in you alone can we find consolation. We ask your heavenly comfort for your child, _____, as she struggles to cope with the loss of her beloved son, _____. Let her abide in your Spirit’s presence and find courage from the strength of your everlasting arms. And be her guide in the darkness as she makes her way on the pathway of your healing grace and peace. In Christ we pray. (297)
For the Prolonged Time of Grieving (298-303)
O God of All Life,
In our time of need, you embrace us tenderly in your loving arms. In our time of weakness, you strengthen the legs of our resolve and keep us going. We pray for our sister, _____, as she continues to learn to live without her life-mate, _____. Comfort and strengthen her that she may keep on keeping on. And let the light and peace of your Spirit continue to be her companion each day. In Christ we pray. (298)
Compassionate God,
We thank you for all of your marvelous gifts to us: the miracle of life itself, the nurturing love of family and friends, and the tensile strength of faith that helps us believe where we do not see. Especially we thank you for the gracious companionship of your Spirit through times of loss and grief. Let your blessings continue upon your daughter, _____, in this time of ongoing grief. Comfort, strengthen, and guide her steps and fill her with all she may need according to your mercy. In Christ we pray. (299)
O Treasure of Our Hearts,
In you we find the precious gift of rest for our souls. And so, we turn to you asking your Spirit to rest upon _____ as she continues to learn to live without the bodily presence of her dear _____. May she find rest for her grieving soul and light in her sorrowing darkness. Give her courage in the face of each day and strengthen her for every tomorrow. And grant her your peace. In Christ we pray. (300)
O Heart of Heaven,
With love and tenderness you called your daughter, _____, into life, and with the same love and tenderness you called her to her final home. We thank you for the love she shared and that her many deeds of kindness live on in the hearts of those whose lives she touched. Let your grace now shine upon _____ and _____ as they continue to adjust to life without her. And lead them into the brightness of your healing light and peace that soothes the battered soul. In Christ we pray. (301)
Eternal Guide,
Your compassionate care provides for us each day and secures our future within your steadfast love. May your healing compassion continue to enfold _____ as she walks through the grief of loss of her beloved _____. Bless her with a full measure of your Spirit’s healing balm. Bring her the comfort, strength, and the energy that she seeks, and give her good hope in Jesus who is her Savior, her Friend, and her Peace. In Him we pray. (302)
God of All Hope,
In the midst of all the circumstances of our lives, we believe that you are with us to restore and to bless. We ask your restorative blessings upon _____ as she daily struggles to learn to live without her beloved _____. Be comfort in her distress and a steady rock in the sinking sands of her grief. May she walk in in paths of trust, finding courage, peace, and joy along the way. In Christ's name we pray. (303)
For Special Days Remembered (304-305)
But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:31
O Rest for our Weary Souls,
We ask you special blessings today as _____ marks the first anniversary of _____’s death. Thank you for the light you have shone in her darkness this past year. Continue to renew her strength and provide for every need, according to your good will and mercy. And grant her the ineffable peace of Jesus each day. In Christ we pray. (304)
Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. . .from everlasting to everlasting you are God. Psalm 90:1, 2c
Eternal Mercy,
You are the source of all comfort and consolation, and so we ask your special blessings upon _____ at this first (Christmas, wedding anniversary, birthday, etc.) without the dear presence of her beloved (husband/daughter, etc.). Pour out your strength and peace upon her and upon all who still deeply mourn _____’s passing. Grant them an abundant measure of your peace and lead them anew into the joy of your salvation. In Christ we pray. (305)
At the Death of a Pet (306-307)
Creator of All Life,
We bless you that our pets share their joy in the gift of life with us in so many delightful ways. We thank you for the _____ family’s wonderful friend, ¬¬¬_____, that brought such happiness and love into their home. As they grieve the loss of their (dog/cat/bird), we ask you to give them fond memories of times past and help them to find your consolation in their grief. In Christ we pray. (306)
Gracious God,
Little _____ was a blessing in the life of the _____ family, shining forth the light of your love and joy in all creatures. Speak your words of comfort to each of them as they mourn the loss of their beloved pet. Help each of the children as they deal with their feelings of grief and bless them all with the consolation of fond memories and happy stories of the times they shared with their beloved pet. In Jesus’ name we pray. (307)
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